Hasson_Miah

No. If going over the line makes them a cu** don't do it. That is the line. This is fine, Humanity has been this way since 10,000BC. We had shamans, witches, Valhalla and all sorts of things and these are okay because when they get older they can decide to unlearn them, if they make that decision in the first place. If they're too far gone, cool. Remember at our core we are primates, and at the core of every primate is a primitive system and every animal and all organisms share a "common ancestry". What this means is kids are small and weak and frail and this is fine. What this also means is that small, weak and fragile organism don't get a say unless the bigger, stronger and more powerful one decides that they do. If a Church goer gives a 3 year old child the say to go Church or not then that person is a retard because you have awarded the privilege of strength to a being that didn't earn it. Strength in this case being the child making a strong verbal reasoning as to why they don't want to go church, if said Child did that and the Church goer could not refute what the child said then this means the child is intellectually stronger. If the parents fulfils that wish then great and they are not a retard. Choice is an illusion the mod can ban us anytime.

Nothing. Don't force standards. Did wanting to share come naturally to you? If so do it. If not don't. I say this because I am trying to extract and identify the root of who you are from the question you asked. It comes to stem off some notion of getting things right and that's great and it's a start. You said you are confused and you are being driven insane. There are many layers to onion of your personality to peel back from these two statements you made, would you like to go deeper?

Keep aggressively posting and pushing content on one and only one platform. Find similar creators who can and are driving traffic to their content and use that platform and model their tactics and repeat over and over again until you get banned or get rich. If you can't find anyone choose a different niche or do a Ford Henry and revolutionise the world. But if you're looking to get rich choose diff niche. If you're looking to revolutionise, don't.

I have also done no fap not permanenetly. better diet, loads of red meat fuck all veggies and carbs unless they're fun to eat like Buldak noodles. Barely use my phone Train at the gym build buisness etc to answer your direct question for me personally yes. Got rid of my negative thinking entirely for 2 weeks straight after that it's been a slow upward momentum and I can better protect and guard my mind. bear in mind I have done and continue to do alot of subconsious reprogramming work, I actively banish negative thoughts, I say no to alot of peoeple, I read books about people pleasing. All in All its the work I put in and continuted to put in that allowed the shroom to be as effective as it was. seeing as you do the similar shit and continue to do so then maybe you will have same result as me.

Is this actually true I have to ask myself.... I have noticed since I have become less needy and less dependent on being validated my life has gotten better. Few examples: my friendships have gotten deeper because the circle has gotten smaller because I don't need to be seen with loads of different cool guys anymore a few less than 3 has sufficed, the type of girl I've always wanted has now come into my life because I've been actively avoiding wanting any sort of relationship for the approval that I have a relationship, I have the best physique yet in all my years of training because I stopped training to show off and started picking up lighter weights. I think so far because of my own experience you are probably right although I can't say for certain because I haven't lived this way long enough. But so far I've come to agree.

This is very interesting, my close group of friends are not like this to be insulted when looked at but my past friends (also heavy weed smokers and thuggish in their very nature) were offended by this sort of stuff. I wanna say in response to your question about why some never learn is a guess. I do believe we will have mutliple lives so I do want to say that in this life time they don't learn that lesson, why that is I am not sure maybe they're paying off their own karmic debt by constantly being begrundled by wanting validation. Just a guess. You would have to ask someone who fit's that criteria to get an answer but the thing is asking that type of person why they get offended and why they seek emotional validation would mean they have to recognise that they are that person and there's no way they'd recognise that weakness and still willingly continue to maintain it LOL. I think it definetley comes from insecurity and an upbringing where mommy and daddy and whoever else had to approve of them otherwise they'd be emotionally banished.

@UnbornTao I see I see, thank you very much for taking the time to share this with me.

@YIDIRYIDIR What does your necessary really mean? I want to debate that social validation has to be necessary because we have that ability wired into us. Weak argument because we could use the same measuring stick for rape as well but rape is morally harmful where as social validation can be harmful and by its nature is not. I don't disagree with you because I actually don't know what your necessary entails. I know that is important to discern otherwise I will not know what you meant.

@Human Mint No I meant mediocre the results are objective large however they are subjectively mediocre for now.

@Stick I don't want to conquer space I want humanity to do so and I will help this endevaour by aiding in the construction of faster travel at cheaper prices.

I am here to meet my needs and get the human race ahead of where we are now!!! We need to conquer space it is the next step forward so I need to help that cause.

@kavaris Im squeamish >__< There are alot of technical words you mentioned and I'm not ready for the learning curve @glassfire I have no idea what this means because I don't understand some words and I'm going to blame my poor experience of Linux on Linux and not my own lack of knowledge !!!!!

@Natasha Tori Maru My muscles have gotten tighter and denser and I've lost some weight too but Im counteracting that by eating a galaxy cookie crumble or a galaxy smooth chocolate bar EVERYDAY!!!

Anyone take nootropics and has done for the last 6 months consistently?

Context - I went to speakers corner this week on a day trip to London. My friend encouraged me to speak to a Muslim speaker, because he himself watches him and vouched for him I decided to do so. At first I was hesitant I didn't have anything I wanted to ask him from the heart. I spoke about this with my friend and I told him I am not afraid to look stupid, that's when I decided to put this statement to the speaker. '' I left Islam can you convince me to come back ''. It was recorded and I've submitted the video below. If anyone has 40 minutes to watch and debunk points from either side this is what I am looking for from you. https://youtu.be/26O2fk7h1YY?si=AmBgWAlrYg0Y_VPs

probably a jinn

Agreed temporarily. I don't seek validation right now because I am not where I dream to be. So I agree. Temporarily ~ because when I am where I dream to be I will be recognised so it comes hand in hand. If you took that recognition away when I am in my dream state would I care, I don't think so because I'd work to get it again so no.

Being an alpha

I can talk about my success in getting strong power lifting numbers and growing from following my bodybuilding programme. I successfully achieved mediocre results because I stayed committed. I haven't successfully achieved mediocre results in my business and I don't know why.

I am using Linux now and my 14 year old cousin installed it for me because my laptop kept crashing and he told me this would help, it did. Everytime I boot the laptop Linux keeps asking me for an authentication key which sucks. On windows whenever I closed Edge it did not log me out of my google accounts, solved this using Chrome on Linux. I tried downloading a screen dimmer for Linux and I have no idea how to install the software after the download it gave me an error. Very technical to use but faster than windows.

@HopefulMan True what I said was true and impractical. Have you heard of Ziran? It's a taoist concept that can be understood in various ways because of Chinese text but in short. It says to go down the path of least resistance, maybe the best way for you to change during each circumstance while you are present is to take out the automatic behaviour, test your autonomy and if it is the path of least resistance yay? If it isn't , than go down the path of least resistance, see now if that is the same behaviour you want to rid of do what Leo says to do whilst giving his smoking example and just be completely present mid say doom-scroll. Wording is a bit choppy but hope that helps more than my previous pragmatic yet uninformal comment.

@YIDIRYIDIR Thanks for looking at the video

@YIDIRYIDIR I understand what you are now saying. That method only worked for me because I was Muslim and I had an underlying acceptance of Allah at that point so the method worked and I contribute that to where I am but that's flawed because I had already believed in Allah so if I had done it with Krishna or Jesus would that have worked too? It is a flawed method I can see why now. It doesn't really work for a non muslim asking Allah , or maybe it does I actually don't know.

I currently eat loads of red meat and get my creatine source from there and have creatine scoop every 10 days or so with my banana and date milkshake. @Natasha Tori Maru