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That's literally impossible. Your own words are your own words. Others words are not your words. You can say " I share view of XYZ" and expressed in own words that's "..." I got that he was making that point. My Meta point is that one can be so dependent from others perspective and words that they avoid expressing themselves even if explicitly asked to do so.

"In the province of the mind, what one believes to be true either is true or becomes true, within certain limits. These limits are to be found experientially and experimentally.” Did a Shaktipat many years ago. Did not believe that a transmission like that is possible. But I was open to verify or falsify. Holy shit, never underestimate true gurus and their mastery over energy.

Metaprogramming. John C Lilly Also, skilled communicators can make your programs conscious to you. Coaches, therapist. People close to you like friends, family are likely to see that too. Finally, deep meditation with silent mind will reveal subconscious structures. For changes: presence, awareness is key. And ability to go through emotional charges coming up. Change incrementally, start small.

What he did after being reborn?

Clever, your CO regulation tactic. Nice. Should also try:) I agree with the mind and body duality, was the same for me (still not equally balanced). My POV: It sounds like you need a build a stable self structure again. You probably unintentionally deactivated core believes. Too many, too fast without consciously replacing them. Without core believes, no identity --> system got destabilized, system panics, nervous system goes crazy. Been there. It's simple logic, like math. How much do understand (body awareness) and how much do you speak (breathwork, stretching, strengthening etc) the language of your nervous system? How much are you conscious of how you are metaprogramming your believes, emotions, reactions, identity (= ego, self structure). I would focus on those two things first. Example core believes I target with for my identity: I am safe. Anytime, anywhere, no matter what. uncomfortable states are only temporary transition phases. Always. -everything I need is in my direct field of awareness. Always. I don't ask why, I ask "what's good about it? How can I use it to my advantage? Who can support me with this?" But start small. One believe (I can handle this) and one executive action (every day 5 minutes journaling, or 1 minute breath work) so start with. Pace with love, gentle, but confident. Step by step integrate. For now, it's tough for you. It's hard at the beginning, but once the nervous system calms down, meaning talking and listening to it, it becomes REALLY fun. Because you can step wise recreate this self structure the way you want it. It's amazing. Of course, it's not a switch but gradual process but the feeling of self efficacy... wow 😲 Your old identity is gone - hello new you! Re "others": yes. Agree. It's also one thing I focus on - more community, more others. It's necessary and it's healthy IMO.

Did your IFS work include lot of changes in your believes? Did it cause significant shifts in your identity? Did it cause you to have significantly more body awareness? Turning awareness more inside? Asking because I had similar experience (but different method, not IFS) and recently read about the pattern how his happened. Helped me a LOT to understand how I will continue the work. I experienced strong destabilizing, suicidal thoughts (not intentions) and depressive period. Not panic attacks, but other strong body reactions

Thanks. First reply I get, but don't get the difference in the Buddha and Jesus Story. Buddha first was seeking a lot, failed , then became the best version of him after enlightenment right? Then started teaching etc and helped many people. So actualized , then realized. That's how I remember the story at least

Cool 😎 Really got me thinking with "people just want to be seen and resonate" as well

@HojoDifference self-realize and self-actualize for you? Non-native speaker asking..

Ok. Sounds about right. Wanna play co-op later on steam? New patch for game "You exist, carry on, that's about it" is online. Looking for some new friends to play with have been playing it alone for an eternity

@Joshe Why did you delete the rest of your post? That was the truly interesting part for me. It's luckily still visible because of Joseph's quote This really clicked for me. No game is superior to any other game, everybody just playing his role. This attitude will help me to be more open, tolerant and loving towards others

John C Lilly. Programming and metaprogramming.

So, according to you, life is what? A 🐧 with a baseball cap?🧢

I started to write an answer, then I realized that I don't know the answer to question 1) I thought it's freedom, total presence in the moment, being free of conditioned mind. But then I was like...it is REALLY what I believe is the highest possible achievement? I mean, do I truly, truly feel that? Is that what I strive for in life? So... 1) don't know 2) don't know 3) three 🍎 and a 🍌

"In your own words" LOL.

I very rarely consume any social media content for the reasons in last post. If the videos were more like yours, that might change.

I played Skyrim twice, it was that good. Now this game is far better than Skyrim...

What you're talking about? I thought: awesome, there's a guy that just takes a headset, puts himself in front of a camera and just talks from his heart. Just does it. Without all the superficiality that so many content producers show, without the need for superiority, without the need to prove to others what an awesome person he is. Just doing it. Wished I could just do that like you. Plus: not only like how, but also what you said

@James123 @Joseph Maynor Ok guys your lovely interaction made me click on the YouTube link in Joseph's signature. I also have the feeling that you're a good guy. Kudos for doing the videos and expressing yourself. You got me sentimental when you said "Doing the video not from a perspective of beauty or truth, but love. I think what a lot of people are missing is love, actually". I got sentimental because I think you're right.

Are you truly interested in her? If yes, go and approach her. Find out what she feels for you. If you're not interested in her, doesn't matter if she's receptive for you. If it's hard for you to approach her because of fear of rejection, because of your past experience and your current perception of yourself, ask you this: How much does it matter if she will potentially reject you when you are already rejecting yourself? Because if your interested in her, but you don't follow your feelings, that's what you are already doing. (Credit to Joe Hudson I saw him pointing this out in a coaching)

Definitions are arbitrary, the words are interchangable. I think of function. Something that is, and something that obseves what is.

I am also surprised - again and again - how much people take his SUBJECTIVE experience with sample size of ONE as god given truths. He's IMO quite deep in his stories and projections

@Hojo Like your description @Entrepreneur I would say: A more "conscious" person is more aware of the existence of ... consciousness So you get more aware of what exists, and you get more aware that you are aware. So, let's see if that created more confusion:D

Nice

Main character of course But the main character is aware, that in this story, he's just a tiny little thing compared to the infinity of the world. He's a humble main character that knows his limitations and the power of the world. Ever played Skyrim? Have fun being God's bitch.