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freeing yourself from karma. if you do morally corrupt things such as lying, exploiting others or self interested things such as eating unhealthy food because it serves your personal pleasure in the moment not only will it weigh on your conscience which will interrupt your peace of mind, it will also create future consequences that you have to deal with such as managing lies when they resurface far later, or facing health problem because of food choices. This is a clutter to the mind. So doing the right thing and being focused on pure action without self interested intent prevents future mental baggage. For example if you work on a business and you're overly focused on the outcome of the business that will occupy your mind a lot and stir up emotion once the outcome is not achieved. Instead pure doing is liberating to the mind!

Gandhi is proof that good men exist, although yes just because someone is a billionaire doesn't mean they're a good person

https://www.muscleandstrength.com/articles/gain-35lbs-in-6-weeks-naturally Thoughts on this ridiculous scam article he made in 2015 where he advices natural lifters to overtrain themselves just so he can make money himself? I'd be skeptical of listening to a guy with this track record, he's in it to make money regardless of if it helps you or misleads you and he's all about the surface looking good, he doesn't understand the depth at all.

Dr. Grande is completely mistaken on many of his takes, I can't speak as to his definitions of narcissism and other topics but he posts many videos where he offers verdicts on criminal cases without putting much research into the cases at all. For example the Jack Denmo rape case where Dr Grande made a video recently claiming he believes Jack Denmo is innocent even though he left out all the evidence that point toward Jack Denmo being guilty. I'd take whatever he says with a spoonful of salt.

Do you get banned for talking about stuff like that?

You might want to look into Jung's idea of the anima/animus. The idea that we project our inner feminine ideal onto women as men and that this is why they have that higher energy you describe. Overtime that energy will get disproven to you, the woman is not as perfect as she seems, because what you're being pulled to is an illusion of sorts. The more intact the illusion the stronger the magical pull. The more you see her as an actual flawed person, truly, the less that magical divine pull will exist. However, there can be a different level of attraction that's built on true intimacy instead of idealization. But that's something that has to be carefully built within the relationship.

Highly agreed with you

Are you sure that's not what he did? I heard his son is donating his balls to him next video.

Yeah that's a blunt way to capture it but there's something to it. I'd say most people are stuck in that state which is why meeting someone who's genuinely really good at something is pretty rare. I had some insight into this once when I talked with a guy who's a really skilled musician. When he told me that he doesn't practice endlessly all day because that would create a bunch of bad habits but that he was thoughtful with his practice, such as stopping when he noticed he was starting to make too many mistakes as to not ingrain them into his playing it make me reconsider my career as a musician and as a gamer. I basically practiced being a mediocre gamer lol.

This is correct, you need deliberate practice. Which is easier said than done! I played a ton of video games and I never got good at them,

Not necessarily, you can have more or less health, it's not either or.

Then we agree. I never said that infinity can't be red, I just said infinity can't be finite. I accept the idea that infinity could appear as red and that red being something finite is an illusion. But my point is just that something actually being finite is contradictive to true infinity. At the same time, Elliott used infinity to collapse the difference between free will and everything being predetermined, which I argue doesn't work because if everything genuinely happens, in other words if free will and reality being predetermined both are true, then infinity has to contain finite scenarios, and that's contradictive to what infinity means.

In which case my point is that if that's how you define reality then determinism and free will can't be true at the same time.

Infinity can't just be red unless red is the exact same thing as infinity, in which case red is not finite by definition but just infinity appearing as red, a learned language is irrelevant for this distinciton. Elliott said every scenario happens and then I asked what about the scenario that is non infinity because that clearly shows that if every scenario happens, then non infinite scenarios also have to happen, these can't be contained within infinity because they're per definition not infinity. As such every scenario doesn't happen. Free will and determinism can't happen at the same time, you can claim that determinism is happening and that it takes the appearance of free will but not that free will and determinism both are true because they contradict each other. The idea of free will is that you can choose your path forward, you can choose how you influence things and it's not predetermined beyond your control.

The issue is that if infinity can be non infinity, then it is not infinity anymore. There's a difference between infinity appearing as non infinity and actual non infinity which would mean literally not infinity by definition. So infinity itself can't be truly infinite in the way you're suggesting. There's a difference between unbounded time & space and conceptual unboundedness.

What about the scenario of there not being infinity and only a few scenarios happening?

Explain to me why Tony Huge decided to move to specifically the sex tourist spot #1 in the world to build his "family"?

Exactly, why would the tribe allow 1 man to hoard all the women, the men without women would just gang up and kill him to ensure they also get some. It just works today cause modern society buys you safety but you'll still face consequences. Also having multiple girlfriends is culturally dysfunctional in today's world, in most countries you'll be frowned upon, judged heavily and struggle to make normal friends who are not walking red flags, you essentially automatically become an outcast. On the note of Tony Huge that @LordFall mentioned, he's a living example of what type of person has multiple women. He uses money to exploit poor women in Thailand. Also he's close friends with Connor Murphy who's borderline psychotic and unhinged. There's nothing healthy about that group they just blast absurd amounts of steroids, make toxic content and abuse their power to pump & dump prostitutes. Yeah Tony Huges women are not girlfriends or high quality women even, they're prostitutes who he rents as girlfriends in Thailand cause he's on a power trip.. Also he's in trouble with the law in the US for dealing steroids, Ask yourself why he lives in the prostitution capital of the world? People like this view women like sex toys.

Well I guess if Im preaching that would make you my disciple.

All the power to you, for some women that will be 10/10, but that doesn't mean you'll ever find a relationship where there's no friction. My point is just that your stance seems to be leveling up, finding the highest score woman you can possibly find. But my point is that you can grow in a relationship, the woman being 10/10 is not about objective looks or who she is outside of the relationship as much as it being about who she is IN the relationship and my argument is that you can't know the truth in that regard without going deep.

It seems you haven't read any of my comments then, I've been having a long discussion with LordFall and I've been engaging with most of his points. On the contrary, many of the things I've said have just been straight up ignored. You're not exactly making yourself look better by continuing to behave in the way you are "it was better than yours" sounds like a child.

Let me flip your questioning, why do you deserve a 10/10 girl? Everything you said so far makes it seem like you deserve a shallow 6/10 girl who jumps from partner to partner, exploring the marketplace to find the wealthiest husband she can.

If you respond like that then why do you even participate in the discussion in the first place, it's a serious topic and you can't even provide a reason for why you disagree with what I said.

You guys are arguing for this guy to break up with his girlfriend based on one forum post with worries about the relationship. As if you can judge the situation like that, in my first post I made it clear my stance was he should give it some time instead of making a snap judgement. Youre arguing for separation over unity in favor of short term pleasure and adventure.

On the notion of MBTI and compatability I just want to mention briefly that I dont buy it as an argument in this context because you dont know the type of Patrick, or the girl. Type can be tricky to figure out and beyond that its common in compatability theory that intuitives arent just compatible with other intuitives, but that emotional and sexual compatability are results of complimentary judgement & perception functions respectively. In other words an ENFP for example would match well with an ISTP under that theory even though one is an intuitive and the other a sensor. In big 5 its also not as simple as openness matches with openness, it does but openness has multiple layers such as openness to experience vs ideas. And people who are different can actually drive growth in eachother, initial friction can be growing pains while initial smoothness can cause later friction. @LordFall