Sugarcoat

Poor guy is stuck in nothingness void I can tell by his profile

Now That’s funny to me?

Bruh out of all the things you could’ve replied you want a pic

These kind of men seem very “easy” to me All you gotta do is be a little feminine, not a bitch and not too ugly, basically “play along with it” and there you have them not so attractive imo although he seems very wise and an extraordinary human otherwise I bet there is a lot to learn from him!

You don’t deal with it. Simple

What is gender to you?

you think you wouldn’t have shame around your sexuality if you became a woman lol?

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I was reading a little about non duality Then I noticed this subtle depressed feeling And I wondered why it’s making me depressed Then it hit me that non duality is about what ALREADY is So it’s not that it’s making me depressed It’s that I’m ALREADY depressed bam

There’s no fucking end to this mind I swear? the second I feel I’ve gotten in touch with anything real and tangible boom another layer of mind tension dissolves bruh

Mmm I agree. Sometimes conceptual insights or contemplations happen by themselves so all this “nuance and complexity “ can reveal itself spontaneously so I’ll just let this be

Interesting . That’s unique indeed : ) When you say “ having sex with someone below your standard” what do you mean? I mean what is the reason for having sex with someone? You must be attracted to them right? So if you’re attracted to someone then they aren’t “below your standard” , because then your “standard” is just some idea you have and isn’t actually what you actually are attracted to. Or you mean having sex with someone simply because of being horny and not even attracted to them?

I agree. And also requiring “unconditional love” from someone is in a sense just another form of conditional love

maybe seeing humor in it could help?

I see I see i feel op is in a different situation tho also considering his age but different perspectives can have something to them for sure

Thanks for helping me keep up with society ??

You confirmed my suspicions , i thought how could one write so elegantly something’s off

@Salvijus hmm idk. I lowkey feel like “putting your awareness” on something is just your mind enhancing something. You can’t move or direct awareness. That’s mental activity not activity of awareness. Things can move change adjust grow decrease but awareness itself is just unchanged

Yea but what does controlling your life start with?

That’s a hard question to answer i believe this desire to control others comes from your own sense of helplessness in being able to get what you want regarding something id say you can either when this control freak appears, notice your own sense of helplessness, get a little panicky about in the sense of “I need to get my shit together” and redirect this control freak towards yourself and use the negativity as fuel or you could just go along with this desire to control and let it play itself out, all the frustration and the behaviors and it might reveal something to you

Maybe you just need a break from it all and go spend some time in solitude

Is it working for you ? ?

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I’ve been wondering about this. Does awareness ever “increase” or is it just that something else “decreases “ and unravels so it’s more apparent ? but yes there’s always more deepening . It’s so unpredictable and unexpected and genius

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