Schizophonia

It looks very good

In reality even men want long-term relationships the vast majority of the time.

The video gives the idea that men can't express their emotions, but I believe the truth is that men pretend to have more emotions than they actually do because they believe they'll be let down if they're too stoic/self-centered. And they're surprised when they see that they get more results by being detached. We could look at this from a perspective of non-duality, the law of attraction, etc, but more simply, to revisit the story of evolution, men are supposed to carry the weight of a tribe's survival on their shoulders. There's a demanding/authoritarian collective (the tribe) that automatically propels men into the phallic position where they are most comfortable because they evolved in it. In a modern liberal society, it's the opposite; nothing goes right for you; you have to look for a job, look for a wife, etc which, quite logically, pushes men to become more feminine (the most feminine men, with the most gender issues, are all from countries without strong community and/or family structures, particularly Anglo-Saxon countries) and, by extension, to assume that this pattern also works for finding a girlfriend. Except that women are individuals and their brains are still in the paleolithic period, and a real man tends towards a state of detachment, stoicism, because he is crushed by the weight of the community and his own survival, his own impulses. The complete opposite of a liberal civilization where, in addition, men are disconnected from their impulses and true desires because of a puritanical cultural heritage.

No ban hammer scares Frenchy Wily. Batman theme

As a reminder @Natasha Tori Maru has bdsm fantasies. Great idea from Leo to give her the warning points hammer What could possibly go wrong

I am a potato

Estrogen treatment for bigger breast and biggers emotions.

Can you give an exemple if you don't mind 🤔👺 I insist on having specific examples, as much as possible, to target the limiting beliefs that generate wacky behavior. I don't know if that's it, but for example: OK, when I'm anorexic (I think that) it pushes people to be nice to me, whereas if I'm healthy they'll allow themselves to be harsher "because after all it's okay, she can handle it"; something like that. Something that also comes to mind is the belief that physical maturity is the abandonment of innocence. A slightly chubby girl who loves to cook and eat cakes 🤗🤗🤗 is also very "innocent" and cute, even if she's overweight and full of estrogen. Even a guy, even a virile guy! There are even plenty of kind and simple androgenous rugby players. The "softness" frequency isn't systematically linked to physical appearance. It is you who are experiencing a frequency of control that is the opposite of innocence. Maybe, indeed, if that's what happens when you're anorexic, people are a little more lenient with you, and they'd be more harsh with you if you're healthy because "she's healthy now anyway," even if it sounds a bit paranoid, but you'll gain a lot more in the exchange. Because suddenly, you can socialize more (because you no longer need to police yourself about your diet and your physique); you can easily develop a social circle who like you and then maybe get a boyfriend (more difficult, but honestly, it's the same everywhere, and you're not ugly at all, so with a little effort, it won't be too complicated, eheh). I see. Good 👺

I hope it doesn't trigger, but I would like to know if it says you something. Indeed you may appear less "cute" in the photo you looks healthy in the sense that given that you are healthy, you appeal less "energetical charity"; you makes use want to save you less, because there isn't something to "save anymore". The question then becomes how to attract attention, enjoy as a woman in general, without being in an emergency situation; and this strategy is adult female sexuality. And it's there, in genital sexuality (in the sense of Freud's stage of psychosexual development), where there is the most pleasure, the most love. That is to say, okay, when I see photos where you're skinny, I have a reflex to find you cute, to hug you, etc.; but that's poor, it's like giving 5 euros to a homeless person. Whereas if you were healthy and this time you act more (you can always play with slightly childish postures; women are generally more like that anyway) in a mature way, that is to say, for example, by keeping a journal of yourself where you wear pretty dresses, where you smile, etc. So here you'll be playing at a clearly higher energy level, but because this time people will want to hug you/caress you voraciously, make love to you, etc. Sorry if I sound grievous, but in the end, we always come back to archaic, universal sexual issues. I haven't read much about anorexia but I remember i read that it's essentially a fixation on childish strategies, which is in line with my idea. Not necessarily prohibiting yourself from playing at "being saved," but adding more "voracious" masks to your persona that will make you tend towards a naturally "bigger" and healthier character; if what I'm saying makes sense. A bit like with food when you leanr to eat more healthy: don't remove the pleasure foods you're attached to; just add salad on the side.

Ditto

Can you give examples if you don't mind

I respond tomorrow I'm not forcing myself, I'm just curious. A mixture of savior syndrome when it comes to women, and my clairvoyant Inspector Gadget game. I guess

Yea but I'm racist so I only eat white baguettes.

Can you explain what you mean by being in danger/vulnerable No pb eheh

Worked for what

Projecting

Tell me if I trigger things, if you want details...

I write this because I am probably mirroring you, in the more masculine polarity automatically.

You look better when you're healthy, the photo in 2023. Idk if it's that but you can also be cute, fragile even being normal or overweight. It's not like you need to be skinny to appear cute, and therefore attract, if not be perceived, that way; it's an illusion, if that's what you're looking for. Otherwise, you can also try to detach yourself from this identity, this "type of emptiness" for something else. For example, less "cute" and more "sexy." Both are possible, even overlapping; you can play with several masks at once depending on the context.

Have fun looking at people's avatars. Ofc. Otherwise i I would have already manifested love glory and beauty

Too bad 👺

@Judy2 You're so cute and you wake up my savior syndrome when i see the photos. You deserve to feel good and be pampered by a good social group and/or man, according to your wishs. Stop wasting your time on food; I assure you, it's a complete waste of time, and you gain absolutely nothing from it (unless you believe you need to be like that to be entitled to a similar level of attention or something like that). The photos are old but you said you "relapsed" so I imagine you're skinny again Eating more should also greatly reduce your stress by dampening stress hormones (QED) and boosting the hormonal cascade.

Someone who plans ahead

Yes exactly ! The feeling of excitement, liberation, pleasure sought through death is actually in theses places. Maybe you like being sent to a bad image of your physique for this very reason, but it's a last resort; it's kind of lame to go in that direction I don't want to take you there. It's better, I think, to say "okay, actually I'm quite pretty 🤗" and dare to move the game towards something more "Boemian," creative, sensitive, playful, etc. Better than settling for its schizoid structure and laughing, or else coming off sarcastic stuff. It can be funny in a bdsm game lol but well. What am I saying. Yes

No, a true alpha male knows how to be compassionate. No, nothing beats the French country baguette.