Nahm

Again & again; let go.

Before; ‘how does it separate itself so well’… … what is ‘oneness’? Much is being said of this ‘oneness’; ‘the question keeps my mind boggling’, ‘we are all one / this oneness’, ‘there is only oneness’, ‘this oneness is singularity’, ‘this oneness separates itself’, ‘there is a structure behind this oneness’. Much is said, as the expressing of, thoughts. But inwardly if you will, upon bringing attention to the presence of sensation… is any of what these thoughts ‘claim’ or seem to imply… found? Is there the presence of sensation? Is a question found in the presence of sensation? Is a mind boggled or not, found in the presence of sensation? Is a we found in the presence of sensation? Is an it found in the presence of sensation? Is a this oneness found in the presence of sensation? Is, that there is only oneness, actually found, in the presence of sensation? Is an itself found in the presence of sensation? Is a structure found in the presence of sensation? Is any separation found, in the presence of sensation? Is any form, or edge, found, in the presence of sensation? Is a thing, such as an ego found in the presence of sensation? Is even ‘a sense of me’ found, in the presence of sensation? ?

I’m receiving messages in regard to things that were believed to be shared in confidence in prior messages. Namely, things one’s parents, significant other, friends, and or society by & large judges and or deems unacceptable. Rather than receiving and replying to anymore messages or continuing to utilize the messaging system in general, I thought I’d just make one thread to assure anyone concerned, that all messages have been mass deleted. So, you can rest easy in this regard. Please don’t misconstrue this as any kind of suggestion not to continue to express (vs suppress), and sincere apologies for any confusion on my part. Thanks!

@axiom Thanks. Will inspect for ‘relative level’ now.

@Tim R Also in settings, under the notification column, the ‘when I receive messages’ is already checked ‘off’, but both the number on the email icon, and a notification at the bottom of the screen appear when a message is received. Not a big deal at all, but if you do happen to notice something I’m missing let me know please. Thanks!

There isn’t that separate self, “one” who is or could be disassociated, or even who burns, or who is reacting or reactive. https://www.actualityofbeing.com/contemplations-1 Even Squarespace so to speak, adds that ever so subtle “-1” ha! @PurpleTree ”Ahhhhhh Kelly Clarkkksstooon!’”

WIth respect to the forum’s messaging feature, it’s not that you could and now you can’t. You already couldn’t but thought you could.

? well… Just ‘my own’. Truly, sorry for any addition confusion here. If your messages are still showing, I didn’t delete them. I don’t think (mod wise) I even could. So, just talking about mine. As far as I know (not sure) you would still have ‘your copy’ of the message / thread of messages in your messages feature. With love, truly, not meant in any personal sense… that is kinda of what lead to the preference not to use the messaging feature. Did some self reflection & contemplation on this yesterday after (again no offense I hope) it was assumed & made to look like I was ‘encouraging someone to be a sucker’, and the thread was closed, vs anyone asking questions and or allowing further conversing to help ‘draw out’, self-illuminating if you will, assumptions (and projections, deflections, etc). But it’s not at all about any one, or any one user, or any one comment or incident. Upon reflection, it now seems clear the term ‘private’ is misleading, as what’s shared in confidence with Nahm through the forum isn’t actually private at all, and with a sacred respect to that privacy is in fact by God, this is simply a preference to employ. Nothing more, nothing less y’all.

@roopepa As of now, no.

What if you’re not a person and there’s no enlightenment?

@Forza21 It’s a matter of more scrutiny of what you’re saying / claiming. Beyond, prior to, the thoughts, get literal.

@axiom (Also no advocation for this act here) When “it’s” all seen through, there is only love-bliss, and not even. There is no ‘you’ which could be burned alive, have levels of anything, or remain un-identified. But of course, thought…

@Preety_India ? Much appreciated, thanks. I’m not really concerned, it just seemed like a good idea to communicate this on a thread since I won’t be seeing any messages.

@Yoremo Make a Dreamboard. WHAT IF I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO WRITE ON MY DREAMBOARD? WHAT IF I DON’T KNOW WHAT I WANT? If the aim is to discover what you do want, notice the habit of focusing on what you don’t want. Use the tool of Improv Writing, to change that habit to consciously continuing to focus on what you do want, by more or less simply applying the ‘rule’ of: “Yes…and”. On the back of your dreamboard, write a list of everything you know you don’t want. Then on the front, write the opposite of each of those. Then erase the back. It feels really nice to experience seeing the board filled with lots of what you do want, since inherently what you do want feels good, to you. Also, any thought which seems to be about yourself which doesn’t resonate, doesn’t feel good to you, isn’t true. Judgement is the ‘trickiest thing’, and requires a willingness to notice, and the acknowledgment one is doing so, and the conscious choice to focus on a better feeling, more aligned with you, thought. If you are outside naked and it is cold; there are no ‘bad’ clothes. There would still however be, preference. When attempting to develop yourself, in which direction is the first step taken? To where would you go? Where is action, such that action can be, taken? Preferences however, can be quite easily written on the board, and that indeed shall be. From the vantage point of looking at what’s written on the board, there you will see your preferences, your (ever-changing) style.

@supremeyingyang Scheming: Given to forming schemes, especially : Devious, errant.

@Javfly33 ? Go to the past and check.

Self Inquiry. ?

@Preety_India Call a trained person who can & very much wants to help. Call now, don’t put it off. https://www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines ?

@Javfly33 Absolutely, unconditionally.

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Nothing happens. Whatever thoughts arises, that ain’t it. This ain’t ‘it’ either. Just some pointings at best.

@ShardMare Make a dreamboard. What you write will manifest. You’ll be like, ‘oh, ok, wow, damn, I thought life was something altogether different’. Consciously creating, it all make sense. ?

How does the notion of taking the ‘game’ out feel? How does the notion of taking the ‘wrong’ (judgement) feel? Understandable. Then why are you thinking that way still, and continuing to, when it feels discordant? Write down what you actually want to say. Look at it. Slim it down to only what’s relevant. Text that. Take the ‘game plan’ thinking out of the mix, and focus on & express, what you want. Want to meet? Express that. Without all the unnecessary thinking, it naturally arises. But you’re already eyeballs deep in this way of thinking. So the ‘solution’ is that there isn’t and never was a problem… you just learned a way of thinking which is discordant to you. Try writing what you want on a dreamboard, and then instead of thinking, do something you enjoy.

Welcome to Crazytown. Nothing is wrong with you. Females, like yourself, don’t care to be thought of as & treated like, objects. The ‘approach’, ‘gaming’, ‘racking up numbers’… reeks of desperation. Not you. The thinking. The objectifying. The reducing to transactional thinking. That thinking is discordant. With that thinking, you objectify yourself, as if you are an object, which could be, rejected. You have never been, nor could ever be, rejected… but thinking (objectifying & justifying and rationalizing it) can make it seem so. You are already not enjoying that thinking. Try new thinking. You are already happiness. The thoughts focused upon, the way you’ve learned to think about females & relationships, is discordant. Acknowledge and honor feeling, in that the thinking does not feel good - to you. Don’t ‘begrudgingly double down’ on discord. Allow that to be obvious. Put how you feel ahead of, more worthwhile than, what you’re thinkin. This thinking is discordant. And then you miss that you are rationalizing it. That looks like - will I be truly happy - in the future - at some point along the path. As if you’re not supposed to happy, right now??? You’re already happiness. Which is veiled only by, the thinking. Which to you - feels discordant. Because it is objectifying yourself, and females. You don’t have to think this way. You have a source, and you can consciously choose to think, and to focus upon thoughts, which feel great, because they are in alignment with source - the happiness that you are. If what’s said here doesn’t resonate at all, no worries. Just move on. ?? If it does, you might find this insightful… As well as the rest of the videos. Because it’s all about alignment, and not ‘begrudgingly double down’. ? While distinctions can be made and can be helpful… spirituality & relationships are one in the same. When you attend to communion… you attract one in kind, similar… and that relationship… two together in communion…. well, it’s So Good it’s crazy. Nothing is better. Pursuit is outward oriented. Feeling is not ‘there’, or ‘in a future’. If you’re thirsty, you go to the faucet. If feeling (good feeling) is wanted, you go to the source of feeling. Notice, feeling is not ‘coming from somewhere else’. Thus, you will never ‘find it’, or ‘get there… where it is’. Discord & alignment is inward oriented. Look at what already is. Inspect what you’re already, and have been feeling, all along.