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@Neill Bolton Thanks! So I got Humor and playfulness Love of learning Creativity, ingenuity, and originality Spirituality, sense of purpose, and faith Honesty, authenticity, and genuineness and except from the Creativity I think it fits in quite good

@Jay Brown @Thomas @JimmySmalls This might be a different point of view, but these are my thoughts: We humans were created by God, for him to have connection with us. He created us like him, and therefore we humans also want to connect with other humans, like us. Basically the life purpose is for us to connect with God and other people. In WHAT WAY we connect with other people if another kind of life-purpose if it's through teaching, managing, helping or understanding other humans. And it's different from person to person, but the Main purpose remains - To connect with other humans being.

Well then this might be the time to prioritize what you wanna do. It probably does not sound fun to live with your parents, but if you both have decided it's for the better that you separate, that's probably what you should do. Unless you have friend(s) who you can live at for a while? That might feel better than going home to your parents. But I don't think you should continue living with him, that might just be as a negative even if you've ended the relationship.

It can be due to both "Doesn't know" and "is completely aware". But the friendzone DOES HAPPEN. But I'd say it's quite easy to get out, you can always stop hanging out with the other person I find myself to friendzone girls as I either don't get their cues about hitting up or I'm simply not attracted to them, which I can realize not later on when I've been reading a lot of relationships/psychology and "pick up" . Most known to be friendzoned is guys, since many of them just complain on the internet. But due to the fact that women as well are getting friendzoned we'll be using X and Y. Y is in love with X ever since they saw each other. Y started becoming friends with X and they hang out with each other. It is possible that X started figuring out that Y might have been attracted to X. But that does not always happen. If Y never TRULY makes a move onto X "in-time" X will just drop the thought of Y being attracted to X and not think about it anymore. If Y decides to make a move later on to X it might be too late, and in most cases X will just say something like "it might ruin our friendship" and decides it's not worth it. How Y responds is A HUGE DEAL. If Y goes like "why, what's wrong with me" That just confirms X's thoughts of Y being needy - which is negative. If Y goes like: Ok, that's fine. X might start thinking about why it's ok, is X not good enough for Y. This might change how X think about Y and they MIGHT get together. Tldr; Yes, friendzone does happen for both genders. It's like you thought, due to the mixed signals and lack of true intentions one person might get friendzoned.

@Donnie Could it be due to the fact that black women never really has been "beauty idols". The overwhelming part of models for example are white, at least as far I'm concerned. This do unconscious effect to the society that the most beautiful women are white, which is definitely not always the case. And then I think that @8LanguageStud have done a great guess as well

@Rocky It's not just that you are seeing "the wrong girls". I mean what type of girls you like? Go to the places they hang out and meet new people. I don't think this is about the nationality itself, rather just the "boring" type of someone from the same country, but I bet there are girls you like from your country, just that you haven't met

@misko55 Ah okay then it's quite hard to do I thought you had like 10 minute walk - 40 min train or something like that Well I wish you luck no matter what you do

@misko55 Is there any chance you can work on the blog while commuting?

@Argue Read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose And what @The Son said is also good

@Sarah_Flagg Hey Sarah! This sounds like the typical "Nice Guy". I DO REAAAAAALY recommend you and your husband to read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" - Robert Glover Do not be mislead by the title, I think this might be what you're looking for, and both of you might get together to an conclusion after it's been read/practiced. Whether this means a divorce or something that might strengthen your marriage I can't tell.

@Ray Do you mean like self-talking yourself so you feel good? Or you're asking to get better with women overall so you get more ONS/Relationships?

Hey @stalker First of all, I just wanna take out the introvert thingy. That is just bullshit/excuses. I am diagnosed with Light-Asperger and I LOVE to be alone. But I also LOVE to socialize with people. We humans were created to create connections with other people (according to me), so no matter what it says on the paper; Introvert, Asperger or any other diagnose. It's bullshit. I suppose you have read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, else do so! And with the abstract advices "be interested". It is said to be about, when the other person is talking about for example Football. Try this: Smile, and pay attention to what he says, is he cheering for Liverpool or Barcelona? And tell him something like this: "That sounds awesome! (if it does) I am not really interested in football, but it seems like you are a REAL fan of it". Here you can either expand your sentence by something like "So try and explain to me the rules and I might watch it with you when Y has their next game" or just leave it as is. Just a simple thing like this, will create a topic about football, which you maybe won't enjoy that much. But the other person will enjoy it and will like you more after that conversation. That might create a friendship which is about MORE than just the football, even if that's how you started Next time you meet this person, you can ask: Hey X, how is it going for Y? - X is the person's name, and Y is the team he was cheering for. The best way to get better with socializing with other people, is like Leo himself said. To socialize basically. And I am not talking about the "normal" socialize which you say doesn't work. Try new things. Switch things up. Say Hello to ANY person and introduce yourself like you usually would and then ask questions. Might go like this; "Hello! My name is X and I thought you have a really great taste of style and I just wanted to point it out. What's your name?" "Awwwwh, thanks that's very kind of you, my name is Z" "Nice to meet you Z, where are you going now? " Just something like this. After this conversation, go to another new person and switch it up. Don't ask questions, make statements. Hello! I'm sorry I had to run to catch up to you but I just had to say that if you have REALLY beautiful shoes, and I just wanted to talk to you. My name is X *reach out hand and greet* Nice to meet you Z, you seem like you are going to Yoga Class/Work/Gym whatever it might be. Don't try to make the usual boring "job interview questions". But try spicing it up. Instead of asking what the other person is working with, ask "So hey, what are you spending your time with most of the day?" Try and see what different things seems to give you the best response. And use these things in your upcoming interactions with new people WHILE also trying new things

@Sarah_Flagg I can't say whether or not these books fits in as I have not yet read them myself, so I might be totally wrong here But I'll give it a shot anyway... Art of Seduction - Robert Greene The Truth - Neil Strauss

@FindingPeace Wow, that comment Thanks for pointing that out, I needed to hear that personally @Driven Well what do you want to do?

@Ryan_047 There is nothing wrong to start working now, if you have the energy for it at least, it should not affect your school etc.

@hellothere So let me get this right. You are not really sickened by your relationship right NOW? But rather on how your relationship started? If that's the case just let it go.

@Galyna I already have that one , among with 140 others book that I haven't read yet hahha. I've got some sites for downloading free, but not sure I can link it on the forum so hehe... @Jawor You are absolutely right, I have no clue on what I want to do/achieve. And since I am that guy who always want to "save time" I also want to figure out what I want to do, as fast as possible. And until I have found that "one thing" I am still uncertain on what to do...

Charisma On Command, now a days they ain't so focused on the dating scene. But rather Charisma overall. GlobalSeducer, is pretty much a dude who writes stories when he's travelling around the world and picking up girls I think most like Models due to the fact that it's not about using some bad pickup lines which "guarantees to work". It is pretty much about becoming your self - your best self when picking up girls and overall in life. Ahh okay, but before you started taking action and/or meanwhile, what did you read at the time?

@Galyna Well, to improve I suppose you need to be aware of what you do/are. I live in Stockholm right now, however since I grew up in the north. In my opinion Stockholm is quite a big city, but still is a lovely place to live with the nature. I suppose it's all about perspective Even though I want to buy Leo's course, I don't have the resources to do so, at least not until I get a job/money. Depending on what you mean by a coach, that is something that I should be able to get in some-way with the state paying Do you have any tips on some good motivational books? I'll make sure to check out Leo's videos to make sure I don't miss any! Thanks for you help

Hey @Lynnel ! May I ask what you have used for researching this? Myself I have gone through some courses of CoC, SP, GS if you are familiar with any of them. I have also read some books, for example "Models, How To Attract Women Through Honesty" among others, most of these I consider quite good Do you have any more recommendations? I have checked out RSD and will read some of their articles and see if I like it.

Sex God Method by Daniel Rose is my recommendation