Nahm

There is a magic solution. It's looking at the path as the path to Joy. It's like everything else, it's how you think I about it, and your emotions let you know how to find a higher thought about anything. Do your practices daily, and enjoy them, look at them as they are the very thing that is bringing you joy. And listen to those that refer to it as work, they are giving you the gift.

You can have everything that you don't hold at a distance with resistant thought. You are in your reality, not someone else's... what are you doing with that?

Passion. This could become obvious to you. Consider, why are you choosing to think you can't have everything you want? Passion, money, etc. The difference between you and someone who has everything they want is you are choosing resistant thought. Don't be stubborn. Allow everything.

I found mine around age 25. It's happiness. Joy.

Congrats on your escape!!!!!!! Fuck your feeling about that situation, it's time for all new feelings! You look young so I'll suggest something a little out there in hopes that it is of use to you. Maybe you're focusing on food because it is all or most of your frame of reference so far in your life. Maybe focus on your knowing that you love to make people happy, you love knowing you care about quality and excecution. Know that you just love caring. Consider that these are personality traits that will lead to your success in any field. I'm being bold and risky here, but I don't think it's the food you love, I think it's the feelings that come with striving to be your best that you love. I love that too. Focus on your practices. Ask in meditation what is the best path for you to develop those traits best, and jut allow what comes. Godspeed..

If you can replace words like work with words like fun, across the board, you will have everything you want. If you struggle to do this, accept that you are what you repeat. Start repeating what you want to be, and by the laws of the universe, you will become it.

yes yes yes to this and a million more hacks like it! Looking at the world from the outside in is an illusion. You are the world. Start viewing it from the insid outside. Watch what dreams may come.

When you can imagine and vision to an ongoing state where you no longer choose to see in terms of work, but instead fun, you will not need to ask about this. No one was born more gifted than you. But some people are choosing to use their imagination and vision more.

You can tell by how you feel. Self honesty is the onion to peel. Feel your feelings with more and more refinement, acuity, Inner dishonesty is resistance to better feelings. "I won't lie no more you can bet, and I don't wanna learn what I'll need to forget"

The offline version is focusing on your vision. Imagine what you want. Everything physical came from a vision. Your imagination is your greatest assset. Develop it above all else. Support it with a healthy lifestyle.

I suggest scraping your very idea and path of "aspirations" and consider it's only about your daily practices. Notice how people who are at their best say things like "I was just in the flow" or "time slowed down" or "I was outside myself, witnessing my action". These people got to that level with their daily practices and positive vision. If you don't have clarity the only advice you need is that what you want will not come from advice, but by your daily practices. Make a list of what you're doing for yourself daily, and then add to that list everything you can think of, and make a new list of what you want to do.

Insurance, rental houses, singing & playing guitar. Residual commission / rent income, - because I love it. Freedom Freedom Yes.The jobs made someone else a lot of money and a lot of freedom. Owning a company did those things for me. Since we have to eat, have shelter, etc - You are either building someone else's dream or building your dream. If you find you are building someone else's dream and want to change that, just relax and realize they are staying more focused on visioning their best life, their best outcomes, etc. It is only your stressful perspective that hold you back. See how no one is doing anything to stop you but you. Godspeed!

It does work. The only tricky part is doing it ALL THE TIME. It's easy to have a slight victim vision and think it doesn't work. Well, that's as far as somebody else got. Are you going further or just shooting for an average life? You are a magnet. Your practices determine your power, not how you assess or calculate or think.

We all feel that inspiration to change the world sometimes. You can change the world and help people with their lives no matter what work you're in. It will serve you well everywhere. Don't be preachy though. Be an example. Keep your focus on you. Do every practice you can to keep yourself feeling your best and you will find that the majority of the population is not doing the practices and will naturally look to you for help or guidence or instruction, simply because they sense and see how great you feel. We're all magnetic, drawing towards someone who feels better thus us, and away from those who feel worse. I don't think you need to solve any of what's on your mind. I say it's what on your mind and that the clarity is missing that should be your way of knowing you need to focus more on your practices.

Here's an example. Meditate and just use your imagination and play the game in your mind of seeing your company, your family, or anything going better and better and better. Imagine things falling into place and people coming out of the woodwork to assist you. Imagine growth and prosperity enveloping the whole topic or situation. The more you practice this, the better you will feel. The better you feel the more beneficial aspects you will notice about the topic. Then this compounds and soon becomes what you envisioned.

Knowing what you want to do is 99% of the puzzle. Good for you.

I say affirmations work well. I suggest not picking one, but always picking the best feeling one you can, while maintaining honesty. It's about feeling and stating to yourself where you are at on a subject (like money) and bridging that to a slightly higher perspective. Over time, this has made all the difference in the world for me. People love to say this type of thinking is crazy, and I get called lucky a lot by people who don't take the time to research, but it seems to me that science is telling us there is no objective reality. That everything is relative to the observer, even time itself. I think someone would have to be crazy to know that and not do anything with it.

@John Flores Isn't there a sort of paradigm at play with the philosophy of be happy no matter what? Takes a while to build momentum where it switches from choosing or reminding yourself or practicing being happy no matter what, - To it being your default state of mind. Once it is the default, progress in all directions happens easily without resistance. Not being mindful of being happy regardless of circumstances is holding resistant thought, which slows all progress. Being happy leads to being happy. Probably the most amazing thing I have seen or experienced is that reality itself is and always was filtered by me. There is nothing objective 'out there'.

@Life Coach You're not really sellin Germany there. Great advice though.

Do more for you. Like all the classics, exercise, dedicate, eat healthy, pursue things that you want, and I bet you will no longer have emotions about the attachment / detachment.

I've tried most positions but skipping sex? Millennials are crazy man.

Ya. Avoid a little. She'll pick up on the disconnection and you'll still be cool.

Codependency. Whenever a couple is struggling with codependency (depending on the other for their happiness) There is an 80/20 happening. Each person is focusing 80% on how they think about it, and 20% focusing on how their partner thinks about it. (Whatever the topic is) If either person switches to focusing 100% on how they think about it, the matter soon resolves for both people and then soon seems funny and ridiculous.

My buddy calls it "takin a 3"