Spiral

I have forgiven worse and I think everyone should forgive those who wrong us, regardless of what they have done. However forgiveness doesn’t mean things will always remain the same. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who cheats on their partner for instance.

Exercise more. Maybe lift some weights. As for aggression try gratitude journaling.

Let’s be honest , I and I’m sure a lot of others treat this forum like a micro-hobby. That’s not it’s intended purpose and helping by “blocking” pointless debates/topics prevents people from wasting even more time here.

Do the hard thing and stop spending time with her and stop texting with her.

I’d restrain from gambling if I were you. It’s bad for you even if you win.

I lent out money in high school to some “friends”. No more than 50 USD but I learned my lesson. I fully agree with Leo. Maybe with a slight caveat: any sum worth remembering. @Dylan Page Take a baseball bat, and go into the woods and take it out on a tree. Catharsis is a great way to move on.

@Dingo They enjoy each other’s company and the intimacy the relationship offers.

Live and let live, as they say.

Femininity/masculinity is a silly paradigm. Here is the definition of masculinely: qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men. It’s a circular description. Sure guys and girls have biological differences but in the end we want the same thing, we just sometimes go about it in different ways.

Happy holidays

Bruh, lame sex is awful; instant regret. You just feel dirty in a bad way. Nofap however

I was eating bolognese on vacation in Italy, I got covered in the sauce. I was 3-4ish.

Overall I'd say 7/10. Graduated from Uni, moved to the city I've always wanted to live in. Took unreasonably long to find a place of employment, but I did eventually. I miss my friends, who only I get to text/call. My only real goals for this year was to graduate, find a place of employment and start going to the gym. All three was a success. 2020 goals: buy a flat, make some new Swedish friends, spend more time with my father, get a GF, continue implementing habits, get my finances/insurances in check and visit some friends abroad. Note I specify Swedish because I only have non-Swedish friends atm.

Confidence is a key factor here. Testosterone also if you want a deeper voice. Charisma matrix has a “bootcamp” on the topic, haven’t done it myself but maybe worth a try?

Less energy spent, less food needed, higher chance of survival.

New Orleans?

Invest in eco friendly companies, some new emissions maybe? You should invest to grow your finances and help the the economy. Letting your money sit isn’t helping anyone.

Why does legal cases have to go through the senate? Don't you have courts for this kind of ordeal?

Don't text aimlessly. You also don't need to reply if you don't have a good response, however, start a new thread one/a few days later if you do this.

I tend to do this as well. However mostly because I want to figure out about them, if they want to figure me out, that's their responsibility. The problem doesn't lay in which questions you ask. Like: How are you? How many siblings do you have? These are boring and you probably don't care. If the other person notices that you ask "boring" questions they're less inclined to answer or ask you back. It makes it seem like you just want to talk for the sake of talking. The solution? Well, watch this video(You might want to skip the research, for talking with normal people ). The title is a bit deceptive, don't worry about that.

What do you think is the best habit to implement? Or maybe to start with?Assuming you only do the bare minimum. Let’s assume they have a average diet, doesn’t work out etc.

Guys and girls be just friends

Bruh I don’t need some apartheid in my life. Let’s all just get along and have kids with whom ever we like.

Yeah of course you can be politically incorrect and assume whatever you want. You can also believe the earth is flat if that makes sense to you. From my point of view a MGTOW is similar to someone who thinks all food is evil because it made them fat. Now of course you need food and not women to survive but in essence it’s the same mentality. One reason people are less empathetic when men are victims of let’s say greedy women are that had the picked that women before things backfired on them. Not not mention usually activly persuaded her. Like a divorce mess were he loses unreasonably large amounts of money. The guy is responsable for who he chooses to marry and the conditions. If a girl is sexually harassed on the street she had little choice in the matter. If she gets into a relationship with someone who is clearly physically abusive from the gecko people tend to be less empathetic.

Don’t force him. From his point of view you’re basically into Scientologi. Change your life for the better until he gets jealous.