Spiral

Yes Asian men are considered less attractive. They are not going extinct more so than Asian women.

Men who lack either morals or discipline will be cheat given the opportunity. There are also some minor reasons like a belief that they can’t find someone else if they get caught, these might keep them loyal. However it’s actually very common that the opportunity will not present it self. Because they don’t care enough to make an effort to cheat. Girl do not function this way normally.

She doesn’t respect you. Not just because of the cuddles and dick touching but also because she spends time with someone she likes in none platonic way. I would forgive and break up with her. If she comes back begging for me to come back for long enough I’d give her another chance. If she doesn’t then why even be with her to begin with. If she misbehaves and get no consequences she’ll do it again and more seriously in the future.

While I’m a guy and do feel like a fisherman knows how to catch fish better than the fish. I do think this advice can lead to problems. On the one hand, yes you see yourself as the price and so should men. On the other hand having a problem with him only reaching out 48% of the time I think is going to get you in trouble unnecessarily. Yes I get the point that you don’t want to have the girl to do 90% of the reaching out, however a 50/50-ish slip should be totally fine. Otherwise I do agree with your list.

All things in moderation.

Well the conscious aspect at least to me is to be aware of how you and actions are perceived by the other person. Do you overstaying your welcome? Are you making a move when she is receptive? Sometimes timing makes more of difference than anything else. Are you deceiving her? This sort of thing.

Agreeing with compliments or complimenting someone's observational skills for noticing, rather than saying thanks.

Did you wear a condom? Size and allergies play a role.

Matthew Hussey has great tips. You’ll find him on YouTube.

Well do you want good sex or romance and long term potential? Risks with picking nr.1 he might be an ass or simply leave you. Risks with with picking nr.2 you might become an ass/be a terrible partner or leave him because you fell out of love or simply got bored with him. That said, life is too complicated to think of guys as one out of two options.

Probably real. Can’t say I recommend it, usually illegal. Confidence is attractive after all.

No, it’s painful and I’m not interested in having kids. However being a woman for day can probably be pretty interesting. Besides as a guy I create life all the time, it just happens to be very simple. Its a cool thing tho to create humans but just not for me.

I don’t think there is a one optimal approach to this. If your horny your more likely to act, but also to come off as desperate. So if your problem is not approaching then going out with a “loaded gun” might the option better suited for you.

If you are a virgin with poor self-esteem because of it, it will probably help quite a bit. Otherwise meh.

I recommend kisses on the forehead if it’s in a romantic setting and mouth to mouth action isn’t on the table. Small victories should be celebrated just like big ones.

Sure girls care about hight and might even be hypocritical about it. However as long as your are taller then the girl you are interested in it’s fine. Speaking of hight and hypocrisy, I knew this one girl who told me she would never be with a shorter guy. Seemingly very sure about it to. A month later is nuts about the shortest guy around and those way shorter than her

What’s does our social life look like? Do you utilize desexualized spaces with your buddies? Building a solid group of guy friends will aid you in fixing these types of problems. When it comes to girls, just be ruthless but handle girls who’s not interested fairly.

On the one hand a ideology that doesn’t have any truth to it won’t get any following. On the other MGTOW, TRP etc is cleanly just a reaction to “woke culture”. Which ironically shares the same structures in how it explains society.

I would go as far as to say, don’t do that at all with or without friends present. Unless it’s a appropriated sexual thing. Sorry to hear about the whole thing. I hope you don’t stay with her.

@Striving for more I definitely except to be approached while I commute to work. It happens almost everyday. By cute girl trying to get my number? No, by people who want directions and poor people who’d like money or food (They approach everyone). That’s fine, but sometimes you don’t want to deal with people and wearing headphones is a sign you don’t. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t can’t appreciate it. If you feel like someone wants you to talk to them then that’s fine. That’s just not me.

Meh, I wouldn’t pick up girls with headphones in. If she really wants you to make a move she’ll take them out. Half the point of wearing headphone and similar things is to not having to deal with strangers.

Working on forgiveness, open mindedness and to lift your spirits perhaps a bit of gratitude journaling.

A lot of people will starting texting conversations by asking someone how the are doing. Do they honesty want to know? Must of the time no. Does the receiver think they honestly want to know? Must of the time no. Do people ask this as a way to just start the conversation before getting to what they actually want to talk about. Definitely. However a lot of the time they don’t actually have anything they want to share and just feel lonely, bored and/or desire conformation. Texting with people, who just text you because their bored etc isn’t a lot of fun. It doesn’t matter if they are your friend/partner etc.

Gotta have to agree with electrobeam. Do not ask a fish how to fish. What matters in this case isn’t what guys like it’s what they are attracted to. These two thing seem related but often are not.

It simply depends on how interested she is and what she is after.