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You could just ask if you can go with them. Or you talk about it. "Ah that bar (x), I like that place! We usually go to bar (y) after work, last time (story xyz)" It's not what you say that makes you look desperate its how you say it and if you really feel desperate. Of course if you want to go the safe route just wait until they invite you but that way they might don't invite you simply because they think you are not interested. Also depends on the culture / country you are in.

I think you have a good list already. But the main question is what do you want? If you don't know what you want you have a chance of wandering around aimlessly, wasting time. Also use the PM function. Make connections with people. You can literally talk to anyone and they will most likely answer. Even Leo answers so many questions here.

Never tried 5 Meo but on LSD I got an intense body high. Like feeling warm and comfortable in your body, this lasted for months. I think it helped me to relax. Also this helped me a ton

Have you watched this video already?

You can become deeply conscious about some parts of the nature of reality. Then you will know about the conspiracy and who made it.

I mean like what do you think about their relationship and their relationship to you. How do you view relationships in general?

What's your relationship with your parents and how is their relationship?

Because at that time homosexuality was illegal in India. And most people agreed that it was a bad thing. Don't impose your advanced morals onto people born decades ago where morality was not as advanced. Same goes for women's rights, slavery etc.

When you become awake it's so radical, you will notice. You will also not worry about other Gurus anymore... It doesn't even matter if a Guru is enlightened or not, as long as he makes you enlightened. If someone can teach me how to make money but doesn't make money himself, it doesn't matter as long as I get the results. Just try the techniques and see if it works.

How is your relationship with your parents?

Isn’t it nice, living the live that others want you to live? If you really don’t like it, just quit. if you just feel challenged maybe it’s good to stay. It’s normal that the first weeks at a new job are challenging. Because everything is new and you have to adopt. After a while you will get used to it though.

Yes everything will be ok. Instead of focusing on money, focus on what you love to do and (that's the important part) solve peoples problems with it. When you focus on creating value and helping people with their problems you never have to worry about money. And reframe that. You are not "evil" by selling your products online. You are helping people, who without you would never get what they want OR would take much longer to get it! ❤️

This is the way

Yes, because animals are not pure. Evil animals. Evil Let me not start with the plants! They are even lesser than then animals. Somehow the thing that distinguishes us from other existence on this planet is also the gold standard that makes us pure. I smell bias.

Some former RSD coaches give business advice now. Look for Max Turnow.

@BuddhistLover Thats what Universal Basic Income stands for. Everyone gets it (maybe only adults). So you don’t need a huge agency and can cut down on administrative costs.

Pretty sure humans have crossed that line a long time ago. If you mean in a million years time frame, then I can see how AI might make humans useless. But in the meantime the universe might exactly wants humans to enjoy their lives without the need to fight for survival for a while... how else are we going to evolve into alien mouse in space?

I'm intrigued by his teachings. The way he does his guided meditations seem plausible from my understanding but I haven't tried it yet. Your health and mind are interconnected, but so is everything else. It's all very complex and nuanced so there will never be an end all be all solution to being healthy all the time. It's just not how life works. There are also many different kinds of sickness. Most of the time doing Joe's meditations and meditation in general will be beneficial to your health. But if, let's say, you are eating junk food all day it won't be the best action to take. You have to increase your awareness on all areas of your life and see which one is most "out of line" so to speak. And maybe you won't be able to change it and then it's good to accept that too.

What, whales also have no job. Does it mean all whales have no need to exist? Who dictates which creation has a need to exist and which doesn't.

Very simple. Because I like my partner and don’t really want to spend time with other girls. After some time you become invested The relationship is just what follows from that. Also I like deep connections.

Spend as much as possible on learning new skills, network opportunities and your business in general with an abundance mindset.

Sounds good! You could look into James Cameron's Avatar. He has a similar LP I think. What first came to mind reading your post is that, if visual arts is not something you enjoy you can always partner up with someone who does. So you could focus on writing and building a team. If you want to earn money in the beginning instead of working at, let's say, a restaurant. You could find ways to sell your services to industries like animal shelters, permanent culture, plant based food etc. There are may businesses who work with animals in some way who could benefit from strong storytelling in their marketing. And also make sure your LP doesn't rely only on ending suffering for others. Find something that is inherently meaningful to you, that doesn't rely on outside motivation.

Awareness truly is great

Look up "Nice Guy" behaviour. You have such a deep craving for approval, that you rather suck it all up than risking to make someone angry or not like you. There is an underlying fear that you won't get approval and that you won't be safe.

I don't know why you are here. Is it to feel good or is it to learn? I'm here because I learned tons of stuff, immeasurable value. And a women's perspective is always welcomed from me, especially because it is so rare here. This place is for Self-Actualization, Self-Improvement. Take what seems valuable to you and leave the rest out. You know that anyone can create an account here. Would you listen to what any random person says to you? You have to learn how to filter the bullshit from the gold. And whenever you notice any problem. This is a clue. A clue to turn your attention inside. You are not a victim. This forum is not the problem, misogyny is not the problem. Words on a screen are not a problem. The problem is somewhere inside you! Your level of development, your emotional development, your way of thinking and perceiving the world. Maybe you took what a random internet user said to important, maybe you are not deeply sure about your beliefs, maybe you write in a way that trigger other people, maybe you a have an underlying emotion that you haven't looked at for a while and it materialises in different ways in your life or maybe you are not seeing reality for what it is. The general message from this thread applies to anything. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/34866-to-all-struggling-males-stop-playing-victim/