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another daygame session. was tired and went anyways to maintain streak. 3 openings. 2 indirect. last one was direct and was a very good openings, girl didn't hook, could have pushed it a little more but was tired so didn't do it. when was going back to my house a beautiful girl stared at me on the street. I kept walking and then decided to open her so waited for her to come but she never came to where I was. I should have gone back to open her. still good that I at least waited for her but it was a very good opportunity to leave it to chance. I got some approach anxiety cause didn't want her to see me go back just to open her, who cares? if girl was attracted she would probably love such a display of interest.
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another daygame session. did 5 openings in total. opening number 3 girl responded with a bad attitude I think because I was a little incongruent w her. that left me feeling bad did 2 more openings and last girl hooked w went for an instant date at a cafe after went for a walk to the park then to a bar for a drink and finally to my house, we had dinner and had sex! Third time I meet a girl doing daygame and have sex w her in the same day! I can't believe it, I wasn't expecting this at all it was key to not leave the last set and push it to see how far it could go, couple times thought about phone closing and leaving cause talk was a little boring but good that I pushed it to the end in a calibrated/scalated way
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Another daygame session. nothing remarkable. I didn't feel in the mood but went anyways and one of the direct openings was a super hot girl and even though I wasn't expecting her to hook because I wasn't in the mood I pushed through it until she left me. did at least 5 openings. at the end hanged out with 2 wings apolo and turi and did some shit talk while walking. I liked the idea of meeting with wings, do shit talk while walking and opening. ie: enjoy the time with wings and learn to do shit talk with people. I took that idea from Leo's video on pickup. take aways: - wings help me enjoy the process - shit talk is good, game is the ability to do shit talk in some sense - even If I don't feel in the right mood after work, good to push through it a little bit so I expand my comfort zone little by little
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Another daygame session. after work. first monday after coming back from vacations, I did minimum viable: 3 indirect openings, good thing is that the 3 were with girls I would fuck, 2 were super hot and beautiful. for the second one I asked her where is a cafe and I laughed at the stupidity of my question and didn't take it seriously, had a good time.
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@Vercingetorix thank you!
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Another DAYGAME session: 3 openings, bare minimum. Not much to highlight. I felt awesome at the end. If I keep doing this very same thing for couple weeks will become unstoppable
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yesterday night wen to wine tasting with some friends, I had a good time. took me out of my comfort zone but just a little bit I didn't push it too much out of my comfort and. I love the concept of doing activities where I get to the edge of my comfort zone but don't pass it, so I expand it from the inside rather than from the outside, ie: pushing past the point where I have confidence in my ability to handle the situation and can understand what's happening. this day(Saturday) I did daygame with wings, went to a cafe with my wings and went out at night! it was key to take a nap in the afternoon and devoting only socialization. If I have worked, studied or wanted to do other logical tasks I would not have had the energy to enjoy this day.
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Another daygame session. met some wings and didn't count all openings but were at least 6. best session so far. This thing about doing what ever I feel at the moment, ie: being honest, authentic and congruent is amazing. I am very polarizing, I show my intentions in a direct way and even feel very good about it. I WPP closed a 38 year old MILF that I found beautiful and it was a solid close, she was interested and agreed to go to a cafe another day
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another daygame session, 3.5 openings 1 indirect opening asking for a cafe. 2 direct openings one of the girls was short, she stopped and was very receptive, we had a nice talk and IG closed. tried to go to a cafe but she declined and told her we should go later, she was dubious about that but had a comfortable body language I doubt we may end up going on a date but I know she was attracted and I could fuck her. The other girl didn't seem very interested but was a funny interaction cause I first asked for a cafe and went away and 20 secs later came back to tell her I liked her, her body language didn't show interest so I said bye and she sayed "thank you", I love when Girls than you for opening them even if we don't hook. Opened the 4th girl and she cut me off, I had low energy and wasn't that interested in the girl so when she cut me My motivation to get to know her evaporated and said "ok", laughed and kept walking
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@Noahsteelers34 I disagree, if I would have waited for girls in my social circle to get attract to me I would still be a virgin. If you are good at social circle game great! but for people who don't then cold approaching is great for developing social skills. All of my sexual experiences have come from cold approaches and dating apps.
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Another daygame session, did 3 openings in total 2 indirect and one direct with a girl I really liked. this interaction went well on my side I vibed at a good level, girl was in a hurry and didn't seem much interested though so I let her go, I don't care attracting a girl that doesn't value such a good openings as I did. I'm a high value man, I go for what I want but if not available then I don't sweat it and move on
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Also 300 approaches in 5 months is a great number! you kicked ass
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it's very important to enjoy this shit. Otherwise you will quit. I really liked what @flowboy said about: "learn to get into a flow state by staying under your trigger boundary, then expanding it"
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Thanks for sharing your experience! I'm in my own journey with pickup as well. have you noticed any progress since you started? eg: maybe before you sounded very nervous and now you are able to be calm, make eye contact and enjoy a little more? if so then you are on the right path
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Today I did daygame. did 3 indirect openings asking for cafe recommendations and after did 3 direct openings. most important thing to keep in mind was: why am I doing this? to forge a strong character which I think is the most important thing I need right now to succeed in relationships and in business
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Today I did daygame, did 4 openings: one direct then opened 2 with indirect questions and while going back to the house opened a girl that was walking next to me and looked nice in a direct way. I feel good that I'm finally taking action, I'm rewiring by brain to get pleasure out of taking action, I'm creating a new identity, I'm a social man that talks with girls he likes everywhere he goes.
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Today I did daygame. was raining and went anyways because this is a priority so I must train even when it rains. I opened 3 girls in total. first one was with a casual question and I liked her so much that I left the interaction pumped. then I did 2 direct openings. the second one was a venezuelan girl of my type we had a 2 min interaction and IG closed. I went to a mall in mi neighborhood(Alto Palermo) which I used to think didn't have girls of my type because girls that go there belong to high income families and I don't connect with those types. however today I found 3 girls that I liked a lot. I'm working on braking lots of past assumptions that maybe incorrect. While walking I listened to tony robbins audiobook: awaken the Giant within, that really got me in the correct mindset.
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@Shakazulu 21!
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the part about being " unrealistically optimistic" is so true! I try to remember that myself. do you know who came up with that concept? also love that you live in a van!
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Loved av florida in downtown Buenos Aires. on a Friday at 5 pm its full of people. plenty of girls. I felt less anxious that in places with less people. also girls there are working class. which I like more than rich students of other neighborhoods.
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Today I did a daygame session, very good. 2 direct openings and 3 more asking casual questions
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I believe Leo, maybe a real risk we should be aware of. Also there is a lot of value that could be unlocked from psychedelic experiences. everything in life has a risk.
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I live in Buenos Aires, Argentina. it's a big city and government claims water quality is drinkable. I think they do a pretty good job however how safe is it in the long term to drink tap water in any major city and are water filters or bottled water actually better or it's just marketing?
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I gotta ask @Shakazulu, how many girls did you have sex with during those 4 years?
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Also the vibe in that place was of people that were well-off and now spent their time reading and thinking. that's not for me I'm 28 and still have to figure out my finances and relationships. Spending my time discussing about authors that are dead and reading for the sake of knowledge feels like a waste of time for me. I liked the topics discussed but the vibe was too snobby for my taste