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@AlwaysBeNice Thank you for your response.

@Leo Gura Yes, you know that he was an early psychologist who related everything to sex. I'm searching for a real answer. I think it's better if serious questions are answered clearly and professionally and not turned into jokes. I think many others won't take it seriously if it's in jokes. The style in which I'm asking you pretty much relates to your most recent clip - How I Do Research, Big Picture Thinking. Remember, you did say to question everything in that clip.

What are the risks in taking 5-meo-dmt? This is a very deep/profound question. What do I mean by risks? This question is for anyone interested in taking 5-meo-dmt. What if a doctor is to answer this question? Here is an example involving risks to clarify what I mean by risks: Many of us have taken immune shots. The majority of us are totally fine with it. However, did you know that there is a minority of people who have taken immune shots, and it didn't work for them? Some children became autistic after taking them. I knew of a woman who took the measles / mumps / rubella shot, and she was scarred with measles marks all over her face and body for life. She seeked a homeopathic doctor for help, but that doctor wasn't able to help her. This is what I mean by risks. The doctor doesn't tell you in a very personal manner that you are at risk for immune shots. If he did, that must mean he's a very caring/rare type of doctor who payed a lot of attention to you. If we are one of those people at risk for immune shots, we wouldn't know - unless we did excessive research and knew ourselves very well. We would have to be our own doctor too. Doctors are not perfect. This also goes for psychedelics - to highly respect them like medicines. What are the risks for anyone (and everyone)? I have helped with a patient with severe schizophrenia. From that experience, I know that it's probably not a good idea to take psychedelics if you have a family history of mental illnesses since any stress in the environment could trigger the first psychosis. Even if you don't have a family history of mental illnesses, my guess is, there are risks in taking 5-meo-dmt. Psychedelics are very powerful. Another side to this is the spiritual side to it. Does it effect your karma? Does it make it better or worse since this is relating to spirituality? This is probably a very personal matter too. Are there any professional sites talking about all the risks? You sound like Sigmund Freud.

Shallow learning Focuses on unrelated details Information is simply memorized Facts and concepts accepted unreflectively Aims to pass (or perform) instead of understanding Leads to negative emotions and attitudes about learning and self Deep learning Focuses on entities and connections Relates previous and new knowledge Uses reflection to relate theory with experience Creates understanding, meaning, and new ideas Leads to positive emotions and attitudes about learning and self

"If you do not discover the lessons from a mistake, you will be met with that problem again and again until you get the message." "Make it happen. Shock everyone." "Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change."

I really like your wording here - how you put it. Did you ride the ox backwards? (You don't have to answer it - just a reference question.)

You mean video game enlightenment. ???????

What do you miss about him? To me, he's very profound. He built this imaginary, profound staircase which takes you up all the way. You just have to climb it and watch your steps. Of course, you don't have to follow the staircases that he built. You could build your own. Or, if you already have a path, it became clearer.

We're all waiting for his inspiration, huh?

Since you said that it's not a self-esteem issue, I would highly recommend to start understanding the ego. Not many people are able to understand it, they mistake it for being selfish or something else. Ego has everything to do with all your emotions and the monkey mind. Guess what? All that is a fiction. Just let it pass by like you are watching a passing train. Please read up on the ego. Here's a passage from Robin Sharma, the author of Who Will Cry When You Die: Be More Than Your Moods For much of my life, I believed my thoughts were beyond my control. They just entered my mind automatically and did whatever they wished to do. Even worse, I believed that I was my thoughts. Instead, we are thinkers of our thoughts. We are creators of the thoughts that flow through our minds and, given this fact, we can change our thoughts if we choose to do so. This seemingly obvious insight was an epiphany for me. I soon became far more aware of the thoughts I allowed into my mind and the inner dialogue that takes place within everyone of us every waking hour of every living day. I began to pay complete attention to the quality of my thoughts. This awareness was the first step to changing them. Over a matter of months, I trained my mind to focus only on positive, inspiring, and enlightening thoughts. And in doing so, I saw the outer circumstances of my life change. Just as you are not your thoughts, you are not your moods. You are the creator of the moods you experience, moods that you can change in a single instant. If you choose to do so, you can feel peace in a moment of stress, joy in a time of sadness and energy during a time of fatigue.

@Afonso

Awesome toothpaste by Baba Ramdev (Guru)...

Here's a true story that I heard, and I got it from one of the books of Robert Kiyosaki. He's the author of Rich Dad Poor Dad and Guide to Investing. I like the second book better because it tells more details. Here's the story: Bill & John There was a village with a water problem. All they had was an enormous bin in the middle of their village, and that was their only water supply. The villagers had to go down to the nearby river a mile away with their buckets, scoop up water, come back, and pour it into the bin. The leader of the village got tired of this problem and called Bill and John for help since they were the best problem solvers. John got to work immediately. He got two huge buckets from the general store and started going back and forth from river to bin. He worked 14 hrs a day. The villagers paid him well. Bill, on the other hand, disappeared. No one knew where he went. Everyone thought he has given up. However, six months later he showed up with a lawyer's contract (due diligence), two wealthy investers, and a water pipeline construction company. He built pipelines from river to bin and to all the homes in the village. Now the villagers had at least one sink and a bathtub. He knew that other villages and small towns nearby had this problem, so he built pipelines there too. For the water, he only charged one cent per gallon, but that's ok. He got billions of orders. Then, I saw a YouTube clip of Shaolin monks that reminded me of this story. I've been watching them for a while now. Have a look at the first scene of this clip. They are carrying buckets. I noticed that sages/gurus/monks are very disciplined. They are capable of doing this - "building pipelines," if they had to, and donating most of the money to charity. I know that Sathya Sai Baba of India started hospitals and universities. I heard that some other guru had a toothpaste product made from natural materials. Just wanted to share this. Here a basic startup structure.

We can't really tell if it's a good sign or not. That's between you and her. Are you both non-quitters? Think long term. The both of you have a long road ahead of you if the relationship is to happen. What will you become if you transend what others say? @Huz I just want to add something here and be a little more bold. I grew up in CA. Far too often, relationships are only short term, and they break up easily. It's a huge distraction in life to have so many heartbreaks. It's time to think ahead on what a successful relationship is about.

Two different messages... Do Read... its beautiful !?? The best message I have read in a while A man, an avid Gardener saw a small Butterfly laying few eggs in one of the pots in his garden. Since that day he looked at the egg with ever growing curiosity and eagerness. The egg started to move and shake a little. He was excited to see a new life coming up right in front of his eyes. He spent hours watching the egg now. The egg started to expand and develop cracks. A tiny head and antennae started to come out ever so slowly. The man's excitement knew no bounds. He got his magnifying glasses and sat to watch the life and body of a pupa coming out. He saw the struggle of the tender pupa and couldn't resist his urge to "HELP". He went and got a tender forceps to help the egg break, a nip here, a nip there to help the struggling life and the pupa was out. The man was ecstatic! He waited now each day for the pupa to grow and fly like a beautiful butterfly, but alas that never happened. The larvae pupa had a oversized head and kept crawling along in the pot for the full 4 weeks and died! Depressed the man went to his Entymologist (insect specialist) friend and asked the reason. His friend told him the struggle to break out of the egg helps the larvae to send blood to its wings and the head push helps the head to remain small so that the tender wings can support it thru its 4 week life cycle. In his eagerness to help, the man destroyed a beautiful life! Struggles help all of us, that's why a bit of effort goes a long way to develop our strength to face life's difficulties! As parents, we sometimes go too far trying to help and protect our kids from life's harsh realities and disappointments. We don't want our kids to struggle like we did. Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Dan Kindlon says that over-protected children are more likely to struggle in relationships and with challenges. We're sending our kids the message that they're not capable of helping themselves. To quote clinical psychologist, Dr. Wendy 's Moral: "It is Our Job to prepare Our Children for the Road & Not prepare the Road for Our Children" All parents - do read it???