Shin

lol what ?

You can self-realize without the love part, and if at that point you're an asshole, then there is a good chance you'll be what we call a Zen devil and hurt a lot of people. That's why traditional self-developement is still important, because otherwise the ego will still be full of desire/addictions.

Rent them ... PROFIT !!!

Bring me those asians chicks, ?

It would makes you even more needy, in the sense that you would want more of them. What is true about this, is that if you're grounded and secure, focused on your goals, then women will be way more attracted to you. That happens because usually at that point, you don't care about women that much, it's a nice cake on the side and that's pretty much it. So externally there is more women ready to sleep and/or have a relationship with you, But that only happens because internally there is something really "special" about you. It's not about the external situation, there is guys with millions of women ready to suck their dick, They still feel awful inside.

Seeing life as purely negative will make you deny every experience that you will find nice for you. You would not even accept them as nice experience, and reject them directly, because in your perspective there is no such thing as happiness, joy or love. When you expect life to be only positive, it's not much better, except in this case you will at least enjoy the nice experiences that comes to you. When shit goes haywire though, you would be puzzled and resist what happens in your life, which will artificially creates suffering. The only way that you can live life and be content with it, is to not impose any expectations on any of it. So there is no negative or positive, the only thing you could say is that there is certain experiences that you prefer than others, and that's relative to you. An experience can only be negative if you see it with a preconceive notion that it should be different, and this is what creates suffering. A positive experience is just something that happens as you expected to happen, which directly implies that if it wouldn't, you would see it as negative, and thus suffer. The thing is, if you reject every negative experience, you won't learn anything new, because that's how you raise your awareness the most. The only thing that will happen is that you will be resentful more and more about life, when you could dive deep inside you and see why you feel this way. If you don't reject the "negative" emotions, and not blame someone or something about it, then you would have to experience it fully and learn why you really feel this way about it. If you actually do this, then you will find why, and in time you will automatically drop your expectations about that specific area of your life. Then that thing won't bother you anymore, because you don't have any particular attachment about it now. If you go all the way, and do this with everything that feels uncomfortable to you, then there will be a point where you don't see anything as positive or negative, there will be just experiences happening and that's it. Looks like life would be bland, dry and not worth living at that point, well it couldn't be further from the truth

If it can only be negative, that means it's only a perspective, your perspective.

Such positivity ?

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If I die it's on you ?

Cry with me

ALL ABOARD THE AWAKENING TRAIN

So in a sense you feel all the raw sensations like for example getting your body being stabbed, there is huge pain in the body, but since there not identification there is no suffering at all, just bodily sensation ? It feels neutral, as if you were watching the scene, but at the same time you're really living the scene ?

Best way to think you're doing the work is to talk about it on a forum

Resisting what is ? Of course there is lots of mental masturbation, It's all the human mind knows to do, and even when it understand that, it still do it because it's a great defense mechanism to not do the real work.

Such beauty, much spaciousness, wow being

Did someone read "The Multi Orgasmic Man" ? How much is it about having actual sex vs concepts/knowledge about semen retention ? Like 50/50, or 75/25 (actual sex/knowledge) ?

Stop giving advice out of memories and die, Devil ?

Going for a walk then taunting David ego again ?