universe

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  1. Be very aware of your thoughts, images running through your head. And the way in which you perceive reality. That is the only one in power.
  2. That show is full of explanations. But it's also full of unanswered questions. In the end the viewer is creating the meaning, like with all art. Does it even matter what the artist wanted the meaning to be like? Do we want to restrict the meaning of art to only what the artists head in mind?
  3. Awareness alone is a super power. You can be so aware of your thoughts and images processes, that you can become a master of your mind. Imagine what this leads to. Never seeing yourself as a victim anymore - check, being happy and in a flow state easily - check, can make yourself to do anything that you want, eating salad, working out, working on your life purpose - check, loving yourself - check, loving other people - check, spreading love and good vibes to everyone around you - check, having everything you ever wanted, money, fulfilling relationship, peace, spiritual awakenings - check, being magick - check, feeling motivated and inspired whenever you want - check. ❤️
  4. I would introduce myself as God and ask if that changes anything
  5. I think, with two friends who find each other attractive. One female, the other male, both heterosexual. It is just a matter of time something can/will happen. That is just nature. How you create and design your relationship around that is what you have to decide together with your partner.
  6. If I am serious about a girl that won't change after sex. The same when I am not that serious. The problem for girls is, that guys are very focused on sex and you have to try to figure out his interest beyond sex. If you know you are on the same page and chemistry is there, there is no harm in having sex early. Having sex is just another step in the getting to know each other phase. Also if a guy has low self-esteem he might devalue a girl that sleeps with him, because of what he thinks about his own value.
  7. In general the vibe after sex is different and more chill. But that depends on her and your expectations and the expectations you set. The laws of physics don't change after the world championship or after you landed a kickflip.
  8. And hire people to build out its processing power and then get solar panels for power. Thats how the singularity will happen.
  9. That is not the reason. Stop being a victim. You can change your country, if you really want to. You are giving away your power by making this choice to feel like a victim. ❤️
  10. What you mean is speciesism. It's bullshit. You can love every species on this planet the same.
  11. Haha, she introduced you to spending money on experience. Introduce her to invest money in assets. Set up some investment plans together with her. You can start low, maybe she will enjoy it? When she invests money in assets she can't spend it anymore on experiences. Win win.
  12. Yep, as others already said, distance is very important. Also be aware of your own thoughts and beliefs. When you grow up in a household full of negativity and victim thinking it's very likely that you have incoporated those as well. So be really alert of your mind. This "your mind" is the only thing you should really worry about, its the only enemy. In that regard, your mother can help you. When you notice she becomes negative, ask yourself where in your live have you been negative in the same way in the last days/weeks.
  13. This. Sometimes doing the approaches and everything isnt cutting it. Thats when you have to dig deeper. You have to work through all the childhood trauma. Sedona Method is perfect for this. Start by releasing your neediness.
  14. Stop with the victim mentality. You have to take 100% responsibility. I don't know how you made a situation in where you live rent free, get to use a car for free and have a good job as something negative. From what I see you owe exactly 0$, outside from expenses that you want to cover because you just want to. Somewhere inside you is a need to feel pressure or guilt. It is an emotional need. "I can't be happy and enjoy life because I feel guilty" Work on these emotions. And then work on your mindset surrounding A. Allowing and seeing yourself as a happy and healthy person. Self-worth, B. Money abundance. Also move out as quickly as possible. This situation you are in is not healthy. ❤️
  15. The closest thing I would say is Love. Yes. You will be able to accept that after you accept that you yourself are completely made up. That comes with the territory when talking in the absolut sense. ❤️
  16. @Emerald Of course you gotta do something in return. Its not about standing there and getting a car by looking good. You'd have to build a connection with someone. You don't have to approach men on the street but you gotta be as you say positioned. I don't know exactly how but I think it comes quite natural to most humans in general. Going out to events/partys, being on instagram, being on tinder. Some men are fine with being in the friendzone for years if they think they got a chance. It's a weakness from men who have little clue how to date. Of course ultimately that doesn't make you happy and is not a Life Purpose. So even tho it seems unfair at first there is really nothing to be jealous about. Wanting positive experience is a negative experience. Accepting negative experience is a positive experience - Mark Manson
  17. As you grow older you begin to understand the mechanisms behind what makes you happy and what makes you unhappy. For me, every day it gets better and better. Feeling more like I can express my true Self and embodying my values. Connecting with my feelings, learning to relax my body but also enjoy the play between tension and relaxation. You are in heaven right now, you don't need to create it. It is a reception. Going inside. If you want to be happy you are at the right place. Leo has many videos on this topic. I suggest you to start with this one. There is also a good free course, called the "Science of Well-Being" by Yale University. You have to take 100% responsibility for your own happiness.
  18. It's just absurd, how poeple hang on one single word to label all vegan meat as if it's the only alternative heard. This way good companies never get the props I feel they ever deserve.
  19. It makes sense to have some dedicated time for building your Life Purpose and then some for dating. But you don't have to work 5 years on your LP straight before you can consider to start dating. You could burst 4 weeks into your LP and then have a slow week where you get some dates in. You don't have to go extreme, there is nuance here. Which depends on your situation and your personality. In general, when you build a strong foundation for your 30s. Dating will be a lot easier. So in that regard your friends are right I would say. But at the same time you can find a dream partner right now. No one is stopping you.
  20. There are like a gazillion different vegan meat products. Made from soy, mushrooms, walnuts, oats, wheat gluten, jackfruit, rice, tofu and tempeh just to name a few. Which ones are we talking about here? Its the same with meat. Pork sausage is not the same as sardines.
  21. One big factor is identification. "I am someone who doesn't drink alcohol" "I am someone who eats healthy" When you start to really ARE these things an BE this way, its over. Another thing is having goals and working on them. You simply don't have time for bad habits if you are working on building the life that you want. And a prerequisite for all of this is to take 100% responsibility. You are the one responsible for your life and your habits. You have a choice!
  22. @FourCrossedWands It's the first and oldest cryptocurrency. It was designed to be a storage for value. The problem I see in many of the new ones is that they try to be everything. They kinda have to, in order to stand out.
  23. You have to teach her. Start with telling her how men all want sex. Because girls are different in that regard, they sometimes don't get that men think with their penis 99% of the time. Work on her behaviour. When she is telling you about these situations and is not happy with the way she handled them. It's a clear sign she is willing to learn and change her behaviour. Many girls have helper syndrome. They have a problem with saying "no". Because they have a strong need for harmony. This is not healthy, not for her, not for you and not for the men who get their hopes up because she isn't clear in her communication. But with deep personal development she can Grow out of it.
  24. Wrong, the awkwardness comes from within you. The words you say are really not important. You expect the conversation to go well and you have a need for that. Release that need and then focus your attention into your body. Feel and relax into it. Sometimes people are not yet warm to have a conversation, that's when it can be helpful to warm them up by carrying the conversation.