ajasatya

@tyler7415 find your way to become independent financially, emotionally and ideologically first. right now you are just fooling yourself. self-actualization is about authenticity but you're too concerned with what others may think of you.

@Levity it feels like you're playing with words. what are you trying to avoid? i couldn't understand your difficulties. what are you ashamed of? be straightforward. are you this indirect with yourself throughout the day?

@Brimstone become a true yogi and implement a consistent practice first. then you'll be gaining money from sharing your practice.

@thehero open up with her first. trust her.

this is too complex. but long story made short, marriages and families can be sources of deep happiness and health if the parents are truly aligned with Truth and human prosperity. this is an example. pay attention to the way that he treats his sons. he's also super affectionate with his wife. he plants his own healthy food to feed his family. and he's not even rich. just a regular dude. the question is: are you willing to transform yourself and become a tender/soft/loving human being? if that's not the case, your marriage will be HELL and your children will suffer IMMENSELY.

@The Monk do some research on the source of milk to produce the huge amount of whey protein that we see around. it usually comes through extremely violent means. stop thinking about health as an isolated thing that occurs on your body. health is a phenomena that happens worldwide. it happens through you. it's Life expressing itself with abundance. you can't be healthy when the soil is suffering due to mono agriculture of soy to feed thousands and thousands of cows that will have milk extracted violently. they separate the calves from their mothers and kill them if they're male. get out of the mud.

@rush what exactly do you do from 18:00 to 22:00?

the best things to do together don't even require words. plant trees together. watch sunshines and sunsets. go to yoga classes together. don't overestimate talking.

@Elephant then don't do it. by the way, as a side effect of breathing and eating, you age and die.

@Time Traveler TERRIBLE idea. do some heavy research on the importance of your liver and stop craving for quick effortless fixes.

@Nexeternity here you go https://www.actualized.org/forum/forum/25-self-help-product-book-reviews/

@Shakazulu about hair-loss, i just eat chlorella and spirulina. even my nails grow stronger now.

good question, even though i didn't mean 24/7 literally, but only 100% of the conscious experience throughout the day (night dreaming not included). and since you mentioned, as a matter of spiritual investigation, does deep dreamless sleep even exist ? i've never experienced it. but this is no subject for this thread. just some food for thought.

no. i only hold practical beliefs and i know that they're just beliefs. what i experience is a 24/7 awareness of this egoic fantasy. there are no attachments. no optional suffering being created. my main skills are to stay still and to let go.

@SFRL it's about purifying/unblocking the means through which Reality experiences and recognizes Itself. practically speaking, the yogi is committed to strengthening and stretching his muscles, fixing his posture, cleansing his internal organs, improving his diet, enhancing his breathing patterns, unblocking trapped emotions, recognizing beliefs as mere beliefs and training the mind to be steady and present. experiences: all of that

yes

is this "me" a real thing or just a concept? it's possible to see and to feel. but what is seeing what?

@Hafiz don't do it. it's slow and boring.

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beautiful!!!!

@OnceMore enhance and expand your life. do something for yourself. start something new like painting or dancing. http://upliftconnect.com/the-root-cause-of-addiction-and-how-to-heal-it/

@Martin123 one of the main papers out there about ayahuasca: The Scientific Investigation of Ayahuasca: A Review of Past and Current Research other links: The Hoasca Project Heffter Research Institute

yes. those are the most evil people on earth. do some research on the personality of huge corporative leaders like hugh grant.

@Waifu Yandere it's neither bad nor good. it's a human faculty so it depends on how you use it. it's good if your dreams are aligned with your predisposition to work for them. it's bad if you're seeking fulfillment in mental fantasies.

@Marco_the_Ape hi. computer scientist from brazil here. i would finish computer science first. you're bored because you're not finding the freedom to use what you know in order to build something really awesome. computer science is the modern and practical art/science of languages and mathematics. the field of computer science enables/contemplates beautiful ways of sharing knowledge. i'm using what i learned to build my personal website. it's in written in portuguese though. basically, it's a self-organizing agenda, portfolio and inspiration source for mankind. you don't need to quit computer science to grow. you just need to remove the distractions from your life and you will have lots of free time to do whatever you want.