LiakosN

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  1. Yesterday I told a girl that I do not want to ejaculate and waste my sexual energy and she was offended saying : I don't like a man that does not cum, I don't want to become a Guinea pig for you just to practice non ejaculation... She is thinking of leaving me.. Also, she told me that she want sex all day, I would become a whore if it wasn't for my conscience... I was like fuck man why I even told it....
  2. @Shin Good point there.. Maybe not all the time during your "fapping session".. It's preferable than using your pure imagination for fapping. Yup! Not fapping at all is ideal I am interacting with the opposite sex daily due to my work and I do not feel lust either, I just enjoy their feminine presence ...
  3. @Shin Yup its better in my opinion because, although it is still imaginary, it isn't a "movie". The whole point of getting rid of pornography is getting rid of that movie.. So stop using the "movie" in your mind while fapping
  4. @Shin yup! To be clear.. Just watch the images and fap without imagination.. Just watch don't fantasize... Masturbating using imagination is like watching a porn movie..
  5. Day 0..i had a good insight this time. Although I haven't watched porn since 2016 I am using my imagination to masturbate which is the same as watching porn... I see "myself" in my imagination pretendig to have sex... Guys use internet photos for masturbating not your imagination.
  6. Try shamanic breathing and reickian therapy
  7. She asked me to go for a glass of whine these days.. So I guess I ll make my moves there.
  8. Hey what's up! I met a woman in my workplace (I am working as a school teacher). We know each other for 1,5 months. We have go out into clubs with other co-workers and we have discussed some great things about our lives and personalities. I guess she might be an empath. Anyway. She is 30 and I am 27 years old. I told her one night that we were in a club: hey I like you erotically but I truly want you as a friend. And I really want her for a friend but I also want to have sex with her. We discuss a lot of things together and she feels (as she told me) that she talks to me like she talks to her best friend. The other day I invited her to my apartment until late at night and the time was 2 a.m when she told me: " I need to go now because I am sleepy ", but I haven't driven that late at night (but she has because she returns home by her car when we leave the club at 3 or 4 a.m.). So I offered her to sleep with me. And she did. She is very lovable and caring about me as I can tell. One day when my phone rang and I went outside the coffee shop to talk, she brought me my jacket. Anyways I really want to be sincere with her and tell her " Do you wanna have sex with me " ? Should I tell it?
  9. @SFRL what if she rejects my moves.. I was thinking of going to her place and asking her for a twerk because she loves it
  10. @Anna1 She is, but I am interested in more beautiful women for relationship.
  11. Hey everyone. I am thinking of switching for kriya yoga instead of my meditation practice after 2,5 years because i think that meditation does not calm my monkey mind.. Should I go for it?
  12. Is there a good personality type test online? Thanks!
  13. Go do it without expecting a thing!
  14. You can try Reichian Therapy for making your breath deeper. Once per week. Start slowly then move up to 1 hour session. You can download the book free online.
  15. I was just wondering if it is also useful to use self inquiry in everyday life. For example I am standing in the bus stop and ask: what is this anger I am experiencing etc. Is it useful?
  16. Yesterday, I lubricated my "thing" and started to play around with it very gently (without reaching orgasm). Felt almost like having sex with a woman. Give it a try the next time your "friend" is on fire!
  17. @Jack River If I can witness the anger, the thoughts and the sensations in the body without any judgement and without making it personal, then no there is not a problem. But it is not so easy.
  18. @Jack River Well, if I am completely angry then I do not know that I am anger. Is it true in your own experience or are these only beliefs in your mind ? Yes, I was thinking about the same. Maybe these "special" periods are helpful to remind us that we should do these stuff throughout the whole day.
  19. I've just hit 2 years without porn... 25 of no fap.... Stay strong ?
  20. @bejapuskas if you feel pain just move your hands and feet. The pain shall go away
  21. I've been doing the shamanic breathing technique once per week for the last 8 months. I've started with 20 minutes and I am doing it 65 minutes currently. The fact is that it makes me feel shit by the time i finish the session. OK, I feel very relaxed and in a meditative state, the monkey mind is less active, BUT for the next 2 days I feel depressed. I am combining the shamanic breathing with some Reikian breathing techniques (once per week for 50 minutes) Is this the way it is supposed to be? The resistance of the subconscious is huge. I literally feel sick!
  22. @Salvijus Indeed I have no idea of what I am doing.. I am using this method thought to clear my body from tension. Can you elaborate of what should I do.? What is the random stuff you are talking about?
  23. @Leo Gura Yes! Sadness comes and goes. Why is this happening? I feel I am going back...