Nahm

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  1. @Consilience Not sure how I missed this but man, great read and really nice to resonate with ya on the ‘collective zone’. ??♥️
  2. I feel like I should probably wear pants when I skype.
  3. @Hugo Oliveira You might like the book The Surrender Experiment. It’s packed with insight with regards to law of attraction as well. Speaking of, if you haven’t read Ask & It Is Given (and started a dreamboard) I recommend it asap!
  4. @MNR Mackey Appreciating your service and dedication. ??♥️ Keep on keepin on.
  5. @arlin If they can’t choose, because it’s “God’s will”...why would you feel bad?
  6. @arlin Hypothetically, what if someone was creating suffering via overthinking, and was told that with a clean diet and daily meditation, they could transcend all suffering and realize they are God, thus making sense of all of reality...but they chose not to, and chose to continue thinking in circles, trying to ‘figure it out’ instead...what would you suggest to them? Or would you not suggest anything perhaps?
  7. @arlin This might be helpful for you. https://youtu.be/SLSsqCI7NIE
  8. @arlin https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/some-assembly-required/201401/pain-is-inevitable-suffering-is-optional Be careful with your words & attitude. This forum is not your dumping ground.
  9. If you develop skills and talents, there’s no issue emotionally speaking. If you create beliefs about any lacking or short comings, there is resistance because it is simply not true about you. Identifying as the parkour-er rather than enjoying the experience won’t sit well. When you watch the videos you once loved which inspired you, they are now being watched through the filter of the beliefs you’re holding about yourself, turning wine into water. What was fun & exciting, appears serious and pressure inducing. Your unconditional inner being can not ‘go there’ with beliefs which are limiting conditions about who you are. To turn this around, start a dream board. You will see in writing everything that comes to mind that you are wanting in this life, how perfectly all of your experience including parkour fits with everything else you are wanting for the future. Prior to actually doing this, it sounds a little ‘too good to be true’. But it does ‘come together’. The difference between having your life dream visually in front of you vs rolling around in your mind is substantial and positively life changing. You might say a change like going from a rollercoaster to smooth sailing. Motivation itself is transcended and inspiration of your source is known. It is delightfull. This will inevitably coagulate and you will be dreaming, realizing, and experiencing things you have as of yet not even thought of.
  10. @WHO IS Right. So why would the news that they never cease to exist be a problem for them? Why would they ‘shoot the messenger’?
  11. @Javfly33 Yes. Very insightful. Stick to direct experience like you are there. Something not present, need not be added to what is. Thought. Perception. Feeling. See these are separate. Much later, see they are not.
  12. Love you! Well, it’s a thought in that a thought is expressed to communicate this, and a thought of it arises in the recipient of the communication. But internally speaking, if you will...if there is suffering, love is teaching. No belief is in play, sans the one contrary to truth, to love. The discord is felt. The ‘teaching’ is then, “let that bullshit go & just love”. Side note...one does not feel another’s discord. Just as one does not feel another’s thought. One joins them in it, or does not. One may be conscious of this, or not. One offers love, that they may join them - or not. One is conscious of that, or not. There is no objective reality, contrary to thought & perception mixed. Reality is a one player game. There’s a quote from The Buddha, something like... ”If someone gives you a gift, which you refuse - to whom does the gift belong?”
  13. I’d consider one of the “shoulds” you mention, could be that you “should” have a my mind, and a my subconscious mind. Who says this, but people believing in the same? The veil is paper thin, if at all.
  14. @mandyjw Sounds like marriage, in a nutshell. ?
  15. @traveler My sentiment would be to drop the entire outward subject-object story, and focus on the actual story that is her living & life. To accept where she’s at, in the literal sense - the room, seeing, hearing, feeling, breathing. And to accept you can choose, going forward. She does not “come from darkness”. There is one source and it is unconditional love. She seems to be consumed with fear, which is to say, deeply believing many thought which are not true about her or reality. Darkness is a duality, and duality is only in thought. What’s she’s in dire need of, is love. In believing those thoughts, this story of hell, darkness, entity’s, etc, she’s perpetuating the discord she is feeling. She needs insight as to how she’s creating it. The reason it feels so terrible, is the love that she is, is not resonating with any of the thoughts - because they are not true, about the love that she is. There is nothing ‘out of the picture’ with respect to now. Everything ‘needed’ is direct experience now, is itself the examination of what is, in direct experience, now. One might insist the past or future is present, and that one, that person if you will, stands to feel tremendous relief in realizing the untruth of this. It can be understood that one “feels” they are avoiding “facing” events in their past, but has recontectualized this and projected it onto an entirely different situation (the terrible story). Likely severe trauma in her past, and many ideas of who she really is created to ‘make sense’ of it. Profound coping, and an almost total lack of inspection of the thoughts and feeling experienced. I feel for her, and if you know her, send her a link to my website. I’d be happy to talk with her.
  16. @EternalForest Can I go behind the curtain? Yes. (Go’s behind curtain) Hey! There’s no curtain! -Becomes curtain- Wtf? How’d I do that ? Can I go behind the curtain? Yes. (Go’s behind curtain) Oh yeah! That’s right! The “curtain” is the finite mind. Can I become a curtain though, and see into other curtains? Yes. You’d have to see what’s behind, what’s behind all the curtains. However, reading minds is not as fun as you think it would be. Which is why you became the curtain that you became. Telepathy is best, felt.
  17. Sometimes it gets so bad we can appreciate help.
  18. Psyche: “make visible, real” Delic: (root; dyeu) “to shine; as in sky, heaven, God”