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Tonight, I’ve reached a milestone of having approached 100 women in two weeks and it’s very clear to me now how approaching women has begun to change me. Attention ! It will trigger you, especially if you’re a woman. Good things: I feel way less fear when approaching women. I fell numb when I get rejected. I have started the process of de-idealizing women. Bad things: I am getting numb towards what women feel. I am loosing my authentic cuteness, tenderness and empathy. Basically I am loosing a lot of my feminine traits. I’m becoming more masculine. The more women I approach the less I see them individually but rather as a collective, because they interact in the same way, talk about the same things, and are very conformists. By the time I have approached a 1000 I will turn into a very successful man in terms of getting women but I will lose my true self. I will lose this guy who deeply cares about women’s feelings, who has a lot of empathy and understanding for them. This guy who’s trying to take it slowly, the guy who’s trying to be a good friend and not being pushy. The guy women say they want but friendzone or don’t see. Instead, I will become the guy women claim not to like but who makes them wet and fucks them. I will become the guy my female friends used to complain about.

Just once? You need to try watching porn on it. It's sick. I remember I spent like 3 hours just watching porn on 5MeO-DM. It was insane.

Bro try 5MeO-DMT and you willl understand what an infinite blowjob means

And the best too

Yeah, kids look very deepresed without sex drive. They don't seem to be enjoying life at all

I do understand it already. Most of the women I know not even interested in basic self-help. I sometimes ask women what are their top values and you know what is the most common answer? They say they never thought about it. So I stopped expecting to find a woman that will be spiritually developed. It hurt for a while but now I realized that you can't expect a cat to bark. Does it mean that now I don't like cats? Of course not, you can still have good time with them and you can still love them.

10 k??? Miguel, I don't feel motivated to go for 10k because the juice isn't worth the squeeze and I can already see it after having approached 100. I will still go for 1 k just for fun though

Did you read it in the book? In reality it's hard to find a healthy and mature feminine girl. The girlfriends I had in the past seemed perfect in the beginning but then something always goes wrong sooner or later. The notion that you need a female to be masculine is false because it comes from duality but I am not sure you understand what I am saying because this part of the forum isn't about spirituality.

Men are the ones who are self-deceived by their sexual instincts. The problem isn't about the women. Men are blinded by desire for sex. If you take a hot model 10/10 and put her in the room with an adult straight guy and ask him what he thinks about her and how he percieves her you can easily tell he's not being objective because sex drive overwhelms him. You can easily prove it by putting the same woman in the room with a 9 year-old . He won't give a fuck about her. So yeah, it's not about women.

Nah, inner conflict would be me sitting in the basement of my mom’s house and spending days in red pill or incell communities. Most of the women are sheep because it’s needed for their survival. I still want to have sex with them and if I find one who’s not a sheep, I will commit to her.

Because I might start doing it because all my life I had been idealizing them. I might project the hate I feel for myself for doing so onto women.

This is so true. On the other hand, I need to be very very careful because this way it’s easy to start hating women. Thankfully, there were a few respectful women with great personalities. Even when they reject me I don’t feel angry or frustrated, instead I feel happy to have interacted with a woman like this because it proves that there are good girls out there. But the majority of them are just sheep. I know it sounds bad but it’s true.

I think so too. I was raised to believe that being extremely nice to women is the way to go. To be a gentleman, to put women first and then to put yourself. In reality that’s how you become an incel and a perfect friend for women who say “you’re so nice, you’ll be a great boyfriend for someone else”. I’m glad I’ve become conscious of it.

Hi guys, I'm thinking of doing MDMA but I am not sure how good it is for spiritual work. I will be grateful if you share your experience with it. Thank u!

It´s not as important to me what feelings I provoke in women when I interact with them. If I make them smile or not. If they find me interesting, boring, bold, confident, arrogant, attractive, ugly, etc. When I just started approaching women in the past, I would try to be extra nice even if they were not nice to me. I would still smile and say "thank you", "bye" or "have a nice day". Now I just reflect how they react to me o interact in the same way they interact with me. If it's a clear no or they answer in an angry or disrespectful way - I just leave without any explanations. Also, I don’t tolerate slightest disrespect from women. For instance, yesterday I saw a couple of girls outside of the bar. I liked one of them and came and started a conversation with her. I was curious about her background because she didn’t speak Spanish and it was obviously that she spoke a little English. She was smiling when talking to me, but the friend who I greeted but wasn’t interacting with, at some point told me “Can you just leave us alone?”. I turned to her and said “I don’t think I was talking to you.” A day earlier, my friend wanted to approach a cute girl but she was with a friend and her friend wasn’t attractive to me at all. We still approached both of them, and when my friend asked the girl for her Instagram (after a few minutes of lovely convo with her). She said yes, of course but her friend started saying “Don’t give it to him, don’t do it, no no no.” Again, I got triggered and told her “Why are you saying this? He didn’t ask you for you Instagram.”

There is nothing good about porn. It took me 5 years to quit it because I started watching it at the age of 13. Porn fucks up your rewards system and you become addicted to it. It's an easy escape and you don't have to try hard to get a real partner or to master your discipline and become good at controlling your sexual needs. Quitting porn was one of the most difficult but at the same time the best thing I ever did for myself. Healthy masturbation without porn is a great thing though. I am not a big advocate of semen retention because it seems to be an ego game.

I’m gonna share with you guys a story that vividly demonstrates that everything you know about what to say to women and what not to say is wrong. This happened a few months ago, when I was still living in Canada. I worked in a hotel and there was a cute Canadian girl from Calgary that worked in the coffee shop in the same hotel. She was very attractive and I was afraid to tell her what I felt about her. After a few weeks of hesitation, I decided to come and talk to her. The coffeeshop was empty because the hotel wasn’t that busy that day, so I came to her, hearing my own heart jumping out of my chest and told her “Hey, I know it’s a bit too direct, but I wanted to tell you that I feel attracted to you and I was wondering if you could give me your phone number so that we can get to know each other better?” (something like that). She actually got nervous as well and told me that she couldn’t do it because she had recently break up with her ex-boyfriend. I wasn’t that disappointed with the answer and I felt relieve. We kept talking afterwards but way less (I wasn’t that involved in convos with her because I didn’t see the point). One day, she came to me a few days after my bd and asked me if I did anything fun on it. I asked her if she wanted to know the truth or she was asking out of Canadian politeness and she said she wanted to know what I did. So, I told her that truth. I told her that on my BD I went to Calgary to fuck a prostitute and I enjoyed it. She was very surprised with the answer but I didn’t see judgment on her face neither anything like that. She asked me why I did it and I told her that I do it sometimes because I don’t have a gf and I don’t like playing games with women and that I am too direct for Canadian women, so I don’t have that many options. She smiled and said that indeed I am very direct. Surprisingly enough, after this she would still come and talk to me at work. On Canada day there was a huge party and she was there too. I didn’t talk to her most of the time because I was enjoying myself and my friends (I was about to leave Canada in a few weeks). At some point I came to her and asked what was her plan for the rest of the night and she told me she was gonna go to a bar with her gay friend and I asked her if I could come with them and she said of course. When we went to the bar, we both were dancing and I was touching her body all over the place. I was so horny. Everybody on the dancefloor including her could see my dick in the ‘ready-to-go’ mode. At some point she looked at me and asked if I wanted to come to her place to watch a movie and I said yes smiling like a psychopath. Obviously, we didn’t watch a movie that night, instead we fucked. Think about it, she knew I fucked a prostitute on my bd, nevertheless she became more attracted to me. Women are crazy lol

Oooh now I got it ! See, I'm so bad with understanding Canadian women Now I am curious to know how would you use men and women escorts? What would be the difference?

That's the plan sir

Inner game is the most important part. Why do you compare yourself to the average guy? Compare yourself only to yourself. It's also part of the inner game. If in the past you coudln't approach a woman and now you can do it easy - that is success. What results you consider bad vs good?

Sorry I read your post 3 times but I am not getting what are you actually talking about? Are you talking about paid sex services ?

Yeah you are probably right, but I just don't want to change hahhaa

Exactly! That´s what I do! I want the entire dance floor see my member turned on by a girl I like! Thank you for support dude!!!

I turned on a hot Brazilian girl with this “flower” that I gave to her 😂😂

You made an assumption thinking that she didn’t know anything about me. Before I approached her in this way we had been taking like for a month or so. The second assumption you made is that this won’t work in 99% of the time. Maybe it won’t work if you do it because it’s not authentic to you and doesn’t fit your personality or your energy. In fact, I opened my ex in the same way. She was sitting in the bar and I came and asked her if she could give me her number because I found her attractive and she did give it to me and we started dating. She didn’t know nothing about me, still it worked out very well because it was authentic and she liked it. I agree with you that most women won’t like it probably but I don’t want to date most women, if someone finds this to be too direct we’ll, I am not the right person for her and I am okay with it.