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Tonight, I’ve reached a milestone of having approached 100 women in two weeks and it’s very clear to me now how approaching women has begun to change me. Attention ! It will trigger you, especially if you’re a woman. Good things: I feel way less fear when approaching women. I fell numb when I get rejected. I have started the process of de-idealizing women. Bad things: I am getting numb towards what women feel. I am loosing my authentic cuteness, tenderness and empathy. Basically I am loosing a lot of my feminine traits. I’m becoming more masculine. The more women I approach the less I see them individually but rather as a collective, because they interact in the same way, talk about the same things, and are very conformists. By the time I have approached a 1000 I will turn into a very successful man in terms of getting women but I will lose my true self. I will lose this guy who deeply cares about women’s feelings, who has a lot of empathy and understanding for them. This guy who’s trying to take it slowly, the guy who’s trying to be a good friend and not being pushy. The guy women say they want but friendzone or don’t see. Instead, I will become the guy women claim not to like but who makes them wet and fucks them. I will become the guy my female friends used to complain about.

Men are the ones who are self-deceived by their sexual instincts. The problem isn't about the women. Men are blinded by desire for sex. If you take a hot model 10/10 and put her in the room with an adult straight guy and ask him what he thinks about her and how he percieves her you can easily tell he's not being objective because sex drive overwhelms him. You can easily prove it by putting the same woman in the room with a 9 year-old . He won't give a fuck about her. So yeah, it's not about women.

Nah, inner conflict would be me sitting in the basement of my mom’s house and spending days in red pill or incell communities. Most of the women are sheep because it’s needed for their survival. I still want to have sex with them and if I find one who’s not a sheep, I will commit to her.

Because I might start doing it because all my life I had been idealizing them. I might project the hate I feel for myself for doing so onto women.

This is so true. On the other hand, I need to be very very careful because this way it’s easy to start hating women. Thankfully, there were a few respectful women with great personalities. Even when they reject me I don’t feel angry or frustrated, instead I feel happy to have interacted with a woman like this because it proves that there are good girls out there. But the majority of them are just sheep. I know it sounds bad but it’s true.

I think so too. I was raised to believe that being extremely nice to women is the way to go. To be a gentleman, to put women first and then to put yourself. In reality that’s how you become an incel and a perfect friend for women who say “you’re so nice, you’ll be a great boyfriend for someone else”. I’m glad I’ve become conscious of it.

Hi guys, I'm thinking of doing MDMA but I am not sure how good it is for spiritual work. I will be grateful if you share your experience with it. Thank u!

It´s not as important to me what feelings I provoke in women when I interact with them. If I make them smile or not. If they find me interesting, boring, bold, confident, arrogant, attractive, ugly, etc. When I just started approaching women in the past, I would try to be extra nice even if they were not nice to me. I would still smile and say "thank you", "bye" or "have a nice day". Now I just reflect how they react to me o interact in the same way they interact with me. If it's a clear no or they answer in an angry or disrespectful way - I just leave without any explanations. Also, I don’t tolerate slightest disrespect from women. For instance, yesterday I saw a couple of girls outside of the bar. I liked one of them and came and started a conversation with her. I was curious about her background because she didn’t speak Spanish and it was obviously that she spoke a little English. She was smiling when talking to me, but the friend who I greeted but wasn’t interacting with, at some point told me “Can you just leave us alone?”. I turned to her and said “I don’t think I was talking to you.” A day earlier, my friend wanted to approach a cute girl but she was with a friend and her friend wasn’t attractive to me at all. We still approached both of them, and when my friend asked the girl for her Instagram (after a few minutes of lovely convo with her). She said yes, of course but her friend started saying “Don’t give it to him, don’t do it, no no no.” Again, I got triggered and told her “Why are you saying this? He didn’t ask you for you Instagram.”

There is nothing good about porn. It took me 5 years to quit it because I started watching it at the age of 13. Porn fucks up your rewards system and you become addicted to it. It's an easy escape and you don't have to try hard to get a real partner or to master your discipline and become good at controlling your sexual needs. Quitting porn was one of the most difficult but at the same time the best thing I ever did for myself. Healthy masturbation without porn is a great thing though. I am not a big advocate of semen retention because it seems to be an ego game.

I’m gonna share with you guys a story that vividly demonstrates that everything you know about what to say to women and what not to say is wrong. This happened a few months ago, when I was still living in Canada. I worked in a hotel and there was a cute Canadian girl from Calgary that worked in the coffee shop in the same hotel. She was very attractive and I was afraid to tell her what I felt about her. After a few weeks of hesitation, I decided to come and talk to her. The coffeeshop was empty because the hotel wasn’t that busy that day, so I came to her, hearing my own heart jumping out of my chest and told her “Hey, I know it’s a bit too direct, but I wanted to tell you that I feel attracted to you and I was wondering if you could give me your phone number so that we can get to know each other better?” (something like that). She actually got nervous as well and told me that she couldn’t do it because she had recently break up with her ex-boyfriend. I wasn’t that disappointed with the answer and I felt relieve. We kept talking afterwards but way less (I wasn’t that involved in convos with her because I didn’t see the point). One day, she came to me a few days after my bd and asked me if I did anything fun on it. I asked her if she wanted to know the truth or she was asking out of Canadian politeness and she said she wanted to know what I did. So, I told her that truth. I told her that on my BD I went to Calgary to fuck a prostitute and I enjoyed it. She was very surprised with the answer but I didn’t see judgment on her face neither anything like that. She asked me why I did it and I told her that I do it sometimes because I don’t have a gf and I don’t like playing games with women and that I am too direct for Canadian women, so I don’t have that many options. She smiled and said that indeed I am very direct. Surprisingly enough, after this she would still come and talk to me at work. On Canada day there was a huge party and she was there too. I didn’t talk to her most of the time because I was enjoying myself and my friends (I was about to leave Canada in a few weeks). At some point I came to her and asked what was her plan for the rest of the night and she told me she was gonna go to a bar with her gay friend and I asked her if I could come with them and she said of course. When we went to the bar, we both were dancing and I was touching her body all over the place. I was so horny. Everybody on the dancefloor including her could see my dick in the ‘ready-to-go’ mode. At some point she looked at me and asked if I wanted to come to her place to watch a movie and I said yes smiling like a psychopath. Obviously, we didn’t watch a movie that night, instead we fucked. Think about it, she knew I fucked a prostitute on my bd, nevertheless she became more attracted to me. Women are crazy lol

Oooh now I got it ! See, I'm so bad with understanding Canadian women Now I am curious to know how would you use men and women escorts? What would be the difference?

That's the plan sir

Inner game is the most important part. Why do you compare yourself to the average guy? Compare yourself only to yourself. It's also part of the inner game. If in the past you coudln't approach a woman and now you can do it easy - that is success. What results you consider bad vs good?

Sorry I read your post 3 times but I am not getting what are you actually talking about? Are you talking about paid sex services ?

Yeah you are probably right, but I just don't want to change hahhaa

Exactly! That´s what I do! I want the entire dance floor see my member turned on by a girl I like! Thank you for support dude!!!

I turned on a hot Brazilian girl with this “flower” that I gave to her 😂😂

You made an assumption thinking that she didn’t know anything about me. Before I approached her in this way we had been taking like for a month or so. The second assumption you made is that this won’t work in 99% of the time. Maybe it won’t work if you do it because it’s not authentic to you and doesn’t fit your personality or your energy. In fact, I opened my ex in the same way. She was sitting in the bar and I came and asked her if she could give me her number because I found her attractive and she did give it to me and we started dating. She didn’t know nothing about me, still it worked out very well because it was authentic and she liked it. I agree with you that most women won’t like it probably but I don’t want to date most women, if someone finds this to be too direct we’ll, I am not the right person for her and I am okay with it.

Most of my life I was ashamed of my masculine sexuality because I was born in a very close-minded society. On top of that I was raised by women (my mom and grandmother). I was basically calibrated to be a women pleaser and only recently I started breaking out of this shell.

Yeah, porn hijacks your reward system and you feel low. The thing is if you like me have been watching porn since 13 it’s very difficult to notice its affects on your mood because your brain adapted to it. On the other hand, porn is very difficult to quit. I quit it after 7 years of going back and forth. Now I close my eyes and masturbate to memories of good sex I had with women and I feel rather relaxed and not wasted after it, as it usually happens with porn. At least in my experience. The physical pain that you feel is withdrawal from porn because you’re so used to use it to deal with sexual energy. Dealing with sexual energy is very difficult without porn and requires a lot of practice, discipline and will power. Even our lovely Leo Gura can’t master this skill, that’s why he’s so pro-porn

As someone who lived in Canada for 4 years, I understand how the weather and lack of true friendship can affect how you feel. To be honest, the best way for me to deal with loneliness was oneness that I could reach via 5MeO-DMT I would vape it in Canada every weekend or So but I don’t think it’s legal in your country (in Canada it is for personal possession). Other things are exercising regularly, fasting and eating healthy. Running especially helps. Maybe try to watch less porn if you watch it. In my experience it tends to make me feel lonely and depressed.

Moving to Madrid from Toronto was the best thing ever for my game. Never in my life had I seen so many beautiful and feminine women. Toronto is a scarcity compared to Madrid because women there are 4-6 out of 10 and here most of them 7-8 starting and a lot of 9 and 10. In Toronto I could spent hours in the mall waiting for hot women to appear. I only approached like a 100 women in 2 years when I was in Canada. Here in Spain, I approached 50 good looking women in 3 nights. A lot of North American men think that Spanish women are easy, but nothing could be further from the truth. The women in Spain not easy but they are definitely warmer and more emotionally explicit. You can relate to them authentically right off the bat and I love it because I am a direct and emotionally warm guy. Anyways, things that I learned for just 3 nights: 1. Most of the women whose IGs and phone numbers I got didn't respond or came up with excuses why they couldn't meet me. 2. Most of the fear went away after having approached 30 women, now I am able to approach smoothly. 3. Some women just like attention and will want you to think you are gonna sleep with them but they just feed their ego. 4. Women are very emotional and mood depended creatures. If you meet a girl at night and you create a connection you need to fuck her the same night becuase next day most likely she's not gonna even respond to your texts otherwise (from my experience). 5. If women see that them rejecting you doesn't result in you feeling bad or sad it creates attraction. This one was a big surprise for me. I approached some women and when they rejected me I smiled with gratitude and geniune energy of not giving a fuck and I could clealry see that this one thing created attraction in them lol My goal is to approach a 1000 women and my ultimate goal is not that good I don't want to have a lot of sex because my priority is something else: I want to be able to pull a girl to my place and make out with her and at the last minute I want to be able to be so disciplined that I can tell her, "Let's take it slowly." I want to win them over the game they are playing. Yeah I know it's some ego thing but it is what it is.

This is sooo true. As someone who was raised in beauty I can't grasp how men in Canada can say that there are a lot of hot women there. There are for sure some hot girls but since they live in a very materialistic country they will pursue men in power and with a lot of money. But that's okay, I don't judge them because it's their survival. That's why I moved to a less materialistic country where my financial status won't be as important as in Canada. Hahahah you reminded me of this one american guy I met when I was 18. Back then, I lived in Ukraine in Kherson and I signed up for this international languge learning club "Window on America". I remember everytime I would go there, all of the girls would look at this fat guy named Tom in the way if he was some sort of God. Just because he was american but he didn't do anything special in he's life, he just moved from the States to Ukraine and I understand why For sure he fucked most of those girls with zero effort, he didn't even know the language My ex was brazilian, she looked like a model and the most important part she had a very simple, shy and feminine personality. Brazilian women are hot as fuck, sexy and love sports (most of them). The problem though they are not treated well by men there so they need some healthy feminism for sure. A friend of mine fucked a random girl in Brazil without a condom and almost lost his dick hahahaah he got some serious things lol

I started to approach women like 4 years ago but I barely approached them because of fear. I used to go to night clubs for months to approach women but couldn't do it because of fear. I saw guys approaching women and making out with them, the same women I wanted to approach but couldn't and I felt very bitter about it. I got to the point of almost killing myself becuase if you hang in this shit for so long you feel awfull. I still have resistance now, but it's not as big as it used to be and I learned that my problem was idealizing women and overestimating them. Once you got to approach them and talk to them you will see who they really are. Most of them are here to have fun, raise kids, talk shit and eat food. They are not here to make u happy as I stupidly believed or share with you their metaphysical experience or undertanding of God consciousness . Speaking of spirituality, I went to 3 different "spiritual" comunities led by women. Two of them were some sort of cults and the other one was new-age horseshit about energies and telepathy with cats. Anyways, what helps a lot is having good and dedicated wing-man. Find yourself one and go for it bro!

hahahahahahahhahaha he´s such an american when he speaks russian lol 😂