Shin

The first post was about that yes. But now, it's more in the line of what you say. It's about any boundaries possible.

Fucking boxes lol Enjoy your new full time job bro

Now save the world

From what I know from you, you should do this: Getting a full time job and be self reliant in an appartment. Taking really good daily habits (exercice, meditation, healthy eating, reading ...) Then seeking your lifepurpose/passion and grounding yourself in it. THEN, if you still want it, in your spare time, attract and have sex with lots of girls. But honestly one girl is waaaaaaaay enough, but that might just be my opinion (and my sex drive), I just don't see sex as a casual thing, to me it's a waste of time if it comes from a place of need and HAS to happen.

Kind of weird intj though, I only learn something if I really have too, otherwise I prefer to relax/be and be goofy/have fun, rather than theorize, think scientifically or trying to grasp complex concept (even if it's still interesting to a point). Funny of how spirituality can change, or at least make your brain malleable.

The technique is extremely easy and simple, yet truly challenging. This is a technique I discovered empirically, and it's a technique that is most likely already well known by most people on the spiritual path. It is not something special by any means, I'm only sharing it here because I didn't see anyone talking about it, and I don't remember Leo having done a video about it. That being said, this is the technique: You basically think about something you are scared of, but not about the thing in itself, you IMAGINE the worst possible scenario involving this fear. Then, when the emotion of fear appears, you switch your attention entirely to the emotion itself. The fear may disappear after a while, so you'll have to create the scenario again in your mind, multiple times. You will tend to focus on the thought/imaginated scenario more than the emotion at first, especially if you have trouble to accept and let emotions flow in you. This is totally normal, and this is the reason why it's a bad idea to do this if you aren't conscious enough to not get lost in your thoughts. Because if you do get lost easily in your thougts, what will happen is that you will imagine the situation again and again, creating more and more fear. The thing is, if you can focus on the emotion rather than the thought/scenario in your mind, then you can actually face the fear head on. What will happen in the long term, is that the fear will drop, you won't fear it in your mind anymore, which will give you peace of mind if you hear someone talk about it, or if you hear something making you think about it. In reality, when the situation happens, you may still fear it, but the fear will be lessened and you will be able to handle the situation way better than if you didn't practice this technique beforehand. I recommand to do this once per week, for 30 minutes on sunday. On sunday because if you get a little depressed, it will wear off one or two days after, and you will be able to enjoy the rest of the week. I hope it will help some of you, don't hesitate to give feedbacks here, it would help me once I start to do it with friends Much Love

Porn kills love !!!! ???

Try meditation when you have CRAZY thoughts about your life lol Not as relaxing

Nono, these are all traps. No rewards, this is just a trap to be lazy. If you plan a nice trip with your girl or friends in the week end that's something else, but week days there is no day off. Even weekend day, you still do your habits/routine. The crazy sexual mind is withdrawal symptoms, it will get better, but you'll always be horny, it will always be slightly uncomfortable, unless you master your sexual like a god (and even then I'm not sure).

I only relapse once in 80 days, and I don't think about sex that much. If I do, It's girls I like only now. The thing is, you got to do things everyday that challenges you everyday. You got to be on your edge everyday, then it's fine.

Nice ?

Yeah, I think there is things to do here.

Or ... maybe ... You lost interest in some things that aren't aligned with what you've become ?

Psychology, there might be some unexpected circumstances which will make me start one year later than I wanted though. Can't always do what you want in life, sometimes there is things to be taken care of, no matter how scary it may look like, right Jar Jar ?

You think I know that ?

You're crazy

No I can't for now. Maybe in a month or so.

Meditate like a motherfucker.

You need to have the mindset to never do it again, otherwise you're kidding yourself and will always fail ... @Psyche_92 Wet dream doesn't counts, and it doesn't make you as tired in general.

All those answers are super positive, even amazing, when I think about it. Thank you

@Leo Gura Leo quoting someone and just saying nice ? Who the fuck are you ? Don't answer no one or me

The situation is VERY complex, in short, it really needs to work in the short-mid term. Can't explain, it's private af though.