Spiral

I would get lonely when I get old if don’t have a girlfriend. I don’t particularly enjoy hookups either.

While I agree with most of what you said. There is a qualitative difference with what one might call “natural game” and “learned game” in this regard to this. With the former you just naturally attract girls, even you don’t try or desire them. While I recognize this probably sounds terribly braggy, it actually creates issues and is often a disadvantage.

@Sugarcoat I’m a native Swedish guy, yet I’ve never seriously dated a Swedish girl Typically date French, Austrian, Greek or Italian girls.

You can have kids and a lasting relationship without marriage.

In theory yes, however if I have kids with this woman things get more complicated.

Do you intend to stay in this town long term?

You should not try to have a “regular logical conversation”. Furthermore it’s better to flirt as oppose to telling them something you like about them. Doing the latter creates needlessly strong tension, or more specifically you create tension without an outlet for it. This in turn will create an awkward feeling. There is of course exceptions, but generally I would be minimalistic with compliments communicated through none flirtatious means, at least early in dating.

No, it’s never too late.

@Majed probably yeah.

I advise you to avoid all forms of social media. Regardless of whether you want to get in contact with girls.

No, not really.

Personally, I don’t really care either way.

Another factor might be that foreigners are more open to meeting new people regardless of ethnicity. If I moved to let’s say Berlin. I’d wanna meet people to greater degree then if I’m in my hometown, since I already have friends there and so on.

You do most likely, like many others, spend too much time online. In person people will not ask nor really care about your sexual life.

Different girls like different things.

I hold eye contact mostly when listening. A bit when talking also, typically fleetingly. Especially if it’s something important or something I want to emphasize.

Why not both?

Hunger motivates you to eat. Tiredness to sleep. Loneliness to make friends. This is the same. To better yourself and heal.

No, use the suffering to motivate you. So you become the kind of girl who get the guy she wants.

A fun conversation is typically not one where you exchange information.

A girl will have to flirt with me for me to find her attractive. This has some demerits .

It’s unpleasant for a couple of weeks than you’ll be fine. Mix things up, meet new people and spend time in different places. This sort of thing helps.

That’s a meaningless text. Imagine I send you an empty letter. Would you reply to that? Texts should a serve a purpose. The only purpose that text shows is that you want her to acknowledge you. In other words it makes you come off as desperate. With all this said. Of course she’s not girlfriend-material. It is after all disrespectful not to reply.

Do a prenup and it’s just an expensive party that probably just reduces the frequency at you get laid. It does have the benefit of removing nagging related to your girl wanting to marry you.

Can a long distance relationship work long-term? He lives in the same country. Only if there is a plan to move closer in the not to distant future.