Spiral

If you’d like to share the texting conversation with us, we can give you more specific pointers. If you do make sure to blur out names.

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You can't change people, no point in trying.

I’ve noticed that girls that are really into you from the start are the once that you get somewhere with. You don’t charm girls via just texting. When I say really into you I mean they’ll wanna met up within the first few messages and often give random compliments.

Lets say you meet a guy, he is your type and he, like you, haven’t done the deed. Regardless of what happens you’ll never meet him again. Here is what I think is going to happen. You’re not going to embarrass yourself and even if you do, he probably wouldn’t notice. For guys losing their virginity is a huge deal and he’ll be as nervous as you are. Furthermore let’s just say you won’t have much time to embarrass yourself. It’s probably going to be a pretty lame experience since it’s his first time, so you wouldn’t “lose” control. Once you get the ball started it gets easier(I mean that metaphorically)

Does having sex once make you a chad?

People make mistakes, yes it sucks but they learn from them. You have made your thoughts clear and that’s all you should do. She will have to suffer enough until she realises his unsuitability herself. By taking drastic action you do her a disservice.

@Conscious life For some people it is. Depends on culture, gender and religions beliefs.

Being able to text well isn’t crucial however is a nice addition if the rest of you social skills are on point. I can offer some tips and tricks. 1. It’s almost never a good idea to text someone because your are bored or lonely. Like asking randomly asking how/what someone is doing. 2. Smilies are a useful addition to express emotions. However using them in almost every text feels dishonest. 3. Girls especially often write loooong texts, be it friend or romantic interest, responding to these texts briefly is generally not the best option. 4. Guys are often more to the point and often prefer if you are. However jokes are greatly appropriated. 5. Don’t get drunk and text your exes actually avoid texting in general when under the influence of drugs.

Girls thought of me as a fuckboy in uni. Semantics aside, it’s fine as long as you’re not coming off as annoying or predatory. I even avoided approaching unknown girls like the plague. In other words it’s all about how you do it. There nothing wrong with going up and chatting with a girl at a party for a minute or two. Staying for 10 minutes when she is clearly not interested is something else. My approach to getting (something) with girls is all about the long game. It’s feels more natural for me and you get to know her in different situations. So let’s say you go up to chat with her for a few minutes. You don’t need to get anything from the situation. No number, no girl going back to your place. However hopefully you’ve made a good impression and had a fun conversation (from your own point of view) She’ll probably recognise you at uni afterwards. If she’s interested maybe she’ll give you a wave or at least a smile. Things tend to go well from there one way or another. Sidenote, while this approach is safer it’s important that you don’t go up to like six girls each party. It’s preferable to take a chance in natural situations as possible. Say you are buying a drink and some girl is queuing for drink next to you. Furthermore I used parties as a example, you can approach girls in other situations also if you feel that would be appropriate. Don’t text girls in the evening or when drunk. Or simply to ask her what/how she is doing.

Multitasking is really bad for you, don't do that.

Something basic, some of his old vids. Nothing advanced or remotely spiritual.

Nope. I wouldn't want to date a girl who would break up with me because something "better" became available. I naturally wouldn't want a girl who cheat either. Also bothersome boyfriends are not really worth sex. Not to mention the bad karma.

@Fede83 I can't say I'm very good with the whole befriending guys ordeal. However I've noticed that, it's often because something makes us talk. Like some drunk dude is rude to some girl, making me and some other guy help out said girl. Then we start talking and voila. Can't say I ever approached a guy for friendship.

Have a look at attachment theory. If I remember correctly you’re the anxious type.

I consider thinking of people in terms of leagues counterproductive. Just talk to really attractive girls a lot and you’ll feel more comfortable over time. You don’t have to flirt with them, have a chat about something for practice.

Probably a great thing you two broke up, she doesn’t sound very nice. Do you live in a small city or how come you so often encounter her? If you have not I’d try to be honest with our friends maybe they can help you out.

I’d find somebody else, it’s distance, he was clingy last time, he seems like a poor listener and you already broke up once.

Do more cuddles and foreplay. I’ll get you more in the mood and if you horny enough things usually just works out.

Surely your future employer will approve if you’ve had a job before. The more the merrier.

It’s a phase, it will end eventually.

Let's do some math. I want somebody emotionally stable, let's say 75%. Somebody that has personality, 100%. Passions for something, hmm well let's be conservative and say 40%. Somebody that takes their personal health seriously, depends how strict you are but I'd say 60%. All and all that's 18% (0,75*1*0,4*0,6) seems reasonable. Basically what I'm saying you have more criteria you may or not be aware of.

Edit: I just recognised you’re from Norway. Well I’m not really into Norwegian politics. Maybe consider stop drill for oil? Sure you lose some money but everyone else will have to pay more. It will probably enrich the Middle East. Which bring forth more stage orange think in that region.

Been single for three weeks? I advice you stay away from girls for a while. Focus on yourself instead. Even if you find one now it’ll probably not work out. Besides people tend to not be let’s call it “their most attractive self” after having recently broken up.

@Angelite Saudi Arabia needs more uncontrolled capitalism. To topple their monarchy and some good old democracy. Safety doesn’t mean you are high up in the spiral, it just means you value the absolute basics.