Schizophonia

Ok

Thailand looks super for a vacation; not too expensive but with good infrastructure, varied cuisine, fruit, calm and safe, lots of different views, great nature, temples, cannabis is basically legal... It's the France of Asia, I want to go there.

Was it a recipe ? Oven is good too

@Sugarcoat my paradise

yea yea 💀

Nofap increases motivation to find someone or just be proactive in life in general.

"Pussy torture" 💀

Is it the opposite? You say when you treat sex like a performance, you don't enjoy it/you don't enjoy it badly.

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What's exciting is using her as an object over which I have complete power; it doesn't have to be sadistic/mean, it can be as simple as taking her missionary against a wall, putting my hand in her hair, then "singing my tune," lol. A woman can also be dominant, for example, an aggressive cowgirl; that can be good too. Gosh i need a girlfriend.

It's true.

Of course eheh.

I like being kissed huged etc because it makes me feel strong, but in your sentence it seemed about being at the fragile place. If you see what i mean.

It seems keto diet does the same btw.

Ahah. Too late 😏

There's nothing left to reduce if I already allow myself to strive for nothingness. I don't need someone to push me into submission; that would have the opposite effect (being submissive seems boring/demanding to me most of the time). On the other hand, the other (the maya in general, not necessarily women) becomes something that will systematically narcissify me, that will prevent me from returning to my emptiness. So I must ensure that the objects I'm exposed to are submissive, to eliminate the separation. Dont know if i'm clear.

To sleep well

I would say that sex (and love) is a karmic game, it's based on limiting beliefs; so looking at it objectively, it's just "raw chicken," as you would say, who do moves together. For example, we can imagine two people who play at "life is brutal" and therefore get together to have gentle, romantic sex that, for a limited time, puts an end to the evidence (libido = "death drive") that "life is brutal." "Life is brutal, "so" let's unite against this brutal world with a bouquet of roses between our teeth, blablabla..." Or, on the contrary, two people who have the belief that "people/the world are weak and mediocre who slow me down" and who get together to have we guess a more brutal sex. And so on in the infinity of the spectrum of belief that constitutes an ego.

@soos_mite_ah @RendHeaven I contemplate my fantasies a lot; the more detached and pragmatic I am in everyday life, physical and in the present moment, the more I can have very dominant or even sadistic kinks. I clearly noticed this correlation.

Yea i I suspected it 🤔 Pornography acts as a safety valve.

Yes i see well, i do that to ofc (👺) The realism of the video and the precision/personality of imagination.

Pornography may not be very ethical, but it doesn't change much. Maybe it could even prevent more rapes and other sexually related incidents.

Imagination is better but it's less easy. Just like watching tik tok instead of reading a book.

No, because it's not true. Most men don't need a "hug or a kiss," unless they're homosexual. What lies behind these kinds of allegations is the desire to victimize oneself, and what lies more subconsciously behind the victim position is its opposite polarity, which is the "hero"; it's a fixation on infantile narcissism. The goal of military service in some countries is to break this fixation in men. If you allow yourself to whine and victimize yourself because it's hard, a nasty corporal will come and humiliate you, or at least attack you in front of everyone, and punish you. Because you don't want to be "castrated," you will therefore agree to abandon the idea of victimizing yourself, your infantile fixation, and adopt a more rational and proactive phallic position. Unfortunately, military service has been abolished in most Western countries. Typically, without going into detail, subconscious reconfiguration techniques, typically within the framework of the Law of Attraction if you're into that, are basically a process of masculinization. You can't have a better life by assuming victimization; it's fundamentally contradictory; to be more powerful, you will therefore have to concentrate on the narcissistic rage you may feel by preventing yourself from emitting the idea of victimization; whether to yourself or others (which is the same thing, mirror effect all that). In fine it's all again about detachment.

@AION These two guys have a masculinity problem. Like in their look they have a normal degree of androgenity, but you feel in their vibe they are victims. I'm not going to listen to them.