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I did the exercice with the metronom for 5 minutes. It felt like 1.

So you're a necrophiliac, that's disgusting dude. @Loreena I simply mean that woman like that are rare

Self-Actualization is about building an ego which will be ok to be at the backseat of your life, when you'll transcend it. You can utilize it to be hotter and more attractive, to have more healthy relationship and nice friendships, to be more wealthy and successful, but at some point you'll realize that none of that is gonna cut it. Better realizing it sooner than later, like that you can build all the fundations of what you really need to live your purpose in life, and to maximize your capacity to impact others, through the activity you love the most. This is in a nutshell, why self-actualizing is, it isn't about maximizing pleasure at all, pleasure will be there for sure, but a lot of struggle and hard work too, much more than what you think is necessary now.

How long does your meditation session are you guys (talking to everyone), to maintain that equanimity ? I personally needs 2 hours, otherwise I can start to slack off or being pulled by people inconsciousness.

No, they won't understand, and they'll have to face that. They'll most likely label you as strange or stupid, but they may also realize that what they were doing is wrong. Inconscious person can't handle love and true confidence, they hate that, because they want it (without knowing it), so the only way they can react is by covering the feeling of their own lack by lying to themself. Yeah sure, some extremely inconscious people will want to fight you for that, but they'll want to fight you whatever you do anyway, so why not being true to yourself and try to feel unconditional love while you are at it, that can be a good exercice actually.

Are you more loving towards people/Do you feel more love coming out from you/coming from others ? @Callum A How would you describe your capacity to love and feeling the love of other before your awakening ?

Stop seeking for Korok seeds, and finish the main dungeons Link, SAVE HYRULE LINK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course physical attraction is important, that's so obvious that it doesn't need to be mentioned. The thing is, if a girl has the quality that I seek (well I don't seek a girl, but you get the point), It doesn't really matter if she is just "average" on the physical aspect, what whill most likely happen is that I'll be attracted to her anyway.

Guys, just stop conceptualizing it. Go into a fucking forest, alone, and fucking BE !

Not so sure about that, I mean, there is 99% of the human race that is suffering big time because of this little joke.

4 things that increase daily happiness: - Eating healthy: Yes, food has a big impact on your mood, check the web if you don't believe me. - Just being in nature, sun bathing, and doing NOTHING. Seriously, this is EASY to do, and it brings you so much peace. - Exercice daily: 30 minutes of walk the days you don't do your sport, and 2 sessions of sport per week. - Meditation: 20 minutes minimum per day, before work. If you have balls and aren't incorporating an another habit right now, try 2 hours per day, you just don't give a fuck about what happen at that point

Most spiritual teachers are male, there is probably something right about this.

I disagree, I never laughed more since I started to transcend my ego. It is way too funny to see how much we are fucked up, I laugh at myself at least 5 times a day

Authenticity/Open-mindedness/Capable of feeling unconditional love (towards everyone)

If you seek a teacher that will never contradict (in your eyes) something he said earlier, you'll never find a teacher that fits you. The all thing is just a gigantic paradox, filled with more paradoxes, it just never ends. Trying to understand reality with our limited brain, is the same thing as an ant which tries to understand how to drive a F1 car

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIaY0l5qV0c

What is aware that I am thinking ?

No love, no Kensho !!! On a more serious note, he said in a video (don't remember which) that he's learning to be more humoristic, and that he would like to incorporate that in his video.

@Gladius To realize there is no lack.

Gather with some people who are into spirituality, there is websites where you can gather in every country, don't know the name for your country (one of them in my country is named onvasortir.com = we'regoingout.com) You can also find Zen dojo, or find retreats in your area. Would be nice to have the name for England, if someone can help here. You'll probably be drawn to see other people rather than them anyway, right now you can already feel that, it's not that they can't be good friends, It's just not the kind of friendship you need in order to grow anymore. That's one of the main reason why people don't grow, they are too afraid to cut the link to their old life, and these people are part of it. Now, don't cut these relationships that fast, let it flow naturally, unless they make you act inconsciouly and do unhealthy things (if you can't control yourself cause of social pressure). Don't be afraid, you'll find people with whom you'll resonate more sooner than you think, and these friendships will be healthier and more authentic

The fine line is 2 hours of meditation per day, that's when I started to get my first samadhis experiences without even seeking for them. When you'll get them, you'll be pulled more and more, like god(your true self) itself wants you to remember him(you), that's how it feel sometimes, and it's beautiful ...

When did you start to meditate ? Seems like you're purging your pain body. The tingling sensation can happen anytime if you strongly focus on your body "energetic field", You can play with it if you want, I like to sense it as a wave top to down, down to top ^^

Yeah, because your theory hasn't been said in one form or another in 2000 years, must be something NO ONE ever heard of It's great to have some conceptualization of non-duality when you start, otherwise you wouldn't even start the journey, but you quickly need to drop them, whatever they are. It's just not gonna help you to see the thing you want to see, because the only way to see it is to drop all beliefs whatsoever, all beliefs. That means your theory, your existence as a human, that time and space exist, that dreams aren't real, that your dog name is Johnny John 6, that Leo exist, well, everything, no assumptions at all ! @AstralProjection I only said that we need to drop our beliefs, not that we have to live secluded.