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no. you'll have to go to the source by yourself... through your self.

@Giulio Bevilacqua imagine how your daily life would feel, from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep. can you visualize yourself facing those challenges and overcoming your difficulties? personally, i encourage you to pick the hardest choice, if you feel you can go through it.

@Lynnel affirmations/visualizations are useful to reshape the mental self-image. it can help you ditch vices and build new habits. it's not that helpful for realizing True Nature, though. i used it to change the way i felt about Life. i didn't say "i am rich". i said "i feel rich right now". it's a very different approach.

i'd ctrl+c ctrl+v these words.

@lostmedstudent i've been where you are. it's scary because we think that it's a lifetime commitment, but it's really not that big. just pick something and try it out. see how it feels. you'll know when it feel right. you can't know before you feel it. i chose electric engineer and studied it for 2 years. then i quit and started studying computer science. i've just finished my master's and i've been working as a data scientist. how the hell could i know it before actually experimenting how it feels to program and think about mathematics in terms of programming? it was impossible!

@Emanyalpsid just don't forget that medicine is an experimental discipline in the first place. not a inductive one. if you really want to make progress, design experiments to test your hypotheses with test/control groups.

be happy regardless of what people think/say about you you can be that healthy. authenticity heals.

@Nadosa you won't be able to overcome an addiction if you don't replace them. instead of trying to cut your tv/internet usage, start something else. go out and take a walk by the trees.

it's not the speed. it's the subjects

why even bother? it just sounds intelligent and boring at the same time.

@Healingheart yes it's very interesting. if we don't learn how to feel our feelings, soon or later we just break down. our feelings are open invitations for growth. we better not be late for those!

@Stakres become the person you'd expect to meet. wanna meet driven/successful people? that requires a lot of hardwork.

@Lynnel this topic is too complex and i don't know how to answer all those questions at once. sorry. can you wrap it up in one question? i'm asking you this because it's as complex as important and i think it will be easier for you to get help that way.

@PretentiousHuman good insight. what is it that's being loved, exactly? what do you mean by "self"?

@Consept there is no way out. sit down and let go for real now. sit down, let go, be small, be smaller, be even smaller, be nothing. then, be content your presence is enough.

live an amazing life. the most amazing life a human can live.

@MsNobody quit sugar, dairy, red meat and chicken completely. practice pranayamas everyday.

@Paul92 hello brother, i hope you can find the healing you need.

there is certainly a gross fat layer of human suffering. even people who don't starve and don't need to sleep on the streets spend tons of energy on self-sabotaging mental patterns. am i going to suffer because of that? no! complaining about human suffering and suffering because of it would make me hypocrite. the only reasonable way out is getting completely out of the mud. anything else is either a sign of ignorance, insanity or hypocrisy. also, compassion is not suffering. that's why i'm on this forum.

@ElenaO i've been practing the wim hof method. it feels GREAT.

@Charlotte i'd try wim hof's method. in fact, i am doing exactly that.

@Hardkill a loser is someone who has a commitment to errors. you've already aknowledged your flaws. how come you're a loser? it just doesn't make sense to me. start facing your responsibility bit by bit. visit the discomfort zone gradually and eventualy you'll become able to handle all of it. it's a matter of practice. take your time. you have some decades to conquer it.

@ElenaO how are you emotionally?

@Bluebird if you don't seriously decide to let go of the part of you that enjoys suffering, nothing can be done. saying "i don't want unnecessary suffering anymore" to yourself should be the first step.

@Aakash embodiment = effortless practice of these principles, for instance if you get into the "who's practicing those?" line of thought, you're offtrack. that kind of question has a different purpose. if you know True Nature, that question should be useless by now.