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Then I should learn Krav Maga, it's the only martial art that I know of which have the primary function to be used in the street.

Well you said it all We live in a world where eating healthy, not being on facebook, meditating and reading is seen as boring and too hippie. That says a lot about our current state of consciousness as a specie. #westupid

Protecting friends and myself.

You can't control fear though, I remember the first time I approached an attractive woman, no matter how conscious you are and determined, the irrational fear is still there, even if you are totally conscious of it being irrelevant and quite stupid.

Loe is the daddy of all of us. Kneel in front of your sensei, you filthy Zen devil.

So you're 5000 years old ?

Who's this ? Looks like a dead mummy if you ask me.

How's your girlfriend dudes ?

Don't worry dude, it will get better

Then what is my power ? Clearly not being able to create 5-meo out of thin air

Just don't type "kinky boy" on google. I was searching for a funny picture, and ... hum let's say I'm not hungry for my dessert anymore ...

I will .......... in 6 months ! @Charlotte But he still has hands and a mouth right ?

Other people or myself ?

After 7 months, even the most psychologically healthy woman would be disturbed by that. You never really said it ? @LiakosN Just say it, it's 3 words dude.

Meditation will bring all your inconscious shit in front of your mind and you'll have to deal with it practically. Being vulnerable to grow as man requires you to accept rejection and to really work yourself deeply. Most men never do at least one of the above, if not both. It's the most gruelling work you'll ever do, everything else is childplay in comparison. @Ariel What do you mean ?

Yes it worked, it's just not pleasant, but you gotta have to do it at some point anyway.

I was a mess, not a good example lol What I did years later though was what I told you. Just don't lie about any of this, there is no point about it, there is no shame to have. If someone can't handle the fact that you did that, then it's their problem not yours. @Ariel Don't wait too long to get your very first real relationship, the more you wait, the more it will sucks your mind. At the same time, don't go for a girl you don't even like though, it will just be a mess.

I did the same thing. I would recommand to start daily meditation, and learn how to attract a decent girlfriend of your age (Models by Mark Manson) and have real sex with her. The thing is, you didn't have sex, but still have, and since it's so much important in your present state of mind, it really is fucking with your mind. Everything is in your head, but the good thing is that you don't have to believe what your heads tells you Not only that, but what others think too, it's irrelevant, I hope you'll see this at some point with enough meditation practice. BTW, I wouldn't say it turns women on (some are), but a lot of women doesn't really care that much if you're a noob, not if you're honest and confident (which is weird combination I admit).

What if I want and don't want at the same time ?

I thought the present moment is all we will ever have ? You're contradicting yourself guys ...

I thought I could do nothing. I thought I am not in control. I thought I don't exist. So are you saying that I can't but can, and if yes, can I can my can't ?

I think you should too yes Being able to defend yourself and others is important in my opinion, you never know what kind of shit can happen. Not only that but it's two days where you don't have to worry about how you will exercice, and it should boost your confidence level too (which is always nice).

What I like having studying a little bit of them, is that Aikido cares about the opponent health as much as the defender.