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be careful using the word projection, LordFall tends to get bogged down debating the definitions if you are not precise with one word in your argument, he uses it as a convenient way to avoid engaging with the actual argument and will avoid answering questions, but let's see if he steps up this time.

Interesting ideas but I’ll challenge them a bit because I’m curious what it’ll produce. How do you know the disgust factors are actually filtering as intended and not just repelling men who have certain standards or criteria that go beyond looks? For example if you have a “looksmaxxing” woman that attracts tons of flies and a couple golden flies, if the filtering qualities are genuinely attractive then why would they repell all the guys who are just looking to pump & dump & use you and who only care about looks, wouldnt these type of men be the most likely to stick around regardless of who you are and what youre doing while men who might want to commit & build a family might filter for something beneath the surface? Im suspecting the latter is what you were trying to get at but I think the naming “disgust factors” does your idea a disservice, but curious what youll respond!

You said this “These weren't polyamory chicks. Just regular old chicks. Like you said. Winged it. Didn't do it right. So here I am juggling four girls. Did I lie to them? I don't think they asked. But I surely didn't offer it up. ” what do you mean by played it right, they never knew about the others? And btw what you described is lying by omission, just because they didnt ask if you had other girlfriends doesnt mean you didnt lie..

Do you feel remorse about how you handled that? I mean you basically cheated on 4 women and tricked them into a relationship on false premises, that is the type of thing that can create a trauma in them that makes it hard for them to trust men again.

Exactly. I can think of a few problems at the top of my head: 1, coherent parenting, each person is going to have a different idea of how to parent, getting everyone on the same page is going to be more difficult the more people you have which is why in bigger companies for example you need multiple roles to manage, lead & unify the team. 2, jealousy / tensions within the group, some tasks are gonna be disproportionally less enjoyable and the person who has to carry that will breed resentment if you dont have some kind of task rotation system. Beyond this jealousy & competitiveness in between the women can grow and create dram. How are you going to have time maintaining connection & spending 1 on 1 quality time with multiple women while working and raising kids, if a woman gets downprioritized theyll suffer ans feel neglected and jealous. 3. Societal/cultural friction, almost no matter where you go, the kid will face judgement from peers when he tells his friends in school he has 4 moms. Other families will avoid your family and view your influence as potentially harmful to their child. Creates an innecessary bullying target etc. You also have to deal with the extended families of the women, whats cheistmas dinner gonna be like when your 4 wives families all are gathered together, how likely is it they will look happily at your setup? 4. Money/logistical problems: if each woman works theyre gonna be away a lot most likely which defeats the purpose of the coparenting, if they dont work you have to provide for them which means you have to work more which means you have less time for the women and children which creates problems as mentioned above. there are probably more problems but just at the top of my head

You're describing something akin to Stoicism, I don't entirely disagree but you have to actually accomplish things in the external world as well, not just master your mind and thoughts, but yes inner mastery is a big part of happiness for sure!

u think its setting good standard for a consciousness forum that the mod is ragebaiting people and trolling?

You are taking a bunch of different arrangements and lumping them into one category. Theres a big difference between two couples dating eachother and 1 guy having 3 wives. This is a big problem with these type of liberal ideologies, they greenwash purely ego driven behaviour under the guise of progressiveness by calling everything freedom.

Thats not a racist exploitation trope thats how a large amount of one man multiple women arrangements look in reality, powerless women becoming entirely dependant on a man with power, often from poor countries or too young to know better.

That’s all good, I apologize for my side of that too, I got overly triggered by something that wasnt as big a deal as I made it there.

Thinking more than one will satisfy you is an ego trap, its like a rich person thinking another million will make them happier. Id bet all my belongings on that almost everyone who wants 3 girlfriends/wives want this to feel powerful themselves, not because its in the best interest of those women, so thats already not love.

You can go to a poor country and abuse your power there to get multiple women, good luck.

@Natasha Tori Maru I might have clashed with you in other threads but in fhis thread I dont think you did anything wrong as far as I can tell, arguably you were almost too forgiving & patient given Inliytened was also repeatedly hitting on you despite you trying to have a serious conversation. I agree with your analysis in that: Inliytened did applogize for the way he worded it, but the way he worded it was just him showing his true colors and his behaviour that followed support this. He was more or less ragebaiting with his comments, he literally told me to dig up the question for him from the post of mine he replied to, not because he didnt know the question but because he wanted to make me do it for him, that rubbed me the wrong way and is why I wanted to block him, which I cant.

What do you mean by that you wanna be there?

LordFalls perspective is not new its a power fantasy sold in redpill circles. The 3 women who are all supposed to be okay with sharing the one guy, definition of ego trip.

Why are you calling him a troll when hes clearly not, i dont understand how you work

I enjoyed your posts so it wasnt all in vain, sobering voice in here

It was actually not meant to be a tease about your misspelling lol, I just also didn't remember how his name is spelled so I used your spelling

Bro "inlightened" can't even answer a simple question, did you read the entire thread?

You're something worse than a virgin, you're a man who attach your sense of self worth to the amount of girls you're having sex with, one is not enough for you, you need many to not feel weak and small.

I agree, but could you be more specific what you're referring to?

There's a difference between "we are boys" and "we are men", boy energy is the immature masculine. Boy energy is appropriate in a locker room full of 14-15 year olds boys, you can't expect other people to adapt & give your inner boy a voice in a forum for adults, especially to women a grown man acting like an immature boy is creepy, you frame it as if a thread about recounting memories of all the crazy places you've fucked girls is a mature form of self expression but it's not it's just immature

yeah thanks for the tutorial, seems like you're right that it's not allowed to ignore moderators.

Why don't you answer questions?

Alright, how do I block people on this forum? I was thinking about blocking you so I don't have to read your posts on this forum anymore. Id rather not exert energy on reading your writings anymore if you can't even answer a simple question.