Sandhu

@AION No, there are some instances but It's usually because Muslims don't have exclusive imagery of prophet Muhammad. But there are all sorts of other mystical things people experience all the times

Good looks, success, being social and confidant, Alpha male and creating opportunities for meeting girls often. Better if you're in control of the environment.

@sdaFunny, I just googled "dating in Pakistan " and this this lead came up. Yeah the situation is sick and despecible. I'm planning on to move to some big developed city after making enough money to be able to do so. But I'm afraid how will I be able settle there, big new cities feel so overwhelming, I've never lived in a big city. My current city is like 60k max people. BTW how is the situation right now for you.

LoL. I'd have taken advantage of such situation but then maybe you're not sex deprived.

Thanks

Take notes and review them once in a while۔ Pro tip: take very very short notes. It will be easy to take and review.

@AION Interestingly enough I already use Top down attention mode to stop myself from validation seeking and for anxiety coping and I've harnessed it very well. It also give you clarity of mind, confidence and control.

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@AION Thanks. Cheers!

@AION I'm waiting for you to drop remaining notes. Whenever you have time. I appreciate it very much.

Sometimes you need to find solutions by on your own. Most probably you're from a culture where pickup wouldn't work or even can be dangerous (like my situation). In less developed places, people are more into survival mode so a stranger approaching them seems like an implicit intrusion. In less developed places, where people are comparatively poor, for dating success your Status will matter the most other things are secondary because that's what women's survival demanding the most, they are desperate for raising their life standards. Get your finances together and be rich than your surroundings then see the magic ( telling you from experience). Though even you can still get success by faking your status but that's gonna be very shallow experiences. And lastly I can empathise with your situation. At 21, you are crazily horny and desperate and most of your thoughts will be about girls but mate don't do something stupid. You'll regret it for your life.

@AION Leo Gura is such a rare gem. His political takes are amazingly incredible. I appreciate his advice on more down to earth domains like dating, business and health. His ideas of more abstract and spiritual stuff shouldn't be swallowed blindly. As he advices his teachings are grist for your thinking/Contemplation mill not gospel. His ideas are radical and incomparable which make it very tricky for us to inquire.

I can't force others to be more mature and wise about their use of this forum. Admins can do that.

Why Not? This is exactly what I expect to get here.

We expect the forum to be a place aligned with Actualized.org values. Not a chit chat space for sloppy theories. There are other platforms for that. I assume that Actualized.org is a special niche platform for serious philosophy and serious Spirituality.

This place sometimes stink because of low epistemic standards. One would hope for high quality, well thought posts but also there is this point that most members are young and immature so what could be expected more. And for god sake speak more with less words.

More like BTS faces

Typical

I only have extreme risky sex stories.

I do pull ups, flying squats, diamond push ups, push ups and jogging.

Well,,, It's a crocodile doing its thing.

David Deida

I think he makes a great argument.

Islam is an Ideology. Ideologies are limiting. Think for yourself. Think from scratch. Use information for thinking not acting. Act on your original thinking.

Can't agree more, I have watched this video many many times. It's the best video Leo could have put out for young people. The Joy of sober Living.