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Nahm replied to Mirror's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If everything is interpretation, then there is real reality out there, regardless of what you think and interpret, and no one can interpret differently or think anything otherwise. -
Nahm replied to seeking_brilliance's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Haven’t met ‘superwoman’ but I’ve been to the place below and highly, highly recommend it. https://www.aspaforyou.com/aspaforyou.htm -
Nahm replied to King Merk's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Change the lens from avoidance to what you want, and you’ll feel way better and have much more clarity. Sounds like you’re waffling, going back & fourth, which is indicative of ‘pinching yourself off’ from truth, like vacuuming without it being plugged in. You’ll likely see ‘both’ are entirely possible. Always entirely up to you. If you do already know with some certainty that you want to end the relationship, the separative (you and this other thing you’re avoiding, the truth) perspective might be the very thing pulling you back to the relationship. -
Peace can not become a reality or be actualized because it’s already the default. If we all just stood still for five minutes and didn’t do anything to the contrary, there’d be five minutes of world peace.
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@roopepa Well, what about taking responsibility for what you focus on, and therein, how you feel? In a nutshell, less judging, more loving. That’s within your power & always entirely up to you. It also doesn’t require any action or effort. I’d do so simply for how it feels, since all you want is to feel great. Nothing about the body needs to change for you to change your opinions, perspectives, etc. Daily meditation, for some space around old patterns of thinking could be most helpful. Also, don’t underestimate how the simplest of changes has a profound change in orientation and momentum ensues. Hypothetically, things as simple as writing down today, that tomorrow you’ll do five push ups in the morning, and cut one thing from your diet. Then tomorrow there’s less tendency toward thinking because you know what you want to do, since you wrote it down. Small steps really do add up.
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It’s entirely up to you. Yes indeed.
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But her past keeps bugging me. I want to maximize the success of my marriage. That's the only thing I value. The main issue that bugging me is her past, and that she isn't a virgin. That's all. As I said this is purely concerned with results and making some institution work. Women serving men is necessary for the survival of the family. Man is the leader and woman is the follower. Women serve men. The kind of mental gymnastics people play here and pretend that they don't know is just hilarious to me. Value isn’t “relative”, it’s your opinion, your way of thinking about people. It’s just a belief. It involves the mental gymnastics of rationalizing, justifying and defending your judgments and hypocrisy. The surprising thing here is that she wants to be with you given you’re projecting this way of thinking and all of your unresolved inner conflicts onto her. At least she’s honest. It’s surprising any female wants to spend time with any male thinking about females the way you are. Makes me wonder why she wants to.
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Mental, psychological, and physical are thoughts. When the thought activity of ‘mental’, ‘psychological’ and ‘physical’ are naturally, meditatively allowed to come to rest, there are not these things.
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Nahm replied to Charlotte's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Charlotte That’s what’s so amazing about you really, that there isn’t. -
?? God is so good.
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@fopylo The “experiences you don’t have” aren’t experiences at all, but are thoughts. The one who doesn’t have them is also a thought. You can experience flying, being in a cartoon, still having the room and building a space company but you’re infinitely intelligent & unconditionally loving, so you instead created this reality which is superior to those notions. That’s great. Then consider why it doesn’t feel that good, and then you know what does feel good / what you do want, and write that on the dreamboard.
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When you focus on what you want, you feel good because, it’s what you want. There are experiences you want to have, and you can have them. Thoughts arise about someone who is insecure and has low self esteem. These thoughts do not feel good. You believe these thoughts do not feel good because they are true about you, and you believe this is just ‘something you have to work on’. These thoughts do not feel good precisely because they are not true about you. There is no work you could do which will result in these thoughts feeling good to you. This is because all you really want is to feel amazing everyday, and these thoughts about someone do not feel amazing. You are in fact, amazing. You are in fact, not that someone, which you believe the thoughts are about. People are experiencing the experiences that you desire to experience. People who are not believing these discordant limiting beliefs (thoughts). You are jealous of those people, specifically, that they are not limiting themselves by believing discordant thoughts. When you see this, you feel good in recognizing the experience(s) you desire. When you believe the discordant thoughts about a yourself, you don’t like how this feels. You’re in the middle in this regard, and it does get better. Letting beliefs go is what feels better. Meditation feels good to you because it is a break from these thoughts, and the believing of them, and the identifying with or by them, and the discordant feeling each time you do so. Understanding the emotions you are experiencing feels good, because jealousy let’s you know of more experiences which you can experience, and desire to. With Improv Writing, you continue to focus on what you do want, and not on the discordant self referential thoughts. With Expressive Journaling, you empty your head of these discordant thoughts and see them in front of you. From this vantage point much clarity is realized as you go. It feels amazing everyday to align with, to be in communion with, truth. You love seeing what others are creating & experiencing, and you love that you can focus on what you want, and experience it too. Sincerity & authentically expressing what you desire to experience comes naturally to you. Effortlessly. Because you are a creator.
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@Javfly33 Nothing’s really wrong with it. On the silver lining side, it’s just more woman available for those who aren’t.
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The first joke has nothing to do with her desire for a relationship & doesn’t reduce her by objectifying people. The second joke reveals the motive & true colors. You might say the wrong person blew it. Faking being genuinely interested in someone is off putting, but you don’t really care about that do you.
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@Vynce God bless ???
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Nahm replied to Charlotte's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
That there is a you which is having “insights” is like the ‘out there’ & ‘in here’. That is the perpetuation of thought attachment, or, monkey mind (you are not a monkey). There is neither, but thought(s) seem to make it so. Same for ‘ground’ & ‘groundless’. Like clouds & the clear sky, without the monkey mind, there simply is no desire or craving for a remedy (ground). ? Without believing insight is more than thought, and in kind, without thought attachment, there is a certain ‘seeing the innocence of God’s children’, so to speak, and no more ‘sick feeling’. -
Nahm replied to ardacigin's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
That statement seems outrageous as in this experience it’s literally the complete opposite. Very very weird. -
Consciousness is often spoken of here through the veil of ignorance via thought attachment, so consciousness is often thought of and spoken of dualistically, as if there were a separate self which is ‘a level of conscious’ or could be ‘becoming’ ‘conscious’. Then via continued assumption (thought attachment), it seems there must be a mechanism of or for ‘becoming’ ‘unconscious’. But consciousness is not a duality, and there is no separate self which becomes conscious or unconscious. This is basically materialism + spiritual ego + denial. There isn’t ‘something else’ which ‘requires consciousness’ because consciousness is nondual. It can’t be seen there is a mechanism because there isn’t. Even a mechanism in this regard would be two. Without thought attachment. Meditation. This question is not the end of the monkey mind, it is the perpetuation.
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? Anger & blame naturally inspires physical activity & general asskickingness. For two decades the collective has conditioned you, while all but ruining the planet you’re awakening to. It’s literally right outside your door. Express. Testify. Rage is good, no man is an island.
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Nahm replied to KatiesKarma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You have the access. Meditation. All else is hearsay. If meditation is presently too difficult; The emotional scale, Expressive writing. Improve writing. All that’s let go, you didn’t like or want anyways. All that remains is all that you want. -
Nahm replied to roopepa's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Nahm replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
The miracle of the body and meditation is that effort is an exhausting conceptual narrative. Truly there is nobody at all, but thought makes it seem so. -
Nahm replied to liamnewsom202's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Insecurity is an emotion. Emotion is guidance in regard to what you’re thinking & attracting. You attracted, and were attracted to, people who were also addicted to conceptually bypassing important aspects of their life. The opposite of addiction, conceptualizing & bypassing is meditation. If you willingly recognize your experience of jealousy, that someone else had something you want (security), you’ll feel more aligned via the clarity. Frustration is an emotion. People who are thinking like you’ve been, are also feeling the very same frustration, but choose to suppress it with conceptualizing & bypassing, and presenting themself to you as if this was not the case. Not seeing this leaves you frustrated, not understanding what you’re missing. If you willingly recognize your experience of pessimism, that someone else presented themself in a way to you which would lead to feeling secure, but does not, you’ll feel more aligned via the clarity. The emotional scale. -
Nahm replied to Thought Art's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Care about what you say, how you treat people, and what happens in people’s lives around you. Help selflessly vs focusing on the separate self of thoughts. The one the thoughts are about doesn’t exist. Becoming, taking steps, being grounded, being invincible, the one who’s truth it is (my truth)… these are just thoughts. Meditation, every morning. Then it’ll be readily noticed throughout the day you’re feeling your thoughts, your interpretations. Then you’ll be aware everyone else is doing that too, and you’ll actually be of some use to that which you’re seeking in thoughts. -
Nahm replied to Godishere's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
It’s not that you’re going wrong, and it’s not that we aren’t infinite mind. It’s that there isn’t that you, the one the thoughts are about. The you which is or isn’t awake, and or is or isn’t awake to a higher or lower degree. That is thought attachment, believing thoughts about ‘me’, ‘myself’, as ‘the one who is awake’, ‘the one who knows’, ‘the one who is higher conscious’, etc… and the remedy is meditation, expression (such as on paper, or to someone, etc) and understanding the emotions you are experiencing. If humbly willing, it can be noticed that it is evident in the asking, that this (-we are infinite mind-) is believed, and isn’t ‘known’ from direct experience. When that we are infinite mind is ‘known’ from direct experience - simultaneously the revelation occurs that you are love. Infinite, absolute, unconditional love. THAT revelation is (and I have to say ‘in my opinion’) what ‘it’s’ all about. Not believing, not figuring out, not believing, not being convinced, not being the ‘knower’, not being ‘more conscious than others’, etc. That’s all immature grandiose egoic discordant nonsense… but it seems (I am deducing) you’ve somehow been convinced of the opposite. That knowing, as in knowledge, is not at all the same as the right-now feeling of as love, and that is what it’s all about. The remedy to being mislead by egoic self serving manipulative conjecture, is the humble self-admittance that you have been mislead, and understanding how & why. Much better than that would be literally entirely letting it go. But that is not easy, and likely not possible, because that way of thinking has some momentum already. So it’s far more likely that investigating those thoughts, and inspecting ‘where is this “I” ‘ which these thoughts seem to be about, is the way to go. Aka, meditation, understanding emotions, expressing, and going and having some direct experiences.