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@vpandey Take your current understanding of actuality and assumption, and simply reverse them. Also, how do you know this craving for this 'absolute' state of 'perfection' is not just another devilry of ego? Seeking is not a desire of the ego, it is the deconstruction of the ego. There is no ego present in the realization. It’s much more radical than you are yet suspecting. Godspeed.

@Rilles To live completely backwards, evil.

A swing and a miss. Sending love your way Russ. ♥️♥️♥️ Please take a minute to review the forum guidelines, with specific attention to dogma, as well as recruiting. Thank you. https://www.actualized.org/forum/guidelines/ There are places for dogma, but this is not one .

@Beeman The devil is the best hider. Absolute respect for his game. You can set up filters on youtube, for kids etc, but it will not filter this out. Excellent work. Upping my game.

@Scholar What’s being attempted is an entirely rational way. But it is all thinking. Meet them at the self imposed suffering with sincerity in love, and radical disregard for your every thought. As you’re discovering, thoughts are not so healing.

@Moonturnsthetides I’m sorry for all that. It’s likely to take a while to heal. Be open to every resource. It is true, what doesn’t kill us, makes us stronger. It’s often when all is lost, and loss is accepted, that we begin to discover just how powerful we are. If you haven’t, you will, very soon. Look for your True unconditional self. I know it’s hard, but - pen & paper, forgive. Today. Don’t delay your healing. Choose where to concentrate your power; repetition of the past in the stage of the mind, or healing, empowerment, understanding. A reiki class would serve you well. Bring Kleenex. You can not solve a problem with the same mind which created it. Einstein. You can not experience a ‘new’ consciousness without emptying the ‘old’ one. Spira. Be the change you wish to see in the world. Gandhi. Keep talking it out, keep expressing on paper, keep open to the resources the universe is. Do not give up on yourself. Ever. Keep coming back to yourself, and let the thoughts be. This is a good place for healing, and love, and self understanding. So keep going. Keep questioning. Keep asking. Keep healing. When you find yourself in thought story, return to your heart. Do not despair. “Come, come, whoever you are. Wanderer, worshiper, lover of leaving. It doesn't matter. Ours is not a caravan of despair. come, even if you have broken your vows a thousand times. Come, yet again , come , come.” Rumi

@Ingit That one is unhappy because of one’s thoughts is a liberating realization. Now is always a fresh, clean slate.

@SurreaL @Joseph Maynor Two wrongs don’t make a right. Trolling, criticizing, provoking, reactional thinking & commenting can all be surrendered and transcended.

@Peter124 Read what you wrote there. The judgement, the untapped love...is yours. Don’t believe the thoughts. Believe the love.

@Peter124 Hi & welcome! I’d say the suffering is thinking you understand them, and that they should understand you and agree to your perspective. Let all that go. Neither is necessary. Put that energy into your life and happiness. Accept them as they are. See them how you know you actually want to. They’re doing their best, exactly like you. Without those perspectives, you’d all be without that suffering. So much love available if you guys allow it. The anxiety isn’t from the circumstances, or the conflicts, or even the emotions, but from resisting so much love. The Love won’t stop. Everyone surrenders one way or another.

Reality ends up being reality. ?

Delusion.

@Elisabeth Excellent. Sending well being your way. ♥️

Loving that.

@Elisabeth Update...? ♥️

@Tearos That is a finite, personal perspective. (Conflation)

But that is exactly the case. What is “how stupid we would look” but a pointer? So subtle. So key. Same with your intentions for super powers.

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NO, you haven’t. You’re bypassing. There is infinitely everything to enjoy. Thank you for that??????

It is this simple; stop trying to assert how right you are with “there’s no Paul”, etc, let that go. You clearly have a lot of love in your life, and you keep conceptualizing your way out of it. Why draw lines? Bask in it. Go be with that girl, today. Enjoy. Let Love be simple, let it. See that in love there is no duality, no right or wrong, no Paul or not Paul. A good therapist could help you realize that your blind spot is your own insistence in being right. No one is stopping you from doing everything and anything you want to do. Sans your own perspective. Step one is, take ownership, take responsibility, for your beliefs and perspectives which are limiting you. Step two is see a new perspective which is not limiting.

@mandyjw “Losing the finite mind” and realizing the mind is the entirety of ‘experience’ is a ‘real thing’. Intelligence is not happening in a brain / person, it is every nuance of everything. The birds, computers, the floor, etc, etc, everything is your actual intelligence. It seems ridiculous but it’s true. Roughly worded...it’s a realization there never was a finite mind. Acceptance you create your own reality isn’t understood from a finite perspective. There it gets lumped into a thinking itself, that it is a comment relative to making choices. It’s not. Intelligence of the entirety of your being being ustilized is an actuality. The actuality of this is the opening / bridge / precursor (whatever word works for ya) to clairvoyance, clairaudience, precognition, remote viewing, siddhis, etc. There is one heck of a full circle to spirit guides, etc realized which initially does not jive with finite mind-nonduality. From the finite perspective those seem like ‘abilities’, from the infinite perspective there was an ‘ego’ / limiting mind at play. The aura, via ordinary changes in ordinary habits of food and thought patterns enables the aura as a ‘communictor’, much like someone would say their brain / finite mind enables their communication. Of course the basis of all of this, what makes any of it “possible’ is complete “dream” acceptance / surrender...or Love / the Beauty of life & being.

@Highest ...popcorn...

@Highest You can claim there is a source of evil. I will not argue. What help would a third voice be?

@kev014 Your “error” were tripping to late at night. On any other given night, you’d have simple referred to this as “tired”, “falling asleep”. The fear factor is the trip showing you that you’re avoiding emotion, evidence by the belief there are dark entities “external to you”. There isn’t. Learn from your sensations. Stop ignoring their guidance. When you’ve embraced the entirety of yourself, there will no longer be a barking dog. Be mindful of your playful nature. Not kidding.