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Haha yes, I know what you mean! It's a bit like candy right? You can still Grow out of it. After all there are plenty of beautiful women out there. Also the whole package is important. I'd much rather be alone than dealing with a raging Victoria Secret model in a bad mood, throwing tantrums and stuff.

Agree with @LastThursday You set the standards for what works and what doesn't work for you. That being said as a men it is attractive when you can be with your emotions. Whatever comes up frustration, anger, sadness. Let it all out. But you are comfortable with holding the emotion in your body. Grounding the situation so to speak.

Obliterating your old self that you do not want and becoming the new self you want to be. Your new life will come from the way you are.

Yeah you respect money by not wasting it. And having money around is helpful. Especially if you want peace of mind. I think it is a very personal topic. Some people with a steady job will have a different relationship with money than people who are self employed. Also be mindful of all the ways you keep money away from you, because you are afraid of it and its implications. ❤️

Liberation can only exist when you have its opposite: enslavement. Like good and bad, it is an illusion and doesn't exist in Reality.

Yes, also by bringing awareness to emotions and resistance towards that behavioral change. And bringing awareness to the identification with it. And bringing awareness to the structure of your surroundings. And to the beliefs you hold about it.

No, try Self-deconstruction and Self-Love instead. Regarding Tate, look up the AGFLAP-CAP Emotional Chart. By getting angry at him for making fun of you, you might climb up a few ladders. But it's still far from optimal. Find out ways to climb higher once you are done with this stage.

Please use the old thread instead of making a new one.

For yourself and for others. Having a life purpose is like a cheat code in life. It will make everything much easier and more enjoyable.

It's stopping mid answer all the time now. Such a tease!

This is not an anomaly. People want everything high quality. Partner, House, Car, Friendships, Ice cream, Life, PC etc. Then they'll make bad decisions and end up with something else entirely.

It's precisely this. It's like playing a game on hard when you never played a game in your life. Not very entertaining at first. But once you start to understand what is going on and what the game wants you to do you can have fun with it. Even when you switch to another game you will still know the basics about gaming and you will figure stuff out quite quickly. First step is figuring out why socializing is draining for you and not for others. If Joe Shmoe can do it, then why can't you?

What happened that day? Its kinda important to know. Overall, yes you honored your emotions and its a dick move to not answer. But girls will be girls, if you become too reactive they'll loose interest.

Please add more context to your question. You can PM me the text and I'll add it to your post. Until then: Closed.

Do you want more social interactions during the week?

@johnlocke18 They only laugh when they see someone is trying to impress them. Because that would be funny. On the other hand when you are worried about people laughing about you that doesn't sound like a fun time. A girl that laughs at other people on the dancefloor is not my cup of tea anyways...

Yep and when the server is slow there is just more time to double click.

@integral @Yarco Thank you for sharing! This feels like discovering the Internet for the first time back when I was a kid. Endless possibilities and pure madness haha love it!

It's up to you. Having most of your values matched will make things easier of course.

Jesus, let them have those girls and find yourself one who cares for others enough to not let her boyfriend bully them. You have an increased need for safety, which will likely manifest in yourself freezing and being blocked. You do not need to life with this, you can change it. Release your need for safety. Done ✅

Growth as always comes from within and has nothing to do with the external. You go out and get rejected hard but you continue to do your thing. When before you went home and resigned -> Growth. You used to think about ways to impress her or what to say and now these thoughts don’t even come to mind. -> Growth You thought that you needed women in your life in order to feel complete and now realize you are perfectly happy and complete on your own. -> Growth

Haha. You are Nahm, you are God. You cannot have it both: The illusion and the Truth, pick wisely. Of course, a donation is to help the receiver, not the donor.

Locked as requested.

Every gender has it's perks and challanges. This forum is about personal development. While this post was directed at men feeling treated unfairly by society, I see the overall theme of it can be universally applied to every gender that exists or will exist.