Yimpa

Look at the mind from all different angles. Even the perspectives you deem as wrong or evil can be seen clearly. Not because you change the contents to fit how you need it to be, but because you see it for what it actually is. And, now, a word from ChatGPT:

You’re hallucinating everyone on here. Have a nice day!

Three points: 1) Every painful life experience is an opportunity to grow significantly. For example, a nasty breakup with a significant other. You can look at it from a victim mentality, as well as having a myriad of “what ifs” for what could’ve been done to prevent that breakup. On the other hand, you can introspect on what went wrong, zooming out and identifying patterns on how all your relationships have crumbled (not just focusing on the recent one), and work on addressing the core issues you’ve identified so that you can have healthier relationships moving forward. 2) You miss out on life by avoiding growing yourself and staying stuck in an unhealthy cycle. 3) STOP comparing your growth process to others’ standards. Your path is unique; trying to be like someone else is an endless tail chase. Consider how someone can be single and have healthy relationships, whereas another can be married and have corrupted relationships.

By suffering long enough, you’ll have no choice but to get the hell out of there. It’s also important to watch how your own mind does this to yourself.

That’s an alien!

No. Attaching yourself to the bald Russian man is also a trap.

There are infinite books out there. The Bible is just one of them. Notice how clinging onto the Bible as the only one truthful book is attachment. Your entire identity gets wrapped up in it. So you’re limiting yourself to only what the Bible tells you is true. Obviously, this example doesn’t just apply to the Bible. It can also be this forum.

No doubt whatsoever; nobody else to seek to confirm.

Now let’s work on challenging that assumption. No need to accept your mind working as shit. But no need to run away from it either. It seems personal because there is a strong meaning you associate with being shit.

Can be the opposite, though. There are times where chaos is preferred over silence. It is tricky. Perhaps the chaos is trying to tell you something. Not about you personally, but how your mind works. I say not about you personally, because how you use your mind can change and be more holistic.

@Osaid It looks like that bubble is a drug dealer. SpongeBoy is eyeballing that 5-MeO toad on the bubble dealer’s head

Another perspective. A woman will test you in implicit ways. She’ll see if you’re able to think for yourself and be your own person. Or are you putting on a facade that’s meant to keep her attention on you because you fear that she’ll get bored of you?

One way to look at it - are you are able to identify red (or even yellow) flags in your relationships? Do you set appropriate boundaries in response to those signals?

I’m not referring to spiritual identity. You don’t have to act a certain way to have a deep connection with another. Needing yourself or another to be a certain way is detrimental to building a strong relationship.

Autism is extremely complex. Try not to get too hung up on the stereotypes of what it is or let others project onto you what they think you are based on their assumptions. I’d recommend seeing a therapist who specializes with people on the autism spectrum to help guide you on discovering your authentic self. Realize that most, if not all, self-help and dating advice is geared towards neurotypical folks. When you are more grounded and understanding of your neurodiversity, you can take self-help advice and customize it to your own unique needs. But for now, it’s crucial you have a deep understanding of yourself first, beyond what society and culture has conditioned you with.

I would be very cautious if you are depending on another for happiness. Likewise, if the people you surround yourself with depend on you for happiness.

Rocky Balboa

Wrapping your identity over what you have while neglecting what you are is a trap.

Having an autistic girlfriend is going to be hella beautiful then Or take my lead and have multiple autistic relationships

Best to take what people say with a Grain of God.

I got a girl to sit in the passenger seat of my car today without even trying. When you stop trying to manipulate reality, shit just happens.

You can have one without the other if you’re like me. It’s called being asexual. I personally can have deep love and romantic interest for someone, but have absolutely no sexual desires for them. Quote from the Wiki: Huh… no wonder I’m on this forum with all you weirdos ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

Let her figure it out on her own. You don’t tell her what to do or correct her behavior. If she wants your advice, she will ask you directly. If she opens up, share your own experiences if it connects with her experience.

Maybe you typed the wrong number. Maybe you have dyslexia. Try calling her.