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  2. Posted

    These are not levels, they are Emotions.

    And they are crucial for your Growth.

    More on that here

    The Scale is from David Hawkins who himself got it from eastern religion/Scientology.

    The model is just a tool to get you to apply the letting go technique :x

    Everything is energy, thoughts, emotions, feeling.

    But to that extend the model is great.

    The question is, is there resistance towards that energy or can it be welcomed?

  7. Posted

    On 01/11/2023 at 3:57 PM, Spiritual Warrior said:

    Not sure... Maybe I was scared of taking her out on a real date... so I took the easy route and invited her to a party... 

    Good work!

    Another note: Why did you leave the girls in the bar and what was the reason you exchanged numbers?

    I hate texting, so I'd always try to stay as long as possible with her and get to know her. If you absolutely have to leave, plan a date with her right there. Or at least say something vague like let's meet up next week.

  8. Posted

    :ph34r: Guys, he is not trying to get laid

     

    Completely normal. You have to know that girls also have a life and sometimes also problems when it comes to dating. So even if you "killed" it on your first impression. That doesn't help your cause, when she is unsure wether or not she even wants to get into something new right now. Oftentimes, girls have this whole dialogue in their head about if dating right now is good for her or not.

    And as mentioned already, mood changes. One day she might feel like going out and meeting new people, the other day she won't and there is something completely different on her mind.

    That being said. What exactly did you type? Asking her to come to a party right away might be off putting. It also sets you up as the "party guy".

  9. Posted

    11 hours ago, Pav said:

    Why are you trying to insult his masculinity? If taking care of your appearance is what leads to better results with women than it's obviously a good action to take. Being physically attractive is clearly not incompatible with being a man since attractiveness is one of the main things women want in a guy.

    Would you rather fulfill the arbitrary gender roles of random people you've never met or take the right actions that lead to an abundance of sex and dating opportunities?

    It's not about taking care of appearance in order to be more attractive. That is completely fine. But believing this is the only thing that matters for a man and never doubt your beliefs about this is what's problematic.

    And it is way closer to a belief that girls have been indoctrinated for since aeons. Now, I'm not saying this is a good thing or a bad thing. But you tell me about how you feel for men now to believe in the same thing.

     

    10 hours ago, fabger said:

    @universe

    Was that supposed to be an insult?

    No, it's to wake you up from your black pill dream that is destroying your life.

    ❤️

  10. Posted · Edited by Leo Gura
    Removed offensive part

    10 hours ago, fabger said:

    @Dioxide2533

    I didn't mention that I'm neither bad looking nor a virgin. However blackpill content still fucked me up. But it still makes the most sense for some reason.

    Dude ever seen an ugly guy with a hot girl?

    Black Pill is so easy to dismiss.

    Are you trying to be a girl? Wear make up, paint a sixpack on you and get surgery to feel good about yourself.

    ❤️

  12. Posted

    9 hours ago, Sabth said:

    Of course

    Interesting. Normally dogs are quite friendly and cute. They are trained not to bite people. Do they attack random people walking down the street?

    I remember once on a holiday that some dogs came up to us when it was dark. A loud and direct "no" or "stop" from my friend prevented a possible attack. It really helps if you have experience with dogs (from family or friends), then you'll know better how to handle them.

  13. Posted

    17 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

    Though I’m also seriously trying to get this galaxy sized obstacle overcome. It has caused me deeper despair and hopelessness than I ever thought possible.

    I understand that. And I'm here to offer you help. It's important that you first understand that society is not suddenly going to change or give you whatever you want. Nobody out there is going to do it for you. You have to do it yourself.

    The question is, have you had enough?

    Enough suffering already, so that you are ready to take a leap of faith, take action.

    Even if that means you might get in conflict with the wrong girl and you very well might

    17 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

    lose his job if his boss sees, get ridiculed all over social media or at the very least be banned from his gym

    And you will do it anyway. Because that is not enough to stop you.

    You don't care, as long as you get what you want.

     

    Wanting to indulge in victim mentality feels nice in the moment. I know. But this is not the right place for it.

    I mean I'm pointing out victim mentality to you and you come back with another victim mentality on top of that.

    This is not how this works here. Because it just doesn't help you.

     

    We want you to succeed and Grow. That is why we have stricter rules. It's not to make you smaller and take your power away. It's because we know that it won't get you anywhere.

    I know guys who have approached over 15.000 women in their lives. And they do just fine. Yes, people are fishing for views on TikTok a bit too much. Still, you are probably living in the best time ever right now to go out and talk to strangers and socialise.

    You even said other people have decent girlfriends, so you acknowledge that people are somehow getting together. What more proof do you need that you can do it as well. If they can do it, you can do it. That's the only thing you need to know.

  15. Posted

    How old are you? Sounds like she is a little insecure.

    You told her, so you were honest. The "I can't trust you" seems like a cover up for her insecurities.
    And when you are not committed you don't have to be loyal while still dating.

    Could be something else that made her lose trust though, something you haven't mentioned. Or the fact that you didn't went through and had sex with her on multiple occasions.

    Nevertheless, I would say your chances are pretty high that you can date her again.

  23. Posted

    In the beginning phase it's good to have a lot of time for yourself.

    So you can read, meditate and contemplate (and do 10.000 doses of psychedelics).
    Without the constant pull of everyone to indulge and wallow in unconsciousness.

    When you are a little more stable in your pursuits you should mix it up.

    Having a romantic partner, very close friends or kids who are constantly mirroring your patterns back to you can grow you immensely and rapidly.

    Living wise, you can stay with flatmates but definitely move out of your parents home (unless they are Jesus Christ but even then).

  24. Posted

     

    In this video Nischa talks about how to get your finances in order and the mechanism that decide if you are climbing up or down the financial ladder.

    For example - Playing the game of spending money on assets like stocks, houses, self-development or to better your skills. So in things that have a positive ROI. Instead of playing the status game by spending money on expensive cloth, cars and holidays. Which do not help you in achieving financial freedom.

    She also brings in studies about how people commonly and unreasonably compare themselves when it comes to money.

    The video packs a lot of concepts with nice examples and exercises in a 8 minute format.