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What @Something Funny is saying is true and you are exposing it @Princess Arabia. You are scared to ask a man on a date and you expect all men to not be scared. Because women value beauty more. Men value beauty too even as much as women. And when they got down they get hurt just as much as women do and it hurts their ego just as much. No one cares about mens egos tho. So the man is expected to ask pay and entertain on the date and the woman is just expected to be there because you cant dare hurt a womans feelings. But the mens is not cared for at all. Society has raised a bunch of feminine men and we are very sensitive.

Since beauty is my main egoic force I will refuse to ask a man on a date. If he rejects me I will be to upset to date again. Instead I speak in code languages with my eyes to signal that I am asking him. If he asks me however I will not go unless he pays for everything because he should value my time. If he dosent do this he is entitled because my time is valuable.

If a woman asked a man out and offered to split the bill he would double WOW on the spot. And he would be very attracted. That's dream girl material. He would say wow a real feminist.

@Princess Arabia Have you ever asked someone on a date and payed? Whats the ratio of paid dates to you paying? Its never happened to me in my entire life. Except when I had a gf. If men didnt ask women out we would die as a species, because women feel entitled to be asked out and entitled to have their dates paid for, which means men have to pay to spend time with women.

@Princess Arabia Thats why Sadhguru says dont hate a person for breaking your heart thank them waking you up.

@Something Funny What a man has to do for the woman Ask out possibly get humiliated mulitple times over years pay for date ask out for relationship Act like a pussy to her family She will tell you to change you will deny your own identity You will get married Have to beg for sex You will have to fundamentally live as a different person Give all your money She will stop liking you cause you changed your identity and are a shell slave of a man The woman will leave You will be a empty shell alone Great deal This is not how God made it. Woman should be begging for men.

@Something Funny Yes, literally if a man dosent ask a woman out the human race would implode. Men have to do EVERYTHING! Waste of fking time bro.

@Princess Arabia How are you using the word entitlement here? Like the man is saying he is entitled to your time without paying for it? Are you saying he has to pay for your time and if he dosent he is entitled? That sounds like projection. You are saying you cant take me on a date unless you pay for me and if you dont think thats okay you are entitled?

Donald Hoffman

Your only problems should and shouldn't. You have no free will. Should and shouldn't make you suffer a fabricated potential.

@Something Funny Thats just asking to get taken advantage of. You are saying the solution is to do whatever they want you to do. Im saying the opposite a simpler solution do what you want to. The discussion is how to act accordingly and your solution is to just act accordingly.

It remind of the story of buddha saving infinite beings and he turned around and there were infinite more to save and he said why?

@Princess Arabia I think we need to redefine date. Because people use it all the time for different interactions. If I ask a woman if she wants to go and eat thats not a date. If I ask a woman if we can get to know eachother that's not a date. If I specifically say you want to go on a date then that's a date. If we fuck and then go get food that's not a date. Anything thats not a date I'm not paying for.

@Something Funny Can you provide the simpler solution?

Yea its an insane amount of rules for one to even begin to decipher. How could you possibly expect a man to know all this. Its like we'll its a+b then no If its a+b+d then yes but if its a + b + e then no. What we need is true equality everyone pays for themselves unless someone is broken then everyone pays for them.

@Princess Arabia If your friend calls you out to eat dinner do you expect them to foot your bill by accepting the invitation to go out and eat?

Aka when you are fking talk as dirty as you can. You will stir the emotions up.

Paying or not will not make her have sex with you or not. If she want to have sex she will. So make her pay half to show her you are only interested in sex. If she dosent hook up she wasn't going to. I think the bigger thing is paying for her after. Women will feel like a prostitute if you give her money after sex if you made her pay before. A woman came over and brought weed and we had sex and when she was leaving and gave me her weed. I paid for the weed and she was upset that I paid for it cause she came for sex and left with money.

@Whitney Edwards I don't know about the supplement I hear he took his sons semen and put it in his own ball sack so he can keep a boner while he sleeps.

You have to be emotional manipulative if you are conciously playing the game of life. We don't know how social interactions work so we are learning. By learning you are being manipulative thats why you learn. Please get out of head that being aware and going towards a certain path is manipulation as a bad thing. The only reason you learn anything is to manipulate. Its part of life.

@Someone here Me too I specifically have had deja vu and I remembered the dream at the same time. Normally when it happens its completely mundane existence.

Schools there as a mask to create a voice in your head that you don't know how to control then shit on you and make the voice turn into a curse. Its a slavery device. What they teach is garbage and completely useless. Then they make up words like potential and make you think you are not using your body properly and to make you feel like you suck.

Deja vu is a little different. Its like you know you are repeating a time of life that you already lived. The word means already seen.

Artificial wallet to collect bribes.

Contemplation is dancing around the self. It cant show you what God is but you can use it to deconstruct the barrier between you and God. Once you see it you will lose the ability to contemplate. Contemplation has limits because its made up, like any other concept. Its like baseball you just sit there any play with your mind and every once and awhile you will hit a home run you didnt know you were aiming for. God is like the grand slam of all grand slams. Its like hitting a ball and the entirety of humanity comes to tell you they love you and you did something that no one knew was possible.You dont actually have to do anything to contemplate you just sit there and the mind will unravel itself. The reason a Guru or anyone hasnt been able to tell you what God is is because they literally cannot do it. Contemplation on what the guru said will do it. That means listening and sitting there and keep subtly bringing up what the person said. It takes 0 effort except for you guiding the contemplation. If you are actively thinking or telling your mind whats true if it says something crazy or absurd you are not doing it right. edit; On second thought I am realizing that nothing has limits even contemplation. Contemplation limits are its destruction, and that leads to God so contemplation is infinite. So the limits of contemplation are the realization of God.