Francis777

If your own bliss is the only thing you love then your gonna end up miserable.

In what way could your temperamental bliss ever matter, your attachment to it is what will extinguish it.

Well I’ve been blissed out a hundred times and none of it matters. You can’t sustain it so don’t try to.

you should be less naïve, strap in for the long haul sunshine.

I'm specifically talking about the attraction phase and that how men have to put a lot more mental effort into it than women. Of course the relationship phase cannot be sustained off this. I think the biggest hurdle men face is getting past the attraction stage, once they settle into their masculinity around women its probable that they will stick around. Of course long term healthy dynamics play a role but women will be engrossed by a man that is firmly secure in himself regardless, because that's what they crave, stability. The rest can be tweaked as the relationship progresses. Hell, if you even look at it within nature, its always the male species that have to put on the show, through dances, rituals, colour demonstrations and what have you.

men have a harder time dating than women, that's why there's more posts, all a women has to do to attract men is portray her femininity and she'll get attention. that's the truth

it is the same explanation, from what henry is asking its the only way it can work.

basically don't believe a women on what she says she wants.

uh, no. Not in the slightest, my social intuition is higher than anyone I know personally. Can I ask what made you ask that?

@vibv yeah, I hate it. not as a treatment for my symptoms though, majority of drugs exacerbate kundalini symptoms. But I tried it multiple times before that and really didn't like it, had a lot of unappetizing experiences, never got a taste for it.

its not that I'm more cognizant drunk, its that while I'm in this kundalini process any expansion of consciousness like contemplation, intensifies my symptoms. I can think more clearly while sober obviously, but the effort to organise and illustrate those thoughts adequately is what gives me terribly uncomfortable energy in the body, to the point where its not even worth it at the moment. Therefore I just free ball sometimes and make less sense. Because I still crave connection to others despite what I'm going through. Despite how well I'm able to make that connection, if you get me.

no, I haven't tripped in 3 years, my kundalini symptoms make it extremely difficult to contemplate anything deeply without serious physical "bad trip" like symptoms. My more more articulate "on point" posts are from when I'm drunk and don't have to worry about energetic physical discomfort due to expansion of consciousness from deep contemplation, because that's what exacerbates them most. I basically cant relax my mind properly unless I drink alcohol at the moment. Its been unfathomable hell but I'm nearly over it, I don't even want to drink but its the only peace I get with these symptoms, there such a bastard, you cant just "let go" because that's exactly what makes them 10x worse. Yeah anyway if I make distinctively more sense than some of my other posts its usually because I've been drinking and can think clearly without exacerbating my symptoms, otherwise id be curled up on my bed squirming with energy overload until I fall asleep (or until I've squirmed about till 7 in the morning and pass out from extreme exhaustion because I cant relax my body properly without consequences). I wish this was a joke buts its not

for sure man, its also one of the most researched herbs in history. its an amazing fungi

the bad boy - nice guy argument becomes so obvious when you truly understand what women really want, they want the best of both worlds because of the specific characteristics within each, its not about being neither as a whole personality, they want a good guy that can protect and lead them. understand women's limits and what they cannot procure for themselves, then you'll understand their needs. THEY WANT A GOOD GUY THAT ISNT A BITCH! in short.

i think the biggest part is just getting accustomed to mental states that are out of your control, we kind of know how to manipulate our sober mental states a bit but with psychedelics you just need more time getting used to that uncertainty.

are you going to release an episode on youtube regarding alien consciousness before your course?

you could try using cbd to ween yourself off a bit, the relaxation will still be there just not the high

try reishi mushrooms the balancing effect it has on your whole nervous system is amazing

they are not two things, they are the same thing

he just uses hallucination as a synonym for mind, to reiterate that reality is completely groundless, there are no fundamental building blocks to reality, the same way that there aren't in a dream. everything is made of MIND therefore everything is a hallucination. to dream is to hallucinate, I suppose people have a better grasp on what a hallucination is rather than a dream, but they are identical.

go get em tiger

lol, just have to "feel" your way into it (excuse the pun), don't think too much just have a good time, relax into the moment and you'll know what to do.

haha.. Rooting for you bro! hope it goes well

yeah man, just even keeping this group chat open helps. But the oxytocin released from physical touch is powerful anti anxiety.

@Romer02 I don't think your problem is physically related, it seems that unconscious emotions are coming to the surface whenever you are trying to relax the mind which just so happens to be when you try and sleep, its clear that the 5meo has brought unresolved conflict to the surface, you need to figure out what it is and resolve it. it's unlikely that it will resolve itself if you've been going through it for a while now which is from what I can tell from your previous posts about this, has been the case. When my kundalini symptoms were really bad and was having panic attacks I had to sleep with someone else occasionally as well to be able to fall asleep, just so that I felt protected enough/able to confide in someone to rest my mind and not deal with the emotions that were coming up.