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@TheGod i dont deny that tits are very nice yuss sir

i doubt you can truly love someone and be happy and only care about sex keep lying to yourself, , call me weak, gay , nice guy , whatever i know what love is, i dont need you to tell me otherwise

No, but maybe im just not so shallow to only care about sex

Love her for the beautiful creature that she is, her personality, charisma, charm, beauty, her laugh, her humour, her soul. Theres a reason why women dont just jump into bed with any random guy if asks her for sex, she needs to feel his connection and charm and personality and humour and laugh and kindness and LOVE. you cant love another until you truly love yourself no matter what. sex is a celebration of the love already inside, you are giving to the woman not taking it from her, why do you think women love foreplay because its all about the sensual connection not just ' fucking her brains out" so go and that person you like, but dont have any expectation

@UnbornTao thank you i clicked on the wrong one

sure guys love sex but love at the same time even if you're not having it

just love yourself and love others and sex will happen your brain and body will no what to do, trust the universe

I dont care if your a virgin, I don't care you have high anxiety, low self esteem , struggle with social cues and can't relax when talking to a man or a woman. I think you're perfect exactly as you. If you make a social blunder or social mistake who cares you learn from it, you don't beat yourself up about, you had a go and you learnt something, if you made things awkward with the other person try to make amends but if they dont accept it move on. You're allowed to make mistakes no mater what. Just always remember to love yourself. When talking to a woman or man you go to give not what you can get out of it so much but you are giving to the other person, so stop making live about yourself so much, let go give yourself to the other person and not worry about what happens to you, make an idiot of yourself be bold, put yourself on the ;line. Talk to that person you like, i dare you i double dare. I believe in you no matter what anyone says, You are worthy of unconditional love no matter what. If you have an incel in the past forget about it, love other people and make amends you can totally give it another gp. Just alwys remmeber to LOVE YOURSELF NO MATER WHAT

True but self love is always where it starts. Self love is like socialising with steroids

their dorms are better than my uni accomodation.

@Girzo join a running club then I guess lol

Best thing is to go to social events where you have a common interest

I mean that you need a connection and chemistry for her to want to sleep with you, most women dont sleep with a guy after the first date that would make sex far too cheap and trivial, which is why it has to be built a bit first Sex is awesome but connection and chemistry must be built first, guys can have emotionless sex but thats not what it like for a woman she needs to feel the prior too really enjoy it. Sure we want to be attracted physically to our girl but can't date an appearance, you'd have nothing to talk about or do together, an airhead super model might be hot and fun to hook up with but she probably not a good conversationalist so you need to sacrifice some looks Take what im saying with a pinch of salt here , i meant love in the more general sense of having a good heart and not being so concerned with yourself. Of course the two aren't exclusive to one another You should always see yourself as worthy, even if you aren't where you want to be , how can a woman love a man that doesn't love himself, it would be like going into battle with a general that thought you were going to loose. Of course my prior points don't negate this, work on your appearance and fitness as well as personality

What do you have to offer the other person????? what does the person have to offer you?????? do you understand each other, do you have chemistry???? sex is the icing here theres a reason why a womans not just going to open her legs to you right from the get go, she needs to feel your LOVE , your authentic personality, your humour your charm and playfulness. Treat her like shes your equal not a god , she doesn't want you to grovel and tell her you're not worthy "oh please miss can you love me so I can love myself and feeel good" you think thats stupid well thats exactly what you're doing and why you get social anxiety when you talk to girls. How the helll can you talk to a girl if you don't think your good enough its basic logic , yet you self sabotage constantly. Always remember you're good enough it doesnt matter if you struggled with socialising and cues and have awkward moments in the past, put it all behind yourself whatever it is, go out there and talk to them........ they are waiting for you to come into their life and give yourself to them your beautiful goody authentic persoanlity. go get them tiger. make a fool of yourself take the plunge, you are not those arrogant arseholes that can't take no for an answer they are guys that are angry and miserable and bitter but all overly confident and thy are the toxic guys that hurt women...............but you are a lovely guy you just need to put yourself out there and be bold............... shes waiting for you

still friends from my best mate in denmark that i met when i was 19 at exchange program at my college and still best mates with my friends from uni one was i met in final year in shared house

i like girls that go to electronic music events, I'm very social and cosmopolitan and love to go to social mixers with a large variety of different people

lol why do you need a woman to validate you, no womans going to do that lol. You are perfect just as you are, no ifs no butts

we can sniff each other out i swear down i cant explain it logically but its like we can intuitively identify each other , even at raves with music blasting at full decibels and a very crowded room. I have a warm and friendly personality myself, I dont know if my autism makes me seem a bit boyish in some ways like a total goofball , I can be serious when i need to but deffo havent lost my playfullness where a lot of people just seem so serious and vanilla, had people call me cute. Right from the moment we see each other we lock eyes and she smiles massively and blushes although you cant see blushing in a rave setting though, sweet girls are just sooooooo easy to talk to, I dont vibe with other women, they might find me physically attractive but walk away pretty quickly when our personalities dont match. Sweet girls can be a bit more shy but it makes it easier to take the lead as their expectations arent so high you just have to calibrate to where they are at. That being said I cant vibe with a girl if she doesnt let any physical contact , I know that asexuality can be quite common in autistic women they dont like touch as much, I wouldn't rule out dating autistic women but she has to be sexual, I dont want a play date with a girl. So basically a woman with a warm and loving and friendly personality that is also sexual. I remember seeing a while back a female dating coach on youtube made a video on advice for autistic men I believe shes a psychotherapist and she said an autistic man should find a woman who is very affectionate because she will have the patient and understanding and will really take her time to get to know the real you if she likes you. If you go out enough and socialise you will find your personality type that you vibe with I can identify a sweet girl in seconds just by the way shes looking at me its not just a general flirtatious eyes , its like a really sweet look I can spot it every single time , im probably doing the same back to her which is why we vibe.

The dispatches trailer is highly disturbing, he is a bad man

got diagnosed at 21, sweet in personality ie warm , friendly , nice , affectionate

I like this side of RSD softer and promoting self love, nobody gets to dicatate your self worth I love it

Women don't get mad at you for trying your luck but back off when they aren't reciprocating / arent receptive

Do you read the terms and conditions ? No that's long and boring. Neither do voters they get the abbreviated rhetoric that is spouted by the politician that's overly idealistic

Make sure you are well rested , find some high quality friends that motivate you

Love is lack of resistance, fully embracing reality for what it is