thierry

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  1. Hello hello, does anyone has any solid advice on how to deal with a breakup without making some solid mistakes in his life ?

    what is the best way to deal with a Break up ? (As a Man if possible, I know I’m biased.)

    I’ve already watched Leo’s video. I would like some more advanced advice if someone think he has some.

    What is the healthiest way to deal with a serious very painful Breakup with a Woman you are crazy about ? 


  2. I’ve come to a point in my life where I wish I had never learned about Spiral dynamics in the first place. 

    I feel it’s limiting more than anything else.

    Even on the dating area. The idea that you have to find a girl close to you is toxic I think.

    Moreover I do not like how it subconsciously give a Scale of consciousness. 
     

    Leo studied spiral dynamics gives it credit and he is Turquoise. How convenient. 
     

    And à Jordan Peterson would be blue so 4stages down Leo ? 
     

    No all that spiral dynamics is BS. I’m working of deconstructing my mind out of it.

    But if it is useful to you, keep using it.

    I’m just posting this cause it starts irritating me anytime I see someone using spiral dynamic terms on the forum.


  3. Lol if there really are still doubters. Just go in your bathroom. Put your head under water until you can no more breath. Now understand that you could have survived 2-3min more if you could no put your head out of water. This 2-3min would be equivalent of 3lifetime of torture in your mind. Now just see how many people drown each years.

    Tadaaaa


  4. 1 minute ago, Osaid said:

    You don't have to be one, but you can be nice to one. If you make people happy, then they will make other people happy, which creates peace.

    Embodying love is good, but then how can you practically do that? Thinking about how loving you are is not love, it is just thinking. What can you do about it?

    I think peace can be simple. If you are in a pleasant mood, you will automatically interact with the things around you in a pleasant way. This can involve being nice to a cashier, or helping an injured kitten on a road. There is no need to think about how loving you are, when you are being loving.

    First thank for all the good tips. I love all of it except it misses one thing for me which is going down the rabbit hole. I want a very rich story. I Love all that you said and of course it will be part of my journey to embody all of it but I want more.