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Good point, I mean getting laid as attention from girls in any way people prefer (relationship, marriage, etc). It's all the same.

I've thought of this. It's seems as unlikely as dropping an accent or thinking in a new learned language, both are really hard things to do. But I will try it for the next day and tell you what happens.

Lol sometimes it feels like that

I became more patient, more understanding, less angry, less frustrated, less argumentative, more of a leader. Etc

What direction is the past? can you point to it?

@zazen can nonsense be reconciled with more nonsense? Of course not! As long as humans cling to silly ideological beliefs and false identities (religion, nationalism, politics) there will be conflict in the world.

If spirituality has made you see normies as more of a "problem" than you are not doing spirituality correctly (or need to keep going). Spirituality makes you feel more connected to the universe, including all people, and make it easier to deal with them. A normie is an average person. It's sort of a joke but it's similar as calling people "sheep". It's a term even Leo used in a video once, to mean anyone who isn't into actualized.org and the like.

Nevermind past lives, according to Leo, you were never even born into this one.

If you get a stage turquoise lady she can help your spiritual progress. I'm not sure where you can find one however.

If you have kids please don't start hacking away at their genitals because an old man in a robe told you too. Let them decide when they are older. If you find this offensive then check your bias and assumptions. What's wrong is wrong doesn't matter if "everyone is doing it".

Wear whatever you want. That literally means whatever you want and you are comfortable in. I personally give you permission. You will feel better. How would you know what I wear? I do wear that kinda shit occasionally. I like that sweater you showed.

Wear whatever the fuck you want and truly don't give a fuck about what others think. Look at rock stars, they dress insane yet get all the attention. Have a rock star attitude and you can wear whatever you want.

Hi players, at the risk of beating off a dead horse I'd like to share with you a one minute video of what I think is ONE example of perfect day game. Some of you might say these silly tricks won't work but the girl in the video is showing genuine interest and excitement. This is how you get a girls number, during the day at least. (At night you can be more sexual when you pick up). The things he does well is being calm and friendly (but not too smiley). The most important thing he does is being WAY MORE interested in his story (in this case his language training) than the girl. He's not trying to compliment her or flatter her. He's acting like she just some unimportant random girl. Because she is. I use these methods but I obviously use real things about myself, and they work great. Hope this helps! https://youtube.com/shorts/5t2v-KA9ppY?si=EODFIqIRz32L3v2N

It's what makes the forum great and unique. Imagine if the whole world operated like this!

You (and the majority of people) make life way too complicated. It's much easier to cut the root of the tree than try and cut each branch.

How come? Did you choose it?

Maybe "perfect" intimate deep connections are an ideal that you will never live up to. Maybe having a relationship is more like having a job. It's a completely necessary part of human survival with some parts you like (hopefully) other parts you don't like. Furthermore you have to work really hard to get what you want and the perfect job or woman doesn't just fall in your lap.

The problem is clinging to beliefs and identities all of which are inherently false. We are living in the dark ages like monkeys hitting each other with sticks.

Yes Islam is so logical and good for the world..... Kill you over a picture, circumcision, treating women like shit, homophobia, All religions are equally inane and an insult to intelligence albeit with some kernals of truth mixed in.

To counter Islamophobia in the Judeo-Christian West and bring the world one step closer to peace.

You only need to change if you are unhappy. So if you aren't happy then you MUST change simple as that. Happiness is the point of life. No kidding these don't work, this is stage red/stage blue level thinking. You catch more flies with honey than vinager

@The0Self great advice I'm gonna steal this stuff for sure. This is more "night game" right? What about during the day?

Only compared to some arbitrary previous generations. But who made them the standard to live up to? And sure maybe they were "tougher" but we're they happier? But maybe they were happier idk. Some younger generations are pretty sad and depressed. Just gotta work on your own happiness and forget the generation wars maybe

Awesome advice from everyone, @PurpleTreeif you don't like clubs there's other places to meet and bang women...I've met girls at the opera in the audience, got numbers, and hooked up later. Turns out they were out of town and were happy to have someone show them around. Another good place to hook up is conferences/training events at work, because everyone is out of town, looking to have fun after a boring conference, and aren't too worried about seeing you again after hooking up. Flight attendants are easy too cause they want to have fun while they are in a new city and usually fly out the next day. As others have mentioned, make friends so you have people to go to these events with.

A good one, David Pakan hosts a debate expert and gives advice on how to debate productively.... https://youtu.be/MsxbJJvj2eM?si=xtckMIEtaTzu71SJ