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10 hours ago, StarStruck said:You just need to know what people need and just provide that. One of the transitions I had to make is being less selfish and just serve the customer and make their happiness your happiness. And they will flock to you like goose to give you money.
If you just want to make money, yes. But that is not a smart goal to have.
Letting money define your skills is a very bad idea. You can take it into consideration depending on how much you value money in your current situation.
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This is true. Especially if you follow your Life Purpose and develop a valuable skill. If you live in the west, have a somewhat valuable skill and still find it hard to make money, you have a mindset problem.
And right now with inflation you just have to become used to higher pay checks. No way around it.
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For the same reasons there is grass growing outside... It is magical. A true miracle!
Literally, grass is growing right now: "whaaaat".
Ask yourself, why is there grass growing outside?
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14 hours ago, meta_male said:Women don't think as deep about what they get themselves into, they're unconsciously steered by their emotions, which is why it's so easy to manipulate them.
Contrary to men, who will always deeply ponder the things that he finds attractive in women. That's why men can't be manipulated as easily.
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Focus on your own sense of status (the status you perceive your self to have) and on releasing your need for attention, validation, love and sex.
Chris Hemsworth would probably not show up at your bar and if he did, he probably wouldn't be interested in 99% of the women there.
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Have you made any small bets? Like working on someone else's farm or growing food at home?
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Coaching is all about transformation.
If you can do the transformation yourself you don't need a coach. Sometimes something else might be necessary for that transformation other than coaching. Or coaching can be an additional aspects in your transformation.
Coaches tend to cater to people with higher income. Just because those people will pay more for the same coaching as someone who is unemployed for example. So in that regard they could be seen as overpriced.
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Imagine a woman who desires this Jeremy because of his looks.
They meet for a date and all he does is trying to get her to like him, he is super nervous and fake laughs to everything she says. He doesn't hold eye contact, instead he looks down most of the time. His voice is like Mickey Mouse but very quiet and he talks very fast. He doesn't display any passion, ambition or interest in life. Whenever he opens his mouth either a lame ass joke comes out or he is too much in his head to even say anything. He doesn't listen to her. He acts very surprised that she even likes him. And at the slightest hint from her, he thinks she doesn't like him anymore. He doesn't feel comfortable in his skin, he scratches his arms all the time and looks over his shoulder as if he assumes everyone is out to get him.
And most importantly he doesn't lead her. He waits for her to make a move, he waits for her ask him out, he lets her pick a date for them, he waits for her to show him where to sit, etc.
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That is what you get, when you have good looks and can fill a stereotype.
But if he would display unattractive behaviour/personality any woman would leave him for the next ugly guy who has a attractive personality.
It is just, that by his looks you would imagine he also has a attractive personality.
Compared to someone who looks like he is coming for the last magic the gathering community event or something.
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On 05/03/2024 at 10:58 PM, Schizophonia said:Is the purpose of spirituality to treat chronic anxiety disorder? lol
Yep, that and much much more.
It is about overcoming all your fears.
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This is the whole essence of spirituality.
Not beating yourself up and accept and cherish reality for what it is.
It's practical to practice acceptance because it will lessen your resistance towards the present moment.
You become more and more aware of how everything in reality is infinitely perfect and miraculous. Even eating something unhealthy.
Also Emotional Mastery is huge for the day to day living stuff and feeling good in general.
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Lusting after validation will make you dishonest.
Women have a radar against dishonesty, because it is threatening to them.
It's wiser to learn not to need validation from women and be authentic and honest.
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Your feeling is most likely correct
I'd encourage you to go deep into your beliefs and contemplate on them.
Go back to your childhood. Any ideas your parents gave you about money which you could have adopted as your own without questioning?
Imagine a group of poor people and a group of rich people, which do you feel more drawn towards? Why?
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Are you selling your quick response time?
If not, just tell them you answer questions only on Thursdays.
You might not be able to maintain all of them but it's worth it, because now you are getting what you want.
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The only entity with the power to take away your bliss is yourself.
If people are trying to convince you that their delusion is best, they are doing so out of love. Because they think it would benefit your situation if you would change your delusion to another delusion.
See for example my first sentence.
I see your post, and I notice how you are giving power away and not taking responsibility. Which, my delusion tells me, are some of the core principles of being happy and in bliss. And I sense from your post that those are things you want.
It's all lovely delusions here.
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Matrix comes from latin "mother" or "womb".
You do not have to escape it.
You go through it.
By falling in love with it's infinite intelligence and beauty.
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I've found in my own experience, that whatever I think about life will become my reality.
And that by thinking that "living a good life is hard" we are putting imaginary barriers between our current state and a state where life is good.
Because sometimes we might catch ourselves being in the zone, being happy and living the good life.
But then, our mind comes in and asks "hey, you know this is supposed to be hard? What have you actually done to get here?".
And we start "backwards rationalising" to ourselves that we can't be, in fact, happy and living the good life in the moment because we haven't done anything hard recently.
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Start here.
Come back if you have a more specific question.
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You are doing the emotional labor right now.
Push through these old beliefs you have about how something bad will happen if you follow your passion.
This is the emotional labor.
Life doesn't have to be hard.
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@bebotalk Posting links to your YT on FB or X is not best practice, as this would limit your reach on those platforms.
Of course you can promote your video everywhere and some people might stay around. But the problem is that the algorithm won't acknowledge these views. And Youtube is just far better as you are at promoting your video. If the parameters (CTR, retention, session duration) are good. It will do the job for you, every day, without stopping.
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22 hours ago, r0ckyreed said:I will just have to find the time to do a more intensive meditation retreat.
The main thing that is holding me back is that I have 120 hours of paid vacation time per year, and I honestly would rather use that time to travel and go on adventures around the world than to spend all that time, confining myself in one room, one space, just sitting and meditating.
Maybe confining myself in extreme solitude like that could elevate my consciousness, but I just have too much of an adventurous personality to just sit still and do nothing.
Either you do it or don't.
Or you could try psychedelics if time is of the essence.
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4 hours ago, bebotalk said:It would get more views which in turn would get more traction.
I'd advice against it, instead focus on creating good videos that youtube's algorithm will think kindly of.
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ADHD is so widespread you can mark it as normal nowadays. I'd say continue.
Awareness will likely lower your symptoms, so you might want to watch the ones about this topic. If that's something you want.
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They pay how much they value your work.
A boss is not your friend who helps you out when you are in need for help. Just as much as you wouldn’t help him if he wouldn’t pay you.
Also imagine you’d be paid 100.000 per month. Would you still be working there after a few month?
Or would you start going on a long vacation, building your own business etc.
If you are not happy with your job guess what. It’s your responsibility to change something.
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If you live your life very low consciously that might be true. But this place is about self actualisation. You self actualise by taking things into your own hand and take responsibility. You live life to your fullest potential. That doesn't necessary mean you have to make a lot of money but by avoiding a lot of the material traps and illusions laid out by society, your financial situation should be better than 70-80% percent of the population easily.
And why do you define yourself by the low conscious standards set by society?