egoeimai

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  8. Posted

    Oh man. Your psychology sucks. What the hell. I bet you dont have something bad outside. Its inside your mind its fucked up. Why the fuck are you thinking this way? 

    So. Enough with the cursing.

    Change your point of view. Dont just see other guys who are getting girls. Just see what you want and attract it. Dont be clingy or miserable. Things will go right if you manage them properly. Just be confident okay?

    Dont frustrate me :P 

    Just be a little mysterious for that girl. You made your move ok? If you still want her,she will respond. If not,who cares. Just be happy.

  11. Posted

    Hello. You have to try harder in order to dont bother what others are saying.

    If your friends choose to be negative thinkers let them be. Dont be frustrated if they live they way the live.

    For you,its nice that you dont generally judge people. See their judgement as a flaw and try to justify them inside your mind ,thinking "they have troubles so thats why theyre negative" and try to give compassion

    Popi.

  12. Posted

    Your actions is the thing that matters. There will be people who will like u and people who wont. Its totally normal. We often tend to judge ourselves from something that we cannot control. If a girl doesnt like you you cannot do something for it. You cant change that...so be happy for qhat you are. Do whatever you want for youself but dont think about if others will like it. Base your pros and cons in you and see it as a part of yourself which you try to improve.as a game. As something you only have control over. That noone else is gonna effect it and you only can manage it and create whatever you want. Your greatness is more important than others. If someone doesnt like you ,this doesnt prove something about youself. People have opinions and they like certain things. And so? Why do you want to care about this? Let them like whatever they want. You dont change with that. You are still the same. The only thing is that our ego needs approval. We only want this and some of us we need that too. 

    And the most important. Find what you do like,not what others dont like about u. 

    Popi.

  13. Posted

    First of all...i see a major disappointment aand despair.

    I will talk to you honestly but roughly.

    Which girl do you think likes to be with a lost/desperate/disappointed guy?

    Why do you think only desperate girls have been with you? Because you are the same with them. And its totally normal if you attract what you are.

    So try to change your attitude..be happy...find what can cheer you up.

    Think positively. Dont do this to only attract a happy independent hot girl,but do it for yourself...because being miserable all the time,is gonna hurt you at the long run. And be careful if your habits. Habit is even that when we usually train own mind to think a certain way.

    Fix that. Fix all of them

    For last I want to remind you that you dont need anyone to be happy.

    Especially with this negativity if you try to build a relationship you are totally gonna fail. If we dont feel good inside,why the other person should trust us ?!

    Popi.

  15. Posted

    Yes yes yes. Because you believe that people's opinions apply to you. And these are true  .I dont want to say that this is happening to wveryone that gets offended but usually these kind of people dont have a vlue about where theyre going  .or/and they have low self esteem and low self confidence. Im not an expert. But getting offended so easily (as I do_and im so happy i found one person wjo has similar problem) this is showing.

    So maybe its from past experiences in which people didnt give you the proper attention you would like.

    Or they were making fun of you. Your appearance you bahaviour etc. I knoq it by first hand.

    So if you didnt react on those cases,this offending shit is now the consequence

  17. Posted

    To get it more clear to you and for you to understand the hugeness of this problem...(that word exists?? Who cares) .. If you like some one....a boy or a girl...and you want to never be humiliated in front of them....have only your great image and behaviour amd you try to impress someone by yourself. You know that situation its similar to flert and attraction

    So. My behaviour when it comes to offending its so huge and general,that I argue with every person in the planet (that I know he/she is trying to offend me or make fun of me) . I argued with my crush once. I was feeling that he was trying to make fun of me.....then i realized that he was only trying to impress me hahahah

    I couldnt stop getting angry and be frustrated so I repeated the same words he said. It was so hilarious but It shows that it applies with everyone. And i mean......everyone.

    People for whom you ve got respect on,and people u dont give a shit about.

     

  18. Posted

    @JohnnyBoy  hahahahah I have always had and I will always have :P this particular problem. I get offended by everyone's words.

    Parents siblings cousins friends strangers classmates colleagues all kinds of relationships and even guys. I have no exceptions. Elders...etc etc etcc every humna being by i get offended. It is followed by anger cursing all the time and sometimes sadness.

    Hahahah Its everywhere in my life.

    The thing that it does to my life is that is making me feel lonely,special,and sometimes I feel noone can understand me. Why I get so offended. Noone justify me. Everytime I feel im crazy bitch who understands the wrong things. People say something and they say i turn it to something offending. It happens all the time since my childhood.

    I bet its something like traumas which can follow you for the rest of your lige and hurt you If you dont realize it.

  20. Posted

    @JoseM  well I dont think that there is better and worse road to follow. 

    If you like to date several women do it. Go ahead.

    And If you like a long term relationship with woman,ho ahead and fight for it.

    There are both things you can acheive and have,so theres no right or wrong.

    Ps. If you think you are a bit too old,to whatever your "heart" is telling you.

    Who knows.

    Find what you really want and choose.

  21. Posted

    I was been in a similar situation. There was a fire in a friend's store in which there were a few people. I just really saw a fire for the first time in my life. Until then the only "fire" was this in the kitchen and with this you can cook food :P 

    At the time I saw the fire ,I ran away I was very afraid of getting trapped somewhere in the room  and being dead there.I didnt even try to help. I just stepped outside with the stairs. So I "left" all the others upstairs. Well, you know,its something very natural.

    In these situations,we are in survival mode,every each kne of us must save himself/herself,unless there is a victim trapped somwhere and we have to help if he/she unable.

     

  25. Posted

    Yes, me. And I have started a thread for self love. 

    I still struggle. I think you have to improve yourself ...thats what I do. Because we tend to not love ourselves for what we are and usually we dont understand what is really like to love youself.or we find it impossible to do.

    But you can still be better,you can still feel good of what you have&are and be happy,by improving youself and proving to yourself that you can do better.and that you have value. 

    By succeed 

    P.s. try to not judge badly if theres no reason. Try to control a bad thought about yourself when its coming from an outer-experience that has nothing to do with your value.

    And improve your positivity,good energy etc