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You are very lucky you get to eat that. There is not a single thing lacking in that. Those thali packed up in the tiffin boxes are great for going to work, but fresh cooked thali are best.

Do you eat thali everyday?

1) This is a good question. I thought that buckwheat is better than regular wheat, and also matta rice is better than just wheat and also buckwheat. 2) I don't mind eating daal every other day. I know it gets boring. Don't you just stir fry the spanich with garlic or have it with paneer? Smoothies everyday for breakfast is not filling.

1) I have heard that ragi (buckwheat) is just as good and less expensive. I have yet to make this recipe: Because sambar & idli are my favourite. 2) I always have a pressure cooker around to cook daal. Many types of veggies could go in it, including spinach, which contains calcium. I still drink milk in my chai, just half cup of milk to make it -- no sugar added. Eat a variety because you still need a variation of foods to stay healthy. Sometimes I would go take a blood test to see if all my nutrition are in balance.

@George Fil A voice is just a voice, but life itself is a school. You know, what does help is to identify an "actualized" person in society, a role model, and see how he/she behaves throughout the day. What happens on a daily basis counts. The very tricky part is to identify this type of person and learn from him/her. You may observe other ppl who you run into and ask yourself, "What are the strengths and weaknesses of this person?" A person learns a lot if he learns how to do this.

I agree on this a lot.

@General 2 Colonel Sanders, the guy who started KFC, decided to start it in his 60s. The idea occurred to him at that age. I knew someone who was 65 who could not speak English and wanted to learn, but made every possible excuse not to do it. He complained that he was too old to learn. He died at 85. I thought he could've learned even at that age. He lived for another 20 yrs. I heard it only takes 500 words to speak a language and write a simple letter. I think the real question is, why start late?

@Galyna Enjoy your time with them at this age. Time flies. This is the cute age! By the time they grow up, you'll think back and miss it. You may say to yourself, "Oh, I wish I've done ___,___,___,etc.," and then the list goes on. At the same time, you know, we want to become independent to support them -- best education, best health, best everything, etc., etc. And, we want to spend as much time with them. It's a workload for us, 24/7. What has really opened my eyes is this book. It's a starter book, but it led me in the right direction. I strongly felt it. It helped me discover the beginning stages of my life purpose. You may have a look at it if you wish. Best of journey.

@Galyna ok. Cool. I used to be a stay-at-home mom.

Just curious...have you started your life purpose journey yet? Do you know your calling? That could lead a mom to feel more secure, less sleep deprived, and make better decisions in life. How far along are you on this journey? It's a life long journey of discovering oneself.

@Galyna Are you getting enough vitamins? Before birth, you had to take prenatal vitamins. Those were great, right? Did you stop? Why? After a while, get a blood test to see if your vitamins and everthing else are in check. Do you exercise everyday?

If the reputation feature is off, we could learn to read & understand ppl better according to their posts. We could focus on that. Some may get rep points just for being popular or similar to the majority. This may promote 'group-think.'

I agree that the self (ego) doesn’t exist. It's only fiction. So, ask yourself, how can I live "selflessly," using self-mastery?

@Sevi You're welcome.

Yes, I agree. However, many ppl will not be able to relate to you if you tell them that you are pursuing entrepreneurship and trying to earn passive income. They will comment in all the wrong ways. Try it and find out. If you tell them that you're a doctor or engineer or any white collar job, of course they will understand and be more friendly toward you. They could relate to that. Some entrepreneurs say that only 10-20% of the world's population have passive income. Those ppl are persistent, step out of their comfort zone of just having a job, and not listen to all the misinformation out there about entrepreneurship. I'm not saying to quit the job. You could do this on your free time.

@Sevi Do you love animals doing cute stuff? Cool. This one happens to be my favourite: Seems like the crow is awakened. Crow = Parent, Kitten = Child

@Ariel Research the topic: "mentally strong people." I find this helpful: Another thing is, watch out who you hang out with. Make sure you hang around ppl who will not pressure you to make decisions that you will later deeply regret. Remember that good friends who truly understand you are hard to find. This will be true as you go further into your adulthood. Before you make crucial decisions in life, research and look at it from as many sides as you can, and then make a wise decision. There is a saying: Another useful saying that has to do with wise decision making: You said this: "The problem here is that I still don't know what to do, if I should I hide this thing or being open with people. To get real relationships I need to be comfortable with my flaws. What did you do?" No. Don't go around telling ppl. Ppl in general don't need to know. You may end up telling the wrong ppl, and all you'll get are judgements, criticisms, and gossipings for no reason. But yes, if you start a real relationship, you will have to tell her. She will have to accept you for who you are and what you did. I really think you need to work on yourself first before you start a real relationship. Be prepared. Break ups hurt ppl too. That could easily happen if you're not prepared. I recommend that you go for your interests and meet ppl along the way without rushing into a relationship. Try making real friends first. Developing a life purpose will eventually allow you to discover yourself. It's a lifelong journey.

Yeah, Happy Valentines Day! Send this to your significant other.

@h inandout A very interesting post... These points that you said caught my attention. My thoughts are: it's rare to find someone who is willing to be friends first and then go into a relationship. When I say friends, I mean very good friends. Both know their weaknesses and strengths and accept each other for who they are. To find this compatible match, you really got to grow yourself so that the right person comes along and you'll know. Are you working on your life purpose? How far along are you on this path? This path can grow you a lot, and along the way, you'll be meeting different types of ppl. Are you able to connect your life purpose with spirituality? If you are working on this, what did you discover about yourself so far? Usually, what happens is, both parties put their best foot forward. They are on their best behaviour before the relationship starts, and then, when they are actually in the relationship, all the flaws come out. Two basic things could happen: 1. The relationship could start from codependent and grow into at least an independent relationship. 2. Compromises can't ever be reached, and so the couple breaks up.

Success in the business world is defined as earning passive income to the point where the person can live off of it without a 9-5 job. In such situations, the person is free to do "whatever he/she wants." Of course, with this much free time, the person will have to contemplate on how to spend the free time. Yes. The person will have to be psychologically healthy to go through with this. It's very different than the norm of society. The norm is just getting a 9-5 job and retire at an old age. That's it. Many ppl can't relate to this part of the path. They will think that you're just doing it to become "rich and greedy." If you do try to help ppl, that could be perceived as being a "show off." There are a lot of projections from society. It's best not to say anything and to think about what to say as your occupation when asked. Just like we don't go around talking about enlightenment and spirituality as an interest. Another thing is, if you do become wealthy because of this, you can't let money get to your head. What are you going to do with all that free time? Plan ahead. So, the answer to your question is, some successful ppl are psychologically healthier, and some are not. The ones who are not don't know how to manage their free time and/or money. You don't have to take huge risks when earning passive income. You could do it from your home computer. Of course, it will take a lot of time. It takes all of your free time to commit to this.

It's all "you." Everything (from the nothingness)...Each spark is probably not a star but a universe that appeared. Going into an ego...embodiment with love.

I think it's perfectly fine to have an Indian name. It doesn't matter how you "look." "Race" and "nationality" doesn't count--big, meaningless labels given by the government and ppl. I'm glad that ppl are having beautiful names and not just having them according to someone else's norms. Your life is your life, not someone else's ridiculous norms. Hindi & Sanskrit names are beautiful. Shiva is one of the main Gods of the Hindu religion. He's the God of the destroyer. Brahma is the God of the creater, and Vishnu, God of preservation.

Hmm...work hard, work smart, and...

Some people can't change their paradigm. They just stick to whatever they feel comfortable because it feels safe and secure. It feels right. They don't know how to take risks in being successful in whatever endeavor because they don't know how to manage risks or learn how to manage risks. They assume all risks are reckless. In this case, for this topic, the person may view the unknown person as a threat just because they are different or "weird" or give the person some kind of label.