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@Pinocchio NTO-Dingu While I agree about the non manipulation, how would he do that practically in this case. His options are: Break up. Meet the friend anyway in secret. (exploiting her trust) Be honest about meeting the friend despite not having permission. (exploiting her low self worth) Not meeting the friend.

Self-development vs spirituality ROUND TWO! No but seriously being manipulative is not the answer, you'd be happier alone then.

Sorry if I sound condescending and privileged here but, Is not better to get to know the person better first to make sure you don't get these types of issues. If you missed something talk about and if he/she does not change, find someone else before you get too invested. Changing people rarely works.

While I don't mind being politically incorrect, I did not mean that as an insult, you obviously suffer for it and so I feel bad for you. I'm not familiar with type of issue, so I wish you the best of luck in resolving the it. The following video might help.

@CuteCornDog Sounds like a lack of sympathy and understanding to me. Why does it matter if you understand what they mean anyway?

@Anirban657 Do you mean more social as in sending pm's or responding to/creating topics? Either way remember that you are anonymous, people generally don't care enough to judge you, because they don't need to invest in you. I don't want to say that people are careless, but there are way to many people on forums to invest in them all.

If she wishes me not to hang out with other girls, I would have a serious conversation with her and if she continues break up.

@ElenaO Don't do anything, wait until he gets the feels, if he does, he'll make a move. Although show how that you are into him, to make it easier for him, being touchy works.

I don't know about you people, but don't people you like just come and go? If you meet one you like let them know, if you don't tell or don't find anyone you like then focus on something else. @Jordan wang Do I wish i would have been more active with girls when I was 13-19, yeah sure. But only to learn and possible to have a bit more "fun". I would not really considered a big loss if you don't, work on yourself instead. Girls "only" primarily you with provide with more confidence and some knowledge about them. They can also waste a lot of your time so I would recommend doing something else for now. Experience new things, travel(even within the same country), make new friends(possibly female?), try different jobs and if you meet one on way: good for you. The worst thing you can do is to just sit at home on your spare time and be pissed about being inexperienced. Watching self-help videos all day is not gonna do it either, that's a what i've did, don't make the same mistake.If you do something more with your life, you'll be a better version of yourself and girls will come naturally

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Yes of course and that is only sex, love is much more then that.

The more relationships you had, the less satisfied you'd be and the more difficult you'll have finding one that suits you permanently. So pick wisely One example (for females) https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/

If someone asks you for your number, just tell them that you have a boyfriend (even if you don't) . I usually tell people I have girlfriend, works like charm

Zen riddle: "He seeks an entry-level job to get experience but, he can not get an entry-level job without experience" -CH

Stop watching porn and you will remove the problem with el Stop watching porn and that problem will go away. You will also get more motivation to get laid if you stop.

Because you are needy and attached to her.

Is this something you all talk about with people regularly? I personally avoid it, perhaps I'd mention that I have an interest in psychology or spirituality but generally that's it. Not really meet anyone whom i felt really resonate with it, if anything I'd help a friend get laid.

Age is just number I'm a mere infinity years old myself, although I suppose that a really a number

1. I feel like doing pickup for sex or for find a girlfriend is probably not the best approach, definitely the most common but not the best.Do so to learn social dynamics, have fun and meet new people(and in turn get over your ex). If you get laid well good for you but having this as a goal is going to make things feel harder and more serious.I would also start in a party or club environment rather then on the street. 2. This method might do the trick 3. I assume you do not view porn, making female friends really helped me and like@Damir Elezi said exercise does wonders for you.

@The Monk Depends how old you are, if mean that you are also 18 then yeah go ahead. Regardless I would avoid drug parties.

I'm sorry, I made this thread looking for character traits not physical things.

@egoeimai @Annetta I assumed it was a joke, guess not.

wow dude

I also find "guy topics" boring. Because of this i hang out with girls more, not sure if this is the best solution, but that is how I do it. Although I recognize this not being your problem. I do know some people who have your problem and in my experience it is because they never go past the small talk. Conversations look like this: You both greet each other and then you ask and answer questions intill one of you get bored of the conversation. Solution: If someone ask you were you are from, don't just say "New York", talk about the neighborhood, what you think about the city, if you were born somewhere else etc. Try express yourself emotionally as well, although try not to make very answer too long, I would not talk for more then 20 seconds. By doing this you'll introduce more topics and open up a little bit, making conversations more interesting. Best of luck

It's counterproductive to try to learn game from a male(your own) prospective The average guy might think this way: If a girl hot said "Hi, sleep with me " he would probably sleep with her, therefore he should say that. That would obviously not work, with the majority of girls. That being said, I would not primarily try to learn game from girls. While they know what they want, they are less likely to know why they want it(because they most likely don't seduce women for a living) and obviously haven't spent much time developing these traits. You also are likely to misunderstand what the attractive aspect is. Example: A girl tell might you that she wants a guy who can make her laugh and you might assume she means a guy who is good at making funny jokes. While being able to make funny jokes is definitely a positive, that not really what wants when she says that(even if she thinks so herself). I don't want to spoil it, but it's a more complicated than that Haha, want kind of thinking is that?