Shin

Going to shit in 5 minutes, Give me your energy guys !!!!!!

It's the most frustrating stage, it's gonna pass eventually ?

If you didn't notice ego you would have watched a video with nothing on it.

Then enlarge your high awareness hobbies, go for retreats, meditation session, kundalini yoga, and other stuff like that. You will find someone at some point. And like Brittany just said, don't expect a man to change for you, they won't. Either they are as great as you want them to be, or they simply won't.

Then that person wasn't the right person for you at that moment. The past is the past, if someone judges you and don't accept who you are now because of it, then you definitely don't want to be with this person anyway. It's about how you act now that counts, the past really doesn't matter at all.

Meditation = Being accutely conscious of the present moment. You could literally meditate while being raped.

Thank you for reminding us !

Stop wasting time debating on stupid stuff and go meditate/self-inquiry/kriya yoga.

Self-Inquire until you go to turquoise and actually help for real. ?

Hiring someone to make this forum mobile friendly. ?

There is really no other way. You can lie to yourself all you want. All the friends in the world, including meaningful friendships will still make you feel alone. You can fuck all the girls you ever wanted and more, and you will still feel insatisfied. The best intimate relationship you ever had, with the best partner you ever dreamed of, will make you question its validity in, the long run, even if it is "perfect". Being the smartest guy you know, with the deepest and rarest knowledge available in history, will render the world meaningless. You can gather all the wealth you want, acquire everything you want, you will feel hollow. It really doesn't matter what is the thing you think you need, lack, or have too much of it. Whatever you do or aren't doing isn't gonna change all of this. The only thing it's gonna change is reducing the amount of suffering, but it will never go to zero, And this is only if you do some serious spiritual practice. I know it sounds dumb and basic, but never underestimate your mind to trick itself. It will do it every chance it gets. From the very subtle things to the gross and nasty "meaningful" things, And before you know it, you'll be sucked into it and weeks/months will pass. I recommand to create a smartphone alert on your digital calendar, and everyday of the week, at the same hour, you reflect on what is suffering. What in your life creates suffering for you, and what is your beliefs/assumptions that make the suffering happen.

I feel the same, but you didn't use the word ignorant in the first place. I'm saying that because people will look up to you in the future (if not already), so you gotta be careful on how you say things ? @ajasatya

Welcome outside the dream of thought, Next stop: Self-Realization.

Yes Leo is really a lazy bum ? @Preetom

Sorry for the mess. Yeah, it's so counter intuitive. It's when you don't want and need anything that you are really happy, at calm, joyful. At the same time, it's when you are like that, that really beautiful things happen in life. My personal problem was that I made too much drastic changes in my life, and I really don't recommand that unless it is mandatory. It just has a huge tendancy to make you fall asleep for some people. (You need to see if you will use this as an excuse or not to make bold decisions though, it can easily be used as an excuse)

Can't wait for Leo to piss in your soup though ?

Hummm Depend on what you mean by love (romantic or not). Apparently just being non judgmental and accepting fully someone's flaw is love. From that point of view I'm supposed to love everything, but Shanmugam is just lying anyway ? Can't be that simple is it ? ?

Does that come from a place of love ? ?

I didn't look at the studies, the op worded his thread poorly, my bad. In my experience women are highly attracted to highly conscious men, those men aren't nice nor assholish, just 100% themself. Nice guy by definition can't be highly conscious since they put women on a pedestal anyway.

But we're not talking about being nice are we ? The thread is about «most girls don't like high-conscious guys».

Describe it. I know you can't, but try.

If you don't want me to know you, then at least cure my cold. Egotistical god !

Shoving 5-meo in everyone's ass. He will never admit it though. ?

Yes. Now stop thinking about it, it is not helping at your point anymore.