KoryKat

Way to hide from truth... keep hiding my dude. Its "toxic" because you are interpreting it as a threat to your fragile ego. Much love -Kory

@thisintegrated Umm are you okay? You do realize yellow/turquoise is orange also,right You dont become Turquoise without Orange. Ego much bud?? Also thanks, ive had a shadow problem at orange, so I do appreciate hearing that im learning to express it. Ive been the arm-chair guru. But ive been brutally self-honest and faced those inner demons and acknowledged ive been full of shit deceiving myself... because i havent had the results of my dreams coming true. Maybe you should ask yourself why your dreams havent manifested? Where is your website like Leos? got any books or content youve made yourself??

"General cultural values"??? In what reality do you live? if you want to make a difference in the world, it takes ACTION. Action gets results... thats not a general cultural value, that is just the reality all human beings live in. Nothing happens without action, this is fundamental... not cultural. And massive action is what it takes to make *any* significant impact. You want the world to change? Society to be better? It comes from getting results. Are these arm-chair gurus writing books or making content? Lemme know if so...mostly it seems like people doing fking nothing...and its obvious these same people dont know what they are really talking about when they answer *every* question like "Consciousness is everything is the only thing you need to know"... There is a reason Leo has TONNNSS of content...its because you CAN NOT oversimplify everything to "Consciousness is everything and thats that" cmonnnn wake up @Ryan_047 "immature spiritual ego" you nailed it...amen brotha

Yo! Bottom-line is - How do I go about getting my social media to show others who I am? I dont have cool pictures or any content... my Facebook is a dead fossil... just a bunch of old locals I havent spoken to in 5-10 years. When I post stuff, its like 2 people will see it (probably hidden to everybody) No IG, no Tiktok, no Youtube, no Twitter, honestly Im not into taking glamorous pictures whatsoever. If im gonna post content, Im looking at "heres a day in my life" and "heres interests I like to talk about" Any tips/suggestions? A guide to follow? A platform to focus on??? Seems like my Facebook would just need recreated altogether, but how do you even find/add friends nowadays? (Ive been temporarily suspended multiple times for spamming Friend Requests) If you are interested in doing something like this yourself, feel free to comment and say you are also interested / discuss. Much love -Kory

Your dreams... As Steve Jobs said "follow your heart and intuition, everything else is secondary" Look at the Ikigai venne-diagram and combine Flow States in search of your "passion" , and follow that calling in your heart/gut "Reality is wrong, dreams are for real" -Tupac

Mostly B.S. / Total B.S. I think it works like this... you read a list of 10 things about your horoscope... 3-5 are highly like you, 3 are kinda-like you, and 2 really arent... But you confirmation-bias towards the ones that do, and overlook the others/include them even though not actually accurate... I say mostly, because lets use Scorpios as example... everybody who knows they are scorpios subconsciously aligns into it, so its like a self-fulfilling prophecy. My opinion

Consciousness works on a vertical spectrum, lets say 1-10... We will distinguish this into Lower Consciousness (urges , cravings, binging on drugs, eating junk food) at scales 1-3... Mid-level Consciousness (doing chores, doing day-to-day general stuff) level 4-6 And Higher Consciousness (the desire to become all you can be, the side of you with dreams and ambitions, the inner feeling telling you 'I should go to the gym' and whatever else) ranges 7-10++ How can you tell which level you are in? Ask yourself "How do I feel" ... and you will have answer that corresponds to Negative/Neutral/Positive (I feel like ughhh / im alright / I feel fantastic!) This is directly... I mean DIRECTLY, tied to your Sympathetic / Parasympathetic Nervous System (fight or flight vs rest and relax) The key is to activate your Parasympathetic (rest and relax) 'state of being' (Protip, *mental* effort = stress) here is a trick you can do... while doing a chore, lets say yard mowing, you will have this voice in your head... you want to realign this voice with 'Effortlessness' so while doing yardwork, my body is getting tired, and the voice is like "oh man I wish I could hurry up and finish!!" Instead , brainwash this inner voice with a new dialogue "This is SO EASY, I could do this ALLLL DAYY" keep repeating this EASY, ALL DAY NO PROBLEM! , while doing belly-breathing (try exhaling 2 seconds longer than normally) and you can flip this switch to Parasympathetic Nervous System and seriously , the body aches will just VANISH ...and loe-and-behold, you have transcended suffering... for a brief period (basically its Flow-State hacking) If u got money, invest in something like the EmWave2 by Heartmath, shit is CRAZYYYY at accurate calibration readings ... (I found the 4-7-8 breathing method to give consistent results with showing higher coherence levels... its flow-state + no * mental* effort , being relaxed , and DAMN if it doesnt give an INSTANT +20% cerebral clarity of mind ) Honestly I think most people are speaking out of their ass on here. Overly Eckhart-Tolle and not enough Biohacking

I LOVE OWEN COOK!!! picked up his mastercourses 15 years ago (Blueprint Decoded and other RSD ones) , went from awkward virgin to pimpin threesomes Saw him live like 10 years ago... THEN last year i saw him live for a 40 hour summit in Austin HOLY SHITTTTT IT WAS AWESOMMEEEE!!!! I was going nucking futs, blew out my voice twice screaming and getting pumped up. He actually told me "I like your energy" straight to me and it was like when a rockstar signs your hand and you never wanna wash your hand again. Gonna have to read through all this and drop some more comments , but Im a total Owen Cook fanboy cuz DAMN if he isnt INSANELY LEGIT... I wish so bad to live up to helping push his dream further , dude is a super hero if there ever was one.

OR if you dont have a particular video to recommend, what would you say is Game-Changing to learn that everybodys need to know? (Or a person who is legendary enough to sort through their content and find an absolutely killer video)

So I read that Leo had a problem with copycat groups, but *this* I dont understand. Rules: Recruiting members for chat-groups outside of this forum, including Skype, Discord, WhatsApp, chatrooms, etc. Recruiting members to start local meetup groups in your city Starting new spiritual communities, private groups, or cults like I really think its doing a disservice to humanity to forbid us from using this forum to meet each other and take it to chat-groups. Cant start local groups either??? How the fuck does that make sense. You are telling me we cant get a handful of people together to collaborate on our goals for accountability and support??? How does this align with Actualized's values? Seems pretty selfish to me. Is Leo really desperate for money that he sees anything like chat-groups to be a threat to his income? Might as well be Authoritarianism. I totally get the part about not starting competition , but *THIS IS IN NO WAY COMPETITION* Been a huge fan of Leo and defended him against many haters... but this really just makes me believe there was some merit to their sentiment. Honestly, if you are trying to do the world good and be good you wish to inspire... what is it going to take for people to start stepping up and saying *THIS ISNT ABOUT ME* because clearly these rules are about Leo and not the community at large and co-creating the world which we want to see. At least people like Owen Cook legitimately support groups being created among followers to co-enable each other. This forum actually just became a circle-jerk serving Leo in my eyes. Honestly, wont be defending Leo again on any youtube comments because this is selfish as it gets, and I dont follow leaders who arent down for cooperation and co-enabling self-actualization... i mean , wake up, Turquoise is the movement for cooperation and not this dominance hierarchy like Actualized.org has shown itself to be. Fuck the koolaid here. /rant What is the ultimate goal here of this website/community? Because my ultimate goal is seeing the world able to thrive at a mass collective level, and it sure doesnt pass the smell test that this community/website is aligned with that. If this rant gets locked/or myself banned, then thank you for showing me the true colors here and removing all doubt. Sincerely, a very disappointed mega-fan. -Kory

Hello wonderful person, I do not have a degree nor certification, but I want to be a life-coach I was thinking about starting on Fiverr or calling up local life-coaches and asking them about applying. I really have no idea on structuring something together. Lemme know! -Kory

yes thats what this thread is about, sorry you didnt get it sooner. Im fighting for something you dont even realize you need, my brother. I wish circumstances were different, and we could have time just bro-ing out in the real world. This is why im fighting for local collaboration, its not that we cant learn alone, its the feeling of being alive you get from real human connection, that no words or ideas can replace

how long has it been since somebody hugged you , looked you in the eyes, and told you they loved you?

but there is not an Accountability thread place on the forums here... And we live in a disconnected world and msgs are restricted time-wise and it can make real-time discussion and genuine human connection overly difficult/near-impossible its just sad that the rotten apples have turned this place into a place where people dont think we are here to make friends, and collaboration seems nonexistent... this isolation sucks! be the leader we need and do something to brings our hearts together in a movement to self-actualize as a collective... We dont know each other, really... lets work on something that addresses that, because its worse than ever. Leo, why be enigmatic? Why are you afraid to show yourself like a regular person being real? like theres an old video of u with a bunch of comments "omg he wears pants!" Everything has to be perfect with you. It seems like realness/connection is being overlooked and you dont want to mess with it , so its forbidden under the guise of other cults forming. Its whatever, if this forum wont be about it, then ill invest time searching elsewhere, because it will be answered one way or another...

seems like topics get locked when any mention of group-discussion happens ... id say most ppl would be the kind of ppl to go rogue/competing, but that doesnt mean its right to stop everybody from doing it... All im looking for is some sort of means to collaborate with others in the same shit that feels more real authentically/intimately... like tell people "hey we are starting Leo's Start Here guide, lets discuss our goals/sticking points and be mutually accountable. For me, i cant stand the social media world we live in... why forbid all local meetups for example? It seems like the dangers of splinter cells are taken to extreme levels of control/censorship. 1984-feeling for sure. If there was a way to really conduct it on here,i wouldnt bother like this... but there isnt even an Accountability thread group

The fact of the matter is that humanity is more disconnected than ever and it is because forums dont replace our need for human connection... Having eye contact, hugging, these things are irreplaceable, and its a disservice to us all to not be able to find that amongst ourselves within a community that supports some of the greatest ideas to empower us.

1 on 1 is allowed, but 3 ppl in a group is forbidden Also im pretty sure Im not allowed to post my phone number to have people all in individual conversations with me, or is that allowed? There is a big difference between recruiting to form as a competitor , and just recruiting a handful of people to collaborate on self-actualizing in any form of communication not threads on this forum.. If im allowed to invite everyone to privately talk to me on my cell, then thats cool, but im 99% certain it wont be allowed. Im not interested in forming some group to replace this in any shape or form... im just looking for colleagues to grow with and have as real person to person interaction... which is why im complaining about the forums... it doesnt serve any kind of personal intimate human bonding... its like the opposite of that...

You are off-topic. Glad to discuss this with you on a thread of this topic.

Yeah and follow that road and tell me you dont end in Dystopian "1984"

sounds like you missed the parts in Spiral Dynamics about partial perspective, relativism, and plurality... go practice Empathy out of your hermit cave my dude. Be on the streets and walk that walk You are also deflecting conversation off-topic. Wake up amigo. Its fine if you subscribe to God as all and you as all as God, but dont be a distraction from the reality that exists with self-masturbation to a singular ideology In fact, Leo does say no ideology. So you should be skeptical of this belief you have and open-minded, should you not?

This is the cult that it is trying to prevent from becoming elsewhere. PMs are 1 on 1. and is there a particular place for Accountability threads? threads are definitely limiting , as there is a frequency restriction to posting, and if I want to discuss things on video chat, then what? We are to be controlled at the cost of freedom.

that is just one perspective... and its not holistic/integrative , its just absolutist.

my goal is realizing a world of utopia by bringing everybody up. The goal here is buying only from Leo... cant make friends or community... cant collaborate amongst ourselves either outside the controlled atmosphere. you forgot that. "We dont want you befriending each other" WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT?

Yes , exactly, out of his control... you said it perfectly...is that a bad thing? Why??? I do not like anyone trying to control me, and its downright offensive. Also, im talking accountability and mutual support? It can devolve, but who is he to forbid all intercommunication for our goals together??? What is this forum really about?? Because not allowing such things speaks volumes about who this serves and who it doesnt. -Kory

Yes , i did think Leo cared. I projected my values onto him about caring about humanity and willing to say "its not about me" , i must have been mistaken.