Spiral

No, some are quite tasty actually.

I’m 26. Got friends, a pretty good job, eating alright, doing alright with the opposite sex. Family situation is alright. However, life’s boring. I’m not enjoying anything anymore. Got no libido, no interest in socializing. Alcohol or similar drugs don’t interests me. I’m not spending time on social media or watching porn either. Life is just meh, dull and repetitive. I lost about how to change it.

@something_else A programmer and a software engineer are two different professions. That may have been your point however

I’m all for it.

Back in the day, I lost my virginity thru these sorts of apps. That was many years ago. I am however a good looking guy and never struggled with girls.

What’s your life like? Or rather how to you currently spend your day. And what do you want more specifically? Friends?

@gettoefl I would be wary of not consider something that comes from within a belief. Regardless of whether or not it’s true. It is easy to misunderstand the truth and thus hold false beliefs. There is nothing wrong with holding spiritual beliefs. Bonus points if the happens to actually reflect reality. And even if the don’t but make you happy thats great to.

It potentially hurts someone’s feelings and that’s mean.

Girls struggle on average less in social situations. They have more friends in general. The dating aspect isn’t something that I would consider that impactful.

One thing that goes a long way with girls is honestly trying. Not just with them, but with every aspect to your life. Workout and eat healthy food. Wear nice and clean clothes. Mix it up, don’t wear the same thing two days in a row. Get your shit together and girls will be more attracted to you. You’ll probably end up more successful whatever you do for a living also because people can tell when someone don’t care. Some things are really shallow but you also feel more confident by doing them. It’s not actually about the new shirt you’re wearing today, it’s caring that matters.

Not read it (since I’m a guy) but perhaps Dear Lover by David Deida could do the trick. Although it’s quite sexual in nature.

A dangerous thing to do. It’s really hit or miss. Depending on how you do it and how she is as a person.

I’ve have recently made new friends. Unfortunately some of them are quite disrespectful. I’ve brought it up and been told I’m overly sensitive. I’m certainly more so than they are. However I’m fairly similar in tolerance to other Europeans I would guesstimate. They are all from outside the EU, it seems to me that these little pranks and such are not considered malicious or even rude. They do however ruin my evening or at least parts of them. Some of these people I really enjoy so the plan is just to avoid the ones who I find awful. While I do get a desire to return the favor I do not think that’s the right thing to do. Not just because it I do not want to sink to their level, or create a tit for tat culture. But also because I would not be as kind as to be reasonable by going an “eye for an eye”. How do you deal with disrespect? Is doing nothing more than avoiding people who disrespect you a bad option?

I do not know the science behind it however I do feel like it does. I feel more confident, energetic and aggressive if I engage in nofap. Not to mention annoyingly horny all the god damn time.

I am terrible in groups. I find it draining, however you can make a group into one on one, by chatting up one person. More personal topics often help to prevent outsides getting all up in your conversation.

I’d advise against it. Same with wearing hats needlessly often. Sometimes being bald and still being confident can score you points.

Personally I do not care however, if you dislike the following it would also make sense. Someone regardless of gender whom has been with many people generally fall into these categories: high libido, poor confidence, unskilled in maintaining establishing long relationships or has sex for the sake of status. Or a combination of these. Imagine you’re a guy with low libido. None of the other prospects are particularly appealing.

Shaming people for any reason is generally a bad idea. Fat shaming, slut shaming, you name it. That said nothing wrong with having preferences I suppose.

Why not, assuming the other person is interested.

To preface, I’m only talking about socializing with strangers. Not making friends or getting laid or anything long term. In addition I’m Swedish, living in Stockholm. The world’s most asocial place. I was in London in may this year. What gave me this option was how friendly people were at pubs and similar. I would go up to the bar to grab a pint and strangers would strike up a conversation so casually. I spent half the evening talking to some random brits. This would never happen in Stockholm. I’d have to make a enormous effort to talk to strangers, so things like meetup is the primary way here. I also went to Spain this summer and while people were friendlier than in Sweden it wasn’t the same thing. London was something else and I did not expect that. One more thing that my mother always tell me. While on “vacation mode” you’ll seem happier and more approachable so you end up talking to more people. Might have played a effect also.

I like London

@NoSelfSelf passport bros?

Yeah unfortunately. I’m too lazy to make the effort.

I often get injured ? I usually just take a break. Do something else for a few days to recover.

I’m not trying to sell myself. I’m trying to discover if the girl suits me.