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Give me some money, books, a minimalist house, some tea and leave me alone.

Some models that I find interesting: Levels of Consciousness by Frederick Dodson. Meta-States Model by Michael Hall. Matrix Model by Michael Hall.

The map is not the territory. But there are more accurate maps than others. One thing that just keeps me thinking about stages is the behaviors, emotions and perspectives on reality within each stage. Assuming that a human can become "100% Turquoise" is pure nonsense. It's more realistic to teach people how to move within the spectrum and manage themselves within each stage without attaching a human to a specific stage.

Tell me your experiences. I want to test it.

It doesn't need to be all about women at all. You can choose to be a monk, romance artist, pickup artist or whatever. It's just a perspective

@Phil King Great way to put it, a potential client. Thanks ?

It’s not entirely related, but as I said earlier, he will not give all the information with free content.

So stop it and don’t listen to him anymore. Search for what you like and apply it ?

@rnd He’s literally giving you a chance to get results and build a brand. You need to bite the bullet and test for yourself.

@rnd It’s the game. How would you sell it? If he’s selling something to people who wants business results, he will talk about results and performance. It doesn’t take the value of the content when he’s “bragging” about it. (If it’s true, why not talk about it?)

@Lila9 ?

@Tenebroso I appreciate your POV. Thanks for the discussion. Be open to new mental models ❤️

@Twentyfirst When I say follow, I mean you will live your life with gratitude that she was in your life one day.

@Lila9 I appreciate you, thanks. God knows ❤️

@Tenebroso I’m not telling young men to do nothing with their lives and just love women. I encourage men to be polymaths, extraordinary visionaries, inventors and reality engineers. You’ll never find a theory of everything regarding female behavior. I know what is missing here: A clear/precise description of what is LOVE and what it means to LOVE. Our society lacks LOVE these days, that’s why our philosophy, architecture, music and engineering is deteriorating. Lack of beauty and love.

@mr_engineer Now I’m understanding the “engineer” in your nickname. Are you an engineer? If so, dude, I’m on STEM also. (Computer Scientist) You have a map of reality so rigid about women and you believe it fucking hard. You wouldn’t believe how hard-working/intelligent girls I’ve met on clubs. Architects, Engineers, Designers, Nurses. I’m talking about stunning woman. (Search for @provocateurpoa on Instagram). You don’t need to go to a club. Question your map of reality. I encourage you to read: The Book of Not Knowing - Peter Ralston The Alabaster Girl - Zan Perrion Final question: Do you know where your type of woman live? Generalization is fucking dangerous.

Mature masculinity is our goal here. We don’t care about pills, MGTOWs, incels or whatever it is that puts you on victim mode. That’s our war, to be mature/healthy/stoic toward the world and love. That’s what a mature man do in a crazy world: help, teach, love and deliver true value. We don’t need more men on Reddit complaining about women. We need more strong, lovable, stoic, genius man building reality/society.

What I’m telling you to do probably is confronting your mental models about reality. Test what is counter-intuitive. Direct experience is king.

@Tenebroso Loving women doesn’t mean that all women will love yourself. You as a man need to get above that and LOVE will get you there. Do you need women who date drug dealers? Let them be. Just love all them, you’ll get what you deserve. Stop watching all redpill content, what women likes or not, preferences, drop all that because it is fucking yourself. Instagram is not reality. Go to places, talk to women in real life, do daygame, enjoy being with women and love them. Man, just let it go. You will need to let go of all darkness and hate towards women. You’ll feel something shine inside of yourself. Be open to that possibility.

@mr_engineer Do you think all women behave in the same way regarding dating? I’m curious about your mental model.

Another powerful excerpt:

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Controlling each other and resentment is not about love. It's about survival/agenda. I agree. What if strength is about not controlling and loving unconditionally? Imagine that: You LOVE a woman so profoundly that if she wants to leave you, you support her in doing that. Do you imagine a man like that? Redpills will call yourself a cuck. MGTOWs will laugh at you. Pickup Artists will argue about that. But YOU... YOU understand what you're doing.

@Tenebroso I appreciate it. When I was in the beginning of the book, I was thinking that it is pure garbage and nonsense. LOVE is not about being a pussy, weak, needy, fool. You'll have your shit together. What really changes is your relating to women/feminine energy. You'll reach a point of full understading and it'll result in pure love. Men are lost these days because they don't develop their masculine side and neither the feminine side.

@Salvijus That is amazing because to love someone else you have to generate that love internally and give it to them. You're literally creating feminine energy, putting out there and receiving back again, making a perpetual flow of love and delight.