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So, i understand that :you will be judged means that I will judge myseef after judging others right?

@philosogi i mean everything changes. How can friends remain best friends? I think Barry Long once said that its not wise to have a friend for the rest of your life...

My life, my problems, my opinions, my body, my situation... It that "my" ultimately a dellusion?

I am 25 and im in personal development since last year.. I can assure you after that much work i have done with myself i can see almost everyone having a 10 year old brain...

@Toby i relate to this

@Psychonaut levander oil for me helps sleeping faster

@Max_V its from the tape how to live joyously by barry long. You can find it on youtube as well

@Max_V Read th1is article!

To realize what is not true. Basically you can have a hawk eye view of reality

@egoeimai unfortunately i dont have any. But you can find some affirmations through Internet readily and just modify them. @SOUL yup, i was sick of the depressed mood and really put the work to get rid of it. I hope this post does have a positive impact on others life as well. I enjoy life a lot more to tell you the truth, as i am feeling more free.

Hey guys! I have been fearful from negative criticism since i was a teenager and that has given me even depression. So the last 2,5 months I have started doing this simple affirmation exercise for 5 minutes before a fall asleep at night. So the affirmation goes like this: "I am free of any negative and positive comments of others". The key is that if you want to be free of negative opinions you also have to be independable of positive ones. Long story short here are the benefits i have noticed untill now: Far far less anxiety when I am speaking with strangers I used to stutter so bad, but now it has diminished about 80% I speak to women with more confidence. I am not afraid to do things because of others opinions (e.g. Wear the clothes i like) Have more fun and do more jokes as i dont have much fear of look like "stupid" Approach women and not fear rejection. I am not feeling sad, bad, frustrated when someone calls me names. I am expressing myself more easily and genuinely. I dont take things personally anymore. The benifits are awesone and i hope that gets you motivated to start, if you dont have already, doing affirmations in your daily context. Thank you for reading my post

Ive stopped porn for 3,5 months and it feels amazing. Women seem so beautiful and i can see them as human beings. No stress at all when i am with them.

@Loreena why so?

@tashawoodfall tell us a few things about your emotions. For example what emotions do you experience after having finished sexual contact?

@Leo Gura I see... But I think his teachings are very simple to understand for beginners.. Try reading I AM THAT for begging and you will understand nothing.

I am just curious to know why there aren't some books of Eckhart Tolle in Leo's book list.

Hey there. My brother was recently diagnosed with obsessive compulsive personality disorder. He is around 27 years old and as far as I can remember he was always acting problematically. We have visited several psychiatrists with my family except him, because he does not think that he has a problem and so he blames and accuses us for making him miserable. He said once to my father "if you don't do what I want I will commit suicide". Every month or so he has anger explosions. He grabbed me and my father from the neck and once he threatened me with a knife. My mother has depression that is cause by him and my father is constantly worrying and gets angry. I am keeping him a distance. We are living in the same house by the way. And we may talk once every 3 or 4 months. His behavior is really toxic, he wants us to leave according to his expectations. He is constantly anxious and occupies himself with cleaning the house almost all day. He does not go out or have any friends. So, my question is how to deal with it, because I know deep down myself I am suffering. Thanks

How many Zen masters are needed in order to change a light bulb? 2... One to change it and one not to change it ?

Aha.. I like the way E. Tolle sets gratitude. Not verbally, meaning thank you God for having or doing this, but actually giving your fullest attention. For example when you eat just eat as mindfully as possible, and that is real gratitude..

Read the : road less traveled 2 by Scott peck. I am currently reading it and it has a chapter for sexuality and spirituality...

Are you grateful for things you don't possess?

Hey thank you both of you for your responses. I am 25 years old, currently stuck in my home with my parents and my brother. The psychiatrist told us that we should involve the police and maybe close him to a clinic. The other option she told us is to move with my parents and leave him alone till he suffers so badly until he reaches depression and seek for help. But man I don't know everyday living with him is a bad nightmare, a hell. I am trying to keep myself strong,but for how long??

It would be interesting for all of us to if Leo could make a video about rejection. What do you think?

What judgement really is, is when you equate someone with you own label.. I.e someone might tell you very often lies, because of fear.. When you say that this person is a liar, and then you define this person by your label, you then are trapped in your own mind. You have mistaken the essence of that person, who he or she is with your label and then,of course,you act him according. to your label..

Take nothing personally. Let them speak behind your back.. So ?