Shin

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  1. Except there is no external sleeper right ? From what I understood, it's like being permanently lucid dreaming, except there is no part when you can wake up in a higher "reality", because all dreams ARE reality (as in it's all there is, dreams).
  2. I think it depend of the time. If the break up is very fresh, going to a party where you know you'll see your ex with someone else is masochism in my opinion. If you had the time to grieve a little (a few weeks), then yes definitely, you can't just put your life on pause because some girl or guy isn't in your life anymore. Most important rule about break up though, is to let yourself grieve, and not avoid the pain by distracting yourself all the time. Let's say you have 6 hours of free time, then untill you feel neutral you should spend at least 2 hours in solitude. In this time of solitude you should be accutely aware of the emotions that goes through you, without feeding them more with mental scenarios of why it happened and holding on to the person. If you want to heal you need to let it go, which most people don't. They cling to the person even though this person won't ever come back. Let it go means a firm intention to release that person in your life, not by anger but simply because you understand that you need to go on (you can still be friend later, but not in the first weeks/months) So when that happens, you block that person on all accounts/phone/laptop you have, all the pictures of him/her must be erased on your phone, and put in the trash if you have one that are physical. Every objects that person gave to you, same fate. That set up the place for true healing, otherwise you're just being masochist with yourself, clinging to a girl/guy when there are hundreds of compatible partners in your city.
  3. Not complex in the sense that it's hard to understand. It feels like he struggles to explain simple things, and write dozens more page about a subject than it is necessary because of that. Which in the end makes the comprehension harder than it needs to be.
  4. His book is way more complex than it needs to be. Not only that but it's long as fuck.
  5. He's so enlightened, he does not need to breath anymore ?
  6. It's just the biggest self deception possible. Thinking you're enlightened when you aren't. The best ego defense you could create to preserve yourself.
  7. @Strikr I'm just saying, I too thought I was enlightened once
  8. Describe your experience. If we believe you are or not enlightened is irrelevant, but we don't want you to delude yourself and stop the work. Like many so called enlightened people do, and are full of shit.
  9. Refuse to go out of the bed, you literally have to physically get her out of it. Then when you are in front of the door you push her against the wall and fuck her ???
  10. Or when you tease her until she gets physically crazy, then look at her with a poker face and say «what are you doing, you know I have to go in 2 minutes» ???
  11. Yes but not with water fasting. No idea why the video was something else
  12. https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-fuels-sex-trafficking/ https://fightthenewdrug.org/overview/
  13. Call yourself by yourself from yourself at yourself. I heard it''s a nice family ?
  14. Everything that isn't a belief of yours will seems demonic/stupid/Dangerous/retarded/arrogant if you're closed-minded.
  15. I feel you, but sometimes it's necessary. Like, when a particular teacher doesn't give you the slideshows, speak way too fast for you to write anything down, AND only read what's on the slideshows. So what do you do ? You only take pictures of the slideshows with your smartphone and have to write everything down later. I would go crazy if I had to do that without music
  16. I think Aurum mean leaving for a very short time, like maybe a minute or two, even less like just 15/30 seconds. Just enough to mess with your emotions without being an heartless asshole.