Yimpa

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  1. @28 cm unbuffed that ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ implies that you’re open to that possibility
  2. Did you meet him during a trip?
  3. Clever, I didn’t think of that as an option! A deep relationship will change the entire course of your life. You’ll discover that for yourself
  4. Is it more accurate to say that you’re looking for short-term relationships and friends with benefits?
  5. I feel that. I tend to fall into limerence when I discover someone really attractive.
  6. Observing your mind is huge. Learning to notice when you’re doubting yourself is huge. Not by telling yourself it’s wrong or bad to have doubts, but to simply be aware of what is fueling that doubt. If you’re doubting why you’re doubting, I doubt you figured it out!
  7. Pros and cons list https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/pros-and-cons-list
  8. Aww, that’s sweet. I’ve never been called a Greek myth before
  9. The problem is having this fantastical goal of acquiring a girlfriend or a boyfriend. “I need to be in an intimate relationship.” Why? You need to be in touch with why you want one in the first place. Will they complete a part of you that is lacking? Is it due to social pressure from friends and/or family? Is it to show her off like a sports car?
  10. Having your hand near a girl’s shoulder does do wonders
  11. The aliens finally consumed Leo, himself, as a psychedelic.
  12. Yes, I can jerk off to myself when I imagine a beautiful, attractive woman.
  13. And yet you are no longer a child anymore. You don’t have to keep living with that story. Talk to your childhood self with love and compassion, and tell him he is good enough.
  14. Why does no one ask how to make the mind louder? I want it to be so fucking loud that it wakes me up!!
  15. I met the most beautiful autistic woman recently who has a huge heart and an emotional and psychic landscape that is far beyond neurotypical. If that isn’t perfection, then I don’t know what isn’t
  16. Part I: https://www.actualized.org/insights/gaslighting-masterclass Part II:
  17. @Princess Arabia I opened that thread just now and experienced more than just math. There‘s more than meets the eye.
  18. The Mind does want to understand itself, but it can also do so in ways that are counterproductive. Because of this, we assume that Mind is a problem that needs to be rid of. However, pushing Mind away is what separates us further from Love. What is stopping Love from also expressing imperfection, dead, normal, dysfunction, terrible? Could it be that the very things we Hate are actually important to Love?