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Isn’t it just a limiting belief of yours that a guy can’t evolve in a functional way whilst not having sex ?

I would be so curious to see Ralston opening a girl

Peter Ralston. The guy is on the hero’s journey since he was a child.

yes, don’t overthink it, nothing happened ^^ you are making a big situation out of nothing really. act friendly as nothing happened if you want or joke about the fact that she did not add you back on insta, just go with the flow. Shut your mind and be relax.

For starting a conversation that’s really an issue of practice. The more you practice the best you will be at starting a conversation about anything. I myself am not the best at it. I was way better when I was younger. I spent so much time alone it has become unnatural for me too but as I practice I can feel my social skills coming back.

Yes talk to everybody in a friendly playful manner. You do not have to explicitely hit on women. You’ll naturally talk friendly to everybody, you can talk to women the same way you talk to men and maybe some naturally will like you. For example if you were right here about this girl you are talking about and she had an eye for you. The only thing you needed to start a sparkle was a friendly funny interaction and then that was done for having a first real date. You could have ask for her insta and ask her out.

@evgn and yes of course nothing in what you said tells me that she’s done with you. You can still talk to her. (but yes that’s a little bit weird she did not add you back if she sees who you are)

The insta profile is not the issue at all. She saw you irl. yes maybe she’s not that interested. Maybe she was a little interested and you could have create a better irl interaction with her which could have confort her interest but I don’t know 🤷‍♂️

Yes I know I had this fantasy when I started this work. That’s why I’m asking the question. I just now want to know what is really real. personally I have experience where the closer I was to God the hornier I was

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@evgn if one thing is sure is that you did not mess up cause your insta profile is not that good. maybe not the more confident way to add her on insta just after saying « hi » when you had the opportunity to talk to her more directly.

Yes I know. thanks guys for all replys, that’s really appreciated.

Yes he does not care, yet, you are able to see a video of him with thousands of people around him to see his tricks but of course he just does not care !

Okay I’m gonna play your game. If the guy is really materializing from nothing. Why does he wear this big dress with big handles which can be used for cheating. Why doesn’t he show his hand before and after with a simple T shirt? it is just obvious, if this guy really has the ability to materialize stuff, why doesn’t he make it obvious that he’s not cheating ? If I had real power the first thing would to make it obvious that I can’t cheat. The only reason he does not make it obvious that he’s not cheating is because he is cheating !! There is NO other explanation. tadaaaaa

No one has this ability, if anyone had this ability he would be more famous than Drake 1 day after he would be conscious of his power.

Guys are you serious ? You really believe in those bulls ? makes me question myself on how much I should trust you on the forum.. I mean it is just common sense, if he’s able to do materialization, why would he have to do this things with his hands ? Like really why ? Why this big handles ? why all this preparation ? Why all this sketch? Like really why the hell materialization would need the guy to move his hands like he’s some kind of magician ? Like really ? You really think as he’s moving his hands, something is appearing from thin air in his hands ?

It is actually very simple: -can you separate reality from the mind? -No

@meta_male I feel you very much on that one. Lots of people do not have an idea of what it is like to be torn up by rage from the inside. from my experience what helps is : -sport of course(any kind of sport, make sure you surpass yourself. The more you surpass yourself the calmer you are after :p) -cold shower -any kind of feminine energy (the most would be to have a classy loving girlfriend stroking your hair(or your head)) but I find that even just a real female friend is very helpful. -some medicine/nootropic: L Theanine, gingcko, and yes I found recently L tryptophan which works amazingly well on me and you can find other molecules(gaba …, do your research there really is a possibility for a crutch here) -and of course meditation yoga, all the spiritual classics can help.

If you are about meditation, I would say Eckhart Tolle is the best. The guy just devoted his whole life to « presence » I find Eckhart Tolle to be the best for me to relax and really connect to the present moment.

Here is to me after all the personal development work and reflection the best advice. this guy is a 29 old who struggles with life, especially with dating, I find his talks to be pretty inspiring as he keeps fighting every day for a better life and shows great vulnerability in his talks. In the end you really are very limited and all you can do is keep showing up and fighting every day. That’s all, everything else is mental masturbation. as even Leo is realizing, genetics play a very important role and there is no magic pill to transform completely. The secret to happiness to me is to be sure you are doing the best you can by showing up everyday to do the most as you can every day, that’s all you can do, that’s all you should do (Ps: notice the pure class of this sunglasses 😎 he is the real sigma to me, not even joking)

Are you planing to transcend sex completely ? I’m asking cause I’m curious if it is even possible. I mean does Sahdguru date ? I know eckart Tolle has a wife and most spiritual teacher have a sexual life but like I never really met an individual who we can say transcended sex. like did Ramana have sex ? for me that really is an interesting question and I would be really curious to know.

@Hojo the only strategic thinking was in restricting myself from going further. holding her hands and cuddling was natural and « going with the flow » as you say. @byte I do not know. That is the issue, I do not want to hurt her in any ways All I can say is that we already built deep trust in each other. as we were cuddling and things naturally were slipping into sexual territory I stepped back from her and started thinking. She asked me « what is there ? What are you thinking about? » I replied to her that « I’m feeling good with you but I have resistance due to the fact that you are 17 » which she replied a silent, then I told her « you can’t leave me alone on that one, you have to say something » then she said « I don’t know, I let you make the decisions » @TheCloud I am not creeping on her at all. She does not want to just bang an older dude. If it was the case she could already have done it with an other dude. The only things I’m scared of is -potentially breaking her heart. -my reputation

That is like saying to a homeless who can pay for one night at the hotel « a night at the hotel is not really what you want, what you want is a home » of course but a night at the hotel is still what he wants right now. I’m not arguing whether or not a man should pay for an of girl though, of course that might be counterproductive for your life, depends what you’re about.

Even if they don’t have other choice, they still want that. I’m sure a lot of guys know the girl is just playing and that does not bother them, they’re enjoying the game.