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@Freakrik To each their own I guess. Weird to me. Manipulation in inherently unscrupulous. What about Tinder, etc? Wouln’t That be easier anyway?

@Truth Addict Ha! Just high on nonduality. Thanks!

@Freakrik There is no such thing as “living” or “dead” anything. It’s illusion, an appearance of “alive”. The death of the ego, is the full realization you are the all-that-is. It’s a cosmic joke, you were never alive, and you were never Freakrik. Have you experienced hell? Hitler? Yeah. Me neither. Lol. Have you learned yet, from a very wise teacher, to trust your own direct experience.... yet? ? ❤️

@Freakrik I don’t know man, if it’s hard to use your own words and describe what you’re planning on doing, you probably know you shouldn’t do it. Just breath from your stomach, and talk to girls. Be genuine. Ask em questions. Manipulation is another issue you’ll likely have to do work on yourself down the road for.

@Freakrik I’m completely ignorant to the pua world, so the references to teachers and jargon of the industry are lost on me. If you would, in ordinary language, what is it you are actually planning to do? I am “seeking first to understand”, and I appreciate your help.

@Freakrik Could you share what it is you’re talking about doing?

@Applejuice That’s awesome! Next time, look around and say your goodbye’s first. Appreciate the life, and know it’s time to go. When that state is again, surrender! Just let it go! ❤️ ??

Think about the difference in understanding & meaning between a 10 year old boy, and Hugh Hefner, when they simply hear the word “sex”, as an example. Direct experience is all that matters. (The rest is bullshit, learned & repeated from a teacher or book, and or beliefs). What is the maximum understanding one can reach? The word absolute is used. It leaves no questions. It is, absolute. But of course, this ‘word’ means one thing to someone who has not experienced it, and something completely different (beyond experience - into current identity / Now / nondual “reality”) to another. The word “being” is also of this nature of course. To someone who has not experienced the One Being, the word “being” implys strong nowness / letting go of monkey mind of past / future / etc - as in “just be” or “just being”, “being in the awareness”, like “being present”. To someone who has experienced the One Being, it is a change in identity, which can’t be undone, awareness of what is actually going on here, now, from nothing, to an atom, to the entire cosmos... it has been revealed to them what they actually are, it is blissful, they are not alive, they never die. All worry, doubt and fear are gone, because they have seen exactly how the illusion, and the human being within the illusion, operate. Direct experience! Not learned wisdom, not repeatable one liners from anonymous authors, not “humble” egoic passive aggressive facades - direct experience!Get practicing, or hope you get hit by lightening one day. If you do, hope your ego doesn’t assume “done” mode. That is one of the hardest traps. Being is beyond existence and non existence. Those are human notions based on the duality. The state of samadhi is not Being. (But it’s pretty nice, right!?) It is a state which is in proximity though. Keep that going, and a psychedelic might “pop” a glimpse of Being (perhaps Yoga too, but I wouldn’t know) The practices will really shine, as you’ll integrate that glimpse into regular ol “reality” much more. ❤️❤️❤️ “Consciousness”, imo, is a word not even worth using anymore. It has been used for everything from what Being does / is, to what a brain does. I’d scrap it. Saying things are the way they are, because they are, without directly experiencing Being, is a sneaky way of negating. There is no actual answer in that, though it feels like there is. Don’t settle for such bs just because it feels lovely. Keep going until you actually see the “Why”, and have no questions (existentially). And no, it’s not solipsism. Similar, but again, even just a glimpse will show you the distinction which makes all the difference.

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@Torkys Very insightful man. ❤️

@Torkys Very insightful man. ❤️

@Freakrik It means direct experience only. If you look to illusion for “why’s”, you get an illusion answer every time. How, which, when, who - these are questions for the illusion.

@Monkey-man I agree on the three, ultimately the realization not of oneness, but of course, of the One. It’s a great post. It breaks my heart a little when someone ‘reaches’ the oneness, and then is “done”. All is well though.

@Monkey-man I hear you, but these are distinctions made, which only serve to imply separation, which is gas on the fire. In actuality, there is no separation at all. It’s just hard to accept things like Hitler, Buddha, Jesus, Monkey-Man and Nahm are the same. See how those words trigger some emotions? Look into those, and that’s where the enlightenment is found. (I assume)

@Monkey-man What would the absolute / God use to make anything? Some boards or something? Some “matter”? ☺️

@IvanV21 Come on man. I mean, you’re making a point to say you’re not attracted to her, and referring to her as your girlfriend. An older woman would see this, but a younger one in this case obviously doesn’t. You’re keepin her round until someone you are attracted to comes about, and asking why it’s causing troubles for you. Just trace these things back to you, and they get pretty clear.

The variety is delicious! Somewhere there is a guy wanting to pick up a chick, and somehwhere there is a chick wanting to be picked up. Somewhere there is a someone wanting to start a family, and a potential partner who wants the same. Somewhere, there is a couple who wants both, and somewhere a couple who wants neither.

My purpose is to experience purposelessness, on purpose. Rooo-aaaaads.

@Angelo John Gage Who could tell you your purpose? Who could tell you if you have a purpose? If you did, what difference would it make? If you didn’t, what difference would it make? And what if, being you is the purpose? Just being you. Is it not enough? What is the purpose of Starry Night? What is the purpose of The Mona Lisa? What is the purpose of you?

@Paulus Amadeus If you look for infinity in illusion, it’s a thought experiment, and thus within the limits of thought. It is you which is infinite, not your illusion, so transcend the illusion and experience infinity directly.

@Emre Check out Ester HIcks, and Jane Roberts & Seth. Both on YouTube. If you like those, check out The Law of One, and Ra. If channeling is a human / person, being communicated “through” by an entity, then it’s literally the default we’re all doing, but most have no idea of this at all. Scientifically speaking, the human body & brain are a miracle, and, in actuality, impossible. It’s not like an illusion, it is an illusion. Do you really think God needs to breath air to ‘survive’?

@Tearos Self subversion

@khalifa It might be The Science of Fasting. It was a place run by Asian woman primarily. I’m not sure. I looked and that’s all that’s coming up. I’ll post it if I find it later. When I mentioned 20 -30 days, it was with round the clock care at a facility only for fasting. I don’t mean to imply anyone should do this at home.

@Truth Addict You betcha. Think about it for a minute, there’s some real depth there. You’ve always been the one. You’ve never been two. The One can pull off quite an illusion, but it can’t be two - just an appearance of two.

@abrakamowse As in the only thing to fear is fear it’s self.